Hate watching films with hard hearted peeps, that have one eye on you looking for tears.....
Love watching a weepy, alone......and blubbering..............being allowed to dry your eyes....and carry on as normal...(still sniffing slightly, and thinking)
Awwwwwwwwwwww Syd - I am one of those hard hearted. In all honesty I'm not - but as a child it was drummed into me that my 'lovely' sister was the softie and I was the hard nosed cow because I tried to hide my tears while I cried quietly. For some reason I feel the need to keep up that assigned persona.
I married a real softie ..............he cries at the drop of a hat .............I'm always saying - 'shall I bring a towel down from the bathroom?' Sad really as - I often feel like crying too but ...................i have my assigned role!
I'm not a disturbed/traumatised person because of this but it's interesting how our roles are defined from an early age. Although I'm the youngest - I'm the 'supposedly strong' member of the family.