I haven't slept with 4 but can wishful thinking be counted towards membership?,if so I'm in too.

No big deal in sleeping with many people, it's when you start shagging 'em that the trouble starts.


Otherwise it's quite astounding the number of people on here who are critical of HMs for being boring, and then as soon as one regails us with heartwarming stories about her sexual preferences,  amuses us with "buns up kneeling" party tricks, and a displays a variety of character moods they don't want to know.  Sometimes you just can't win.

It's not the sex talk GJ, it's her hypocrisy.

She is willing to discuss ANYTHING on TV, yet spent ages the other day trying to tell the HMs that she doesn't discuss her sex life or talk about sex with just anyone... Hello, you're on National TV!! And don't you know it...if a bloke talked like that he'd be called a perv....

What planet is she on...

I would hardly call them heartwarming stories

It's a very complex form of irony.

Impure thoughts? Tick, you're in

Done! 

Thanks,I'll have some more just to secure my membership*Goes to scour net *

oh!  thank you Spongey!!  

 I haven't been on here for a couple of days...  just popped on now and seen Ulrika being referred to as 4x4 made my stomach drop !    I am not particularly a fan of Ulrika's..     but referring to her as 4x4 constantly makes me wanna shut down my forum tab and laugh it off altogether!

For the record..   I should probably be called 2x2 on here then!  AND... if my husband had wanted a child that was naturally his...  I would then have been a 3x3!

So burn me now!

I'm also in the 'more than four' club.
I don't care if Ulrika or Makosi have had sex with a cast of thousands, it's up to them. It's just the hypocrisy from both of them that annoys me.

I detest the 4x4 tag. She was married to 3 of the fathers. The fourth walked away before the child was born.

Me too.

I agree 

I thought that was the second one. Then she married the bloke from the eligible millionaire show that she presented (supposed to be finding him a wife, but grabbed him for herself!). And now she's married to the fourth one.

I didn't put them in order. I just know she married 3 of the fathers. She is married to the father of the fourth child.

I feel a right dozy mare,I actually thought 4x4 was making reference to a jeep or something,finding it is actually about her children is infuriating ,low blow and very poor taste whoever came up with it originally .

Exactly it is horrible! So what she's slept with at least 4 men?!! At her age most people have!

I haven't.

I honestly thought she was called 4x4 cos that was the type of car she drives and it was some sort of reference to her being a bit of a yuppy snobby type..

Many half her age could double her score.

So did I Lee - as posted above
We are rubbish at all this stuff are we not?

Me too Isa,I had no idea it was a reference to her children.

That doesn't refer to how many she's had sex with, just how many she's had a child with. But so what? She pays her way, she can afford to have as many kids (with as many different men) as she likes.

Exactly Deman,she's supporting her children,how many kids and with whom she chooses to have them  is no ones business,using her children as a weapon to beat her is bang out of order imo.

Yay!

faith in forum restored!

I doubt Ulrika started out life thinking "I am going to have 4 children...  and I am going to have them to 4 different men"..    I know it certainly wasn't the way I imagined my life to go...  

but shit happens...   I am always aware of how "bad" it looks on paper...  that I have two children, with different fathers, and then a husband who is biologically not a father to either of them.   But my kids are loved...  and well brought up!   I have spent years having people make me feel ashamed of it...   well - no more!   So my life didn't follow the ideal template...   it doesn't make me a bad person, or my children any less wonderful!

Slate Ulrika for her behaviour by all means..    but to rename her something that is in reference to the way her family is made up is offensive... especially to any of us forum members who are in a similar position.

BUT, BUT, are you too in the dirty slags and slappers club

I can't join the +4 Club, or the 4x4 Club, but I've had 4 kids, so I don't mind being called a People Carrier.

Awwww Ditty   happy, healthy kids and the love of a good  man is all you need 
  Blizz I can always rely on you to cheer me up 

It is extremely offensive . what a horrible thing to call someone. Would a man be called the same thing?
Doubtful

It's about as offensive as calling John James "Crab Eyes" which a lot of people have enjoyed doing for the past 10 weeks.

I thought it was due to the car she drove.

Do you really think that?

ah well

You wouldn't object to being known as someone who has the eyes of a crab?

It is a lot better than being called a 4x4 because you have 4 children by 4 different partners. That is derogatory in the extreme,

as i said earlier issy..........coolio has alot of children by different women.......i think it's 6 children by 4 different women.......i've not seen one post slagging him off for it........not one post calling him 6x4.........so why the need to slag ulrika off for it?.....if it's good enough for one.........surely it's good enough for another?

vic and nick were talking about ulrika(shown on the h/l last night) and victor said.....'i dare you to call her 4x4'...to which nick said 'nah she's already..............'

So it's not extremely derogatory to make up a nick name which belittles someone's appearance?  Oh OK.

Indeed, and no one seemed to have been offended or bothered enough to mention it on this forum.  Funny how it is now a major issue.

tbh spider.........i think alot of people weren't aware why the 4x4 term is/was used to describe ulrika..........maybe that's why no one picked up on it?

*jumps in*

To be fair it was only 1 look

*jumps back out*