I used to love the chase too but I still chase cardi boy round the house from time to time (oh Matron)
quote:Originally posted by mary_bee:
I don't.
I prefer nice guys that look like they'd be bad but actually they're really lovely.
Yep, me too.
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:quote:Originally posted by Scrumtum:ur like a dude!!!!!!! they always want a girl they cant have... they love the challenge!quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:
For me its not so much a bad boy as a boy I can't haveI ignore all the nice available boys and go for the ones with the yeah you wish attitude
The thrill of it you mean
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Yeahhhh
I don't like being ignored though haha...so I end up getting annoyed by the chase
Yeah but good boys just arent as fun
Like right now (for the past year) I have been infatuated with someone who for anyone else would be a perfect boy, hes good looking, hes got a good job, he doesn't mess you around, hes really kind, a great laugh, good fun...but for me there are complications which make him pretty much the worst guy to go for. Yet I still want him because I know I can't.
On the other hand I have a nice boy asking me out who I tell I want to be friends with
because I could have him and I don't want him.
I love bad boy Sezer. 
quote:Originally posted by jonono:
I used to love the chase too but I still chase cardi boy round the house from time to time (oh Matron)
Hahaha
Good boys can be fun Trix 
, bad boys are just users 
. But if a girl chooses to go with a bad boy and gets hurt they only have themselves to blame, but as they say love is blind... good boys rule all the way .
, bad boys are just users . But if a girl chooses to go with a bad boy and gets hurt they only have themselves to blame, but as they say love is blind... good boys rule all the way .
I love nice boys with a trace of bad boy in them... It makes things exciting....quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Good boys can be fun Trix
quote:Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:I love nice boys with a trace of bad boy in them... It makes things exciting....quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Good boys can be fun Trix
, good boys are obviously going to have a bit of bad in them too which is good , but not really bad. the boy I want is a nice boy 
just a nice boy I can't have I did like a real bad boy last year though
saw him on thursday, and he was trying to be all chatty but I was just said hey and walked off. I can't look at him now without thinking "what was I doing 
" he was a total jerk.
DAMN that "choon" is stuck in me head now,
bad boy bad boy watcha gonna do, watcha gonna do when they come for you
bad boy bad boy watcha gonna do, watcha gonna do when they come for you
quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:
I did like a real bad boy last year though
, most bad boys are jerks though nothing new 
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but then the nice boys try to make you think they aren't keen and stop getting in touch 
quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:
but then the nice boys try to make you think they aren't keen and stop getting in touch
Good boys like to think things through, before they act. Bad boys don't think and it gets them into trouble
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I think good boys can be shy, I like a confident person to step up to me and talk not play stupid mind games...
Probably been said already, but I think a girl goes for bad boys because she thinks that she'll be the one to tame him or change him.
I like good guys. I can't be doing with drama to do with bad guys.
Good post darloboyquote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Good boys can be fun Trix
you are a good guy 
Never wanted a bad boy, never had a bad boy. I've never understood why some women are attracted to them and I'm not very tolerant of women who keep going back for more. I'm lucky and I married a good one. He makes me feel loved, respected and safe. He may not be the most exciting bloke in the world but we laugh a lot and have a very happy life.
quote:Originally posted by Marguerita:Good post darloboyquote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
Good boys can be fun Trix
Aah bless, thank you
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Oh I absolutely Luuuuuuuuuuuuurve my bad boy
quote:Originally posted by pepsi:
Oh I absolutely Luuuuuuuuuuuuurve my bad boy
BAD BOY BAD BOY WATCHA GONNA DO, hehe s just been on me telly box.....
quote:Originally posted by old hippy guy:
*disowns*
quote:Originally posted by old hippy guy:
OHG, you're a naughty boy not a bad boy, that's a totally different thing. Naughty but nice.
I found the challenge of my bad boy quite thrilling when I was 19, now I am 29 I am more than bored with it, wish he would grow up and I'm about 1 more pissed up weekend from packing my bags...again. I would advise all to go for the nice boy.
quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
I found the challenge of my bad boy quite thrilling when I was 19, now I am 29 I am more than bored with it, wish he would grow up and I'm about 1 more pissed up weekend from packing my bags...again. I would advise all to go for the nice boy.
quote:Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
I found the challenge of my bad boy quite thrilling when I was 19, now I am 29 I am more than bored with it, wish he would grow up and I'm about 1 more pissed up weekend from packing my bags...again. I would advise all to go for the nice boy.
Cheers Queen
Tupps saying of definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result has been ringing in my ears all week. 
Because they believe they can change us 
sounds like she likes the drama.quote:Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
a woman i work with is with a 'bad boy'.....well i say boy.....he's 41.....she's 45.....
he has 9 kids by 6 different women....treats her like crap.....in the 3 years i've worked with her he's kicked her out 3 times saying she's 'past her sell by date and he's moving a younger bird in'(which he has)...they're always rowing and she comes into work saying it's over....2 days later she's back with him....
2 years ago they were both arrested....him for beating the living daylights out of a 19 yr old friend of her son.....her for perverting the course of justice as she washed his blood stained clothes afterwards.....(he ended up with community service...charges against her were dropped)......she lives with him and her 14 yr old son.....
in one of their longer break ups....she went out with a really nice bloke....she dumped him cos he was 'boring and a tosser'.....this cos he brought her flowers after their first date....and in a matter of days she was back with the other bloke.....
their last break up....about a month ago....he kicked her and her son out after a row at 1am.....she had no money and he refused to get her a taxi.....so they both had to walk to her mates house to kip on the sofa....
after declaring that was it......a week later.......yep....she was back with him..
she's stupid.....
he's a knobcheese.....
her life is that pathetic she loves runnin after this dude while he uses her as a maid/regula ridin/food and a place to stay.
her poor son. he really got this chick whooped!!!
Bad boys
My friend has been married to one for 20 years, initially it was the 'bad boy image' she went for. 2 months ago he beat the crap out of her (again) on the green outside my house. Friday night it all kicked off again, heard the noise and went to see if she was alright, she was hanging onto a 2nd floor balcony after escaping from him, having been beaten around the head 3 times. Called the police, he drove off, when they arrived she told the police 'no comment'. I really really really don't get it.
My friend has been married to one for 20 years, initially it was the 'bad boy image' she went for. 2 months ago he beat the crap out of her (again) on the green outside my house. Friday night it all kicked off again, heard the noise and went to see if she was alright, she was hanging onto a 2nd floor balcony after escaping from him, having been beaten around the head 3 times. Called the police, he drove off, when they arrived she told the police 'no comment'. I really really really don't get it.
LMFAO @ 'sprinklings'. i feel u though. if they r too nice u think they are still shady... and 9/10 they are!quote:Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
I like there to be a middle ground i.e a nice boy with sprinklings of bad boy traits...
i tried it once, and gave up. i had no energy to keep goin.quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:
dudes have it harrrrrrd
quote:Originally posted by Scrumtum:i tried it once, and gave up. i had no energy to keep goin.quote:Originally posted by Trix-ster:
dudes have it harrrrrrd
my friends tried to tell me that once and im a loud azz outspoken person. and they were like 'he's just shy'.quote:Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
I think good boys can be shy, I like a confident person to step up to me and talk not play stupid mind games...
absolute trash. man was runnin game (a good one i might add) and thought i was his next jumpoff.
oh HELL NO!!!!!!!!
remember the quiet ones r tha worst!!!!!! same as them church people on sunday all praying n preachin, when the previous night they was all buckwild in the club doin the dutty wine with their dress up @ their waist....*smh*
dont trust em!!!!!!
quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:quote:Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
I found the challenge of my bad boy quite thrilling when I was 19, now I am 29 I am more than bored with it, wish he would grow up and I'm about 1 more pissed up weekend from packing my bags...again. I would advise all to go for the nice boy.
Cheers Queen
She has a point. Trust me, nice guys get a bad press for being dull but I really don't know why. I've been with my OH since we were 21 (17 years, bliddy hell!), but I can honestly say that bit's been largely trauma free and we've had a very happy life because of that. My mum was with my dad for 15 or so miserable years. He hit her, slept with all her friends and was generally a complete bastard to her. Then 22 years ago she met my step dad, who is the epitome of the nice guy, and left my dad. He treats her (and me) like a queen, she's secure and happy in her trauma free life. You never know, your bad boy may just grow up soon and thing's will work out for you, but if not, there are plenty of good men out there who will treat you right and give you a good happy life.
quote:Originally posted by Scrumtum:
same as them church people on sunday all praying n preachin, when the previous night they was all buckwild in the club doin the dutty wine with their dress up @ their waist....*smh*
dont trust em!!!!!!
PLEASE don't tell my parishioners
u bin wid dis dog for 10 years?????????quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
I found the challenge of my bad boy quite thrilling when I was 19, now I am 29 I am more than bored with it, wish he would grow up and I'm about 1 more pissed up weekend from packing my bags...again. I would advise all to go for the nice boy.
girl u wastin ur life!!!!!!!!!
On a break from my bad boy two years ago I went out with a lovely man, so nice but kept texting me asking me if I had a nice day, telling me what he had been up to, generally being a boyfriend, I didn't know what had hit me, thought he was being weird. My friends were crying out for me to realise that this is normal and what I had wasn't.
*bangs head against brick wall*
*bangs head against brick wall*
but y would they think that??? why bother with a dude that REALLY doesnt care about u after he's got ya in bed?quote:Originally posted by Bigdaddyostrich:
Because they believe they can change us
quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
On a break from my bad boy two years ago I went out with a lovely man, so nice but kept texting me asking me if I had a nice day, telling me what he had been up to, generally being a boyfriend, I didn't know what had hit me, thought he was being weird. My friends were crying out for me to realise that this is normal and what I had wasn't.
*bangs head against brick wall*
sounds a bit obsessive