I'd be firm but fair ..... that is the key.
I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings, as in all honesty, I don't think he means any harm .... but it's got to such an extent now with Noirin .... Imo, she should have nipped it in the bud
ages agoYou'd just have to say words to the effect of: You are a really nice guy and it's difficult for me to say this, but I feel it is only fair to tell you, I like having you as a friend, but nothing more.
The way he has been following her around lately .... that would really have pissed me off .... I would probably have ended up snapping at him.
She should have told him ages ago, in a nice round about way, to back off