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Originally posted by Cariad:

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Originally posted by jonono:

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Originally posted by Cariad:

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Originally posted by SazBomb:
Cariad, thats proper shocking

I know ... it was all his stuff, including his motorcycle helmet which I perched on top of the pile. And I left my business card just in case they were in any doubt who I was.

As it happens he's still with her and they now have two toddlers and I hope he's happy and contented and stays that way.

I don't. I hope she leaves him for someone else.

Nahhh..they have two little ones. I'd not want them to grow up with a once a week dad like mine did.
They say the best revenge is a life well lived. I think - all things considered - mine is pretty damn good right now.

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Originally posted by queenshaks:
Good for you Cosmo


What is wrong with these exes!

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Originally posted by queenshaks:
Good for you Cosmo


What is wrong with these exes!

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Originally posted by wonder:
....you look like a pilchard in that red top and lippy=dumped

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

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Originally posted by Cariad:

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Originally posted by wonder:
....you look like a pilchard in that red top and lippy=dumped

**jaw drops**

Erm..how is a pilchard red?

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Originally posted by ~Cosmopolitan~:
After the birth of my 1st child I left the hospital in my original size 10 jeans. I was chuffed to bits, happy with my new bubba and determined to shed the meagre half stone still attached to my waistline. (Yes, I know how lucky I was to drop the weight in the space of 10 days).

One month later my (now ex) hubby started nagging about my excess weight. On and on he went saying I was lardy and calling me chubby...I was 5'6", weighed bang on 9st 4lbs - hardly obese.

On our 1st night out he yelled across the bar: "Oi, sh*t legs, get your fat arse over here".

I departed with the now immortal "I may be very slightly overweight but I can rectify that. What are you gonna do about your 'effin fat bald head..?"

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

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Originally posted by pepsi:
Oh I have many from my ex

The main one that stuck in my mind was when he was doing his usual putting me down and shouting at me ... hewas being particularly nasty so I said to him "you are a total bastard" ... and he replied "yes I am...and that's all you deserve"

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

Bliddy hell Hoob.... thats almost the same as when I had my eldest. Apart from that the cocaine taking ex left me when I was 6 months preggers.

But after having her I was put in a room with another woman... I was really young, and she was alot older than me, and her and her baby were really really hairy (sorry, but they were).

She used to breast feed sitting in a chair with her legs on the bed, knees parted, facing me, with her full harvest festival on show.

Anyway, we exchanged pleasantries, and obviously the fact that "there was no father" came up. When her hubby (a short dumpy curly haired man, like Nigel off Eastenders) came to visit, I heard her whisper to him "that poor girl is on her own... whisper, whisper, whisper".

Her hubby the proceeded to pull his chair between our two beds, split the bouquet of flowers in two, gave us both a layer of the box of chocs, and bless him, he even tried to coo over my baby too.

Now I know this was not an act of malice, it was in fact really really sweet.... but it made me feel 100 times worse than I had.

What with their sympathy and my hormones... the baby blues kicked in pretty quick.

Twas fine after I discharged myself though!

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Originally posted by Soozy woo:

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww -I'm really sure that they meant well and the baby blues would have kicked in anyway. I think that's rather sweet TBH.

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

Bliddy hell Hoob.... thats almost the same as when I had my eldest. Apart from that the cocaine taking ex left me when I was 6 months preggers.

But after having her I was put in a room with another woman... I was really young, and she was alot older than me, and her and her baby were really really hairy (sorry, but they were).

She used to breast feed sitting in a chair with her legs on the bed, knees parted, facing me, with her full harvest festival on show.

Anyway, we exchanged pleasantries, and obviously the fact that "there was no father" came up. When her hubby (a short dumpy curly haired man, like Nigel off Eastenders) came to visit, I heard her whisper to him "that poor girl is on her own... whisper, whisper, whisper".

Her hubby the proceeded to pull his chair between our two beds, split the bouquet of flowers in two, gave us both a layer of the box of chocs, and bless him, he even tried to coo over my baby too.

Now I know this was not an act of malice, it was in fact really really sweet.... but it made me feel 100 times worse than I had.

What with their sympathy and my hormones... the baby blues kicked in pretty quick.

Twas fine after I discharged myself though!

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Originally posted by Duckypup:


Awww Ditty... that's made me cry.


I had the same hospital experience while very young too. No one shared their choccies but if they had I woould have felt the same as you.

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Duckypup:


Awww Ditty... that's made me cry.


I had the same hospital experience while very young too. No one shared their choccies but if they had I woould have felt the same as you.

You soft lump you!

Funny thing is... at the time my friends thought it was hilarious... that I'd been adopted by the hairy couple!

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
thinking about it, i think the most insulted i felt was when i just had my eldest son, i was single (having dumped my twat of an ex 2 weeks before after finding out he started taking cocaine...last straw!). when it was the dad's visiting time the midwife pulled the curtains round me

the hubby of the lady next to me opened them though and they invited me to share the choccies he bought for his wife

the next day when my brother picked me up, the same midwife assumed he was my partner and told him he should be ashamed of himself standing me up like that

Bliddy hell Hoob.... thats almost the same as when I had my eldest. Apart from that the cocaine taking ex left me when I was 6 months preggers.

But after having her I was put in a room with another woman... I was really young, and she was alot older than me, and her and her baby were really really hairy (sorry, but they were).

She used to breast feed sitting in a chair with her legs on the bed, knees parted, facing me, with her full harvest festival on show.

Anyway, we exchanged pleasantries, and obviously the fact that "there was no father" came up. When her hubby (a short dumpy curly haired man, like Nigel off Eastenders) came to visit, I heard her whisper to him "that poor girl is on her own... whisper, whisper, whisper".

Her hubby the proceeded to pull his chair between our two beds, split the bouquet of flowers in two, gave us both a layer of the box of chocs, and bless him, he even tried to coo over my baby too.

Now I know this was not an act of malice, it was in fact really really sweet.... but it made me feel 100 times worse than I had.

What with their sympathy and my hormones... the baby blues kicked in pretty quick.

Twas fine after I discharged myself though!

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Originally posted by Gypsie:
ohh ive had loads, take no notice but i remember this one cause i was just saying it on facebook the other day. Once a manager of a dodgy restaurant where i was working (who was pissed) offered me £50 to go upstairs with his friend.

I dont know if i was more offended that he thought i was a prostitute or the fact he only offered £50

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Originally posted by Gypsie:
ohh ive had loads, take no notice but i remember this one cause i was just saying it on facebook the other day. Once a manager of a dodgy restaurant where i was working (who was pissed) offered me £50 to go upstairs with his friend.

I dont know if i was more offended that he thought i was a prostitute or the fact he only offered £50

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Originally posted by Gypsie:
ohh ive had loads, take no notice but i remember this one cause i was just saying it on facebook the other day. Once a manager of a dodgy restaurant where i was working (who was pissed) offered me £50 to go upstairs with his friend.

I dont know if i was more offended that he thought i was a prostitute or the fact he only offered £50

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Originally posted by Gypsie:
god id charge much more than that

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

awww that's sweeeet...but i know what you mean x
"harvest festival"

being in hospital was the worst! you can literally feel the head patting, and they seem to try and give me more 'lessons' on how to feed baby and stuff...when the woman opposite me...at least 10 years older and 'happily married' was having difficulty breastfeeding but they never tried helping her...unless she asked for it . was quite patronising.
they wanted me to stay another night but i declined and left asap.

when i had my other son 6 years later i went home as soon as i could, midwives didn't argue with me LOL. i still missed the doctor who finale though
then my other brother came round to coo over baby and ordered me a kebab...with extra strong chilli sauce...which went well with my stitches and hemmoroid the numpty

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Originally posted by Pip*:

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Originally posted by Gypsie:
god id charge much more than that

So you should, you iz a classy lady

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

awww that's sweeeet...but i know what you mean x
"harvest festival"

being in hospital was the worst! you can literally feel the head patting, and they seem to try and give me more 'lessons' on how to feed baby and stuff...when the woman opposite me...at least 10 years older and 'happily married' was having difficulty breastfeeding but they never tried helping her...unless she asked for it . was quite patronising.
they wanted me to stay another night but i declined and left asap.

when i had my other son 6 years later i went home as soon as i could, midwives didn't argue with me LOL. i still missed the doctor who finale though
then my other brother came round to coo over baby and ordered me a kebab...with extra strong chilli sauce...which went well with my stitches and hemmoroid the numpty

Yep! I seemed to have to do a "competency test" before they'd let me go... and the nurses all raised their voices that little bit when addressing me.... as though I was a deaf toddler.

And again Yes. 5 yrs later when I had my son (with his father their... now my ex!)... I didn't stay in at all... discharged myself and was home for champers and a kebab!!!

SPooky!

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Originally posted by Gypsie:

pip have i had relations with you

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Originally posted by Pip*:

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Originally posted by Gypsie:

pip have i had relations with you

I can't believe you don't remember!
I kid of course, that is such a mean thing to happen to you though

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

dead spooky

except i'm still with my second baby's dad..for now

did you have chilli sauce though?

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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:

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Originally posted by Darthhoob:

dead spooky

except i'm still with my second baby's dad..for now

did you have chilli sauce though?

LOL! I upgraded... married a decent bloke!

And yes, of course I had chilli sauce.

Smarts doesn't it!