Aww clumsy    I'm so, so sorry.     I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but time really does make things better.    You're in my thoughts xxx

Oh Clumsy So , so sorry. My heart hurts for you.

thank you x

so much to sort tomorrow with funeral arrangements. just want to curl up into oblivion

Clumsy

You just want the world to stop, don't you......I totally understand. x

The funeral arrangements will give something to focus on, but I imagine it still feels like something you don't want to face at the moment. Lots of love to you Clumsy, take care

Clumsy  Only just read this - I'm so sorry. No words can really give you much help - it's hard to know what to say. Feel free to off load on here ...................lots of willing ears and (cyber) shoulders to cry on!

So very sorry 

So sorry to hear that Clumsy. My love to you xxx

I haven't posted in here because I just don't know what to say... 

I am so sorry for you Clumsy xxxxx   

I am so very, very sorry for your loss Clumsycat My heart goes out to you and your family

keep looking at this pic when i was little ..long time ago...

Deepest condolences Clumsy  

Lovely photo.

Clumsy, I am so sorry.

I'm so sorry Clumsy, deepest condolences to you and your family x x

Just to say ....................that pic has me welling up. Awwwwwwwww Clumsy feel glad that you had a lovely relationship and lovely memories of your Dad.

I know it's so hard to lose a parent but you know that you had the best Dad - that's all 

So sorry for your loss Clumsy, the only words I have, is to try and make your tears, tears of remembering the happiness you had with your Dad and smile because of them....I am sure he would want you to remember him with smiles as well as tears... xxxxxx 

I`m so sorry Clumsycat.  My deepest condolences.  

That's a lovely photo to cherish, Clumsy.  Thinking of you

Really sorry. That's a lovely photograph , you're very like him .

So sorry for your loss Clumsy. Take some comfort that he's no longer suffering. 

So sorry for your loss Clumsy. 

Aww so sorry Clumsy. I remember when my own dad died suddenly in front of me over  30 years ago.It's still clear in my mind.I don't know if that's worse or not.

Oh and I have a shoebox and more full of family photos of my mum and dad! All our family  holidays etc..good times.

Clumsy, huge hugs for and your family hun. grieving is so hard but part of the healing process. Have been thinking of you since i read this (and waffled on) the other day and will continue to think of you.

Clumsy, it's like a brutal kick into your heart,whether it was sudden or "expected",I hope you can cope,however if you can't that's also allowed.

I am so sorry for your loss.I know your pain ,I buried my mum on Friday.Love ,thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Erin... my own mum passed 16 years ago.Ahh it's sad but then...that is life,new generations etc coming up .

I wil say that the death of both your parents is like a sad farewell,I feel that is more heart wrentching than anything.If  hopefully you had a great relationship with them both!

We read this at mum's funeral

When I come to the end of the road,

And the sun has set for me,

I want no rites in gloom-filled rooms,

Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little--but not too long,

And not with your head bowed low;

Remember the love that we once shared Miss me--but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all must take,

And each must go alone

It's all a part of the Master's plan,

A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,

Go to the friends we know, And busy your sorrows in doing good deeds.

Miss me - but let me go.

erin, that`s beautiful and very moving. 

Erin that's lovely and has me sitting in floods of tears.  We lost Mr Cinds father tonight.  

And you  Thankyou for being there it meant so much.

So sorry to hear that.

Aww Cinds ,my condolences  etc...sigh We have all been there.

Thanks Ladies.  Even though we'd been told it might be a matter of weeks.  We were there over lunch time and he was his feisty old self.  Got a phone call off sister in law at 3 asking me to go back, he was gone by 8.  I just feel so much for Mr Cinds it only 10 months since he lost his mother.  Life really is crap.

Death moves us all on...ah well!

It's fookin' not fair! Ju

st rage a bit...c'mon rant and kick!   Don't be British! This  is a family tragedy!

 Clumsy  Thinking of you .....  I know your pain - my Dad was my soulmate and left us suddenly ...  somedays it seems like yesterday to me  ... sometimes it is a distant memory ........  the pain subsides but the memories never go away ... stay strong

Cinds    sorry to hear about your FIL 

Oh Cinds all i can say is   he's got you and i know your hugs and support will help him! So even if you are feeling powerless in his (and your pain) know that just you being there is the world of support xx