Generosity

Sense of humour

Non-possessiveness

An endearing personality

Very good answers and I agree with you both.
Ok then what are your absolute turnoffs ?

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Originally posted by Suzy:
Very good answers and I agree with you both.
Ok then what are your absolute turnoffs ?

Vanity

selfishness

farting in bed

and your best bits ..... and worst bits suzy?

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Originally posted by Rexi:
and your best bits ..... and worst bits suzy?

I have been thinking long and hard about this...
Intelligence,humour,kindness and honesty.

worst bits,intolerance,dishonesty and up their own bums.

Most attractive - Non-clingyness, independence and good personal hygeine

Turnoffs - Clingyness, poor hygeine and ignorance

Most attractive - ability to make me laugh, clean finger nails and shoes

Least attractive - a smoker, a big head (in the non rude sense)

Kindness and empathy.

Actually, I agree with Suzy -"Intelligence,humour,kindness and honesty." - They are the MOST important qualities to me too but I would put kindness first.

I could possibly cope with someone who wasn't as intelligent as I am, or who hadn't the same humour, but there is no way I could ever tolerate for one moment someone who was deliberately cruel - especially to animals.

for me, strength.
strength of charactor and decent muscles too!!

And I like a really big wotsit as well.

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Originally posted by Artymags:
And I like a really big wotsit as well.

oh you can't beat a really big wotsit!

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:


oh you can't beat a really big wotsit!

Now that isn't strictly true. I once had a BF with a really big wotsit who liked to have it beaten with a riding crop while being verbally abused.
He had to go though - in spite of the undoubted attractions of the big wotsit ! I'm not really the dominatrix sort. I'm only five foot one and don't look the part at all.
Besides I just couldn't take it seriously. I kept falling about laughing and my verbal abuse somehow got inventive and Shakespearian which made even him laugh.

Big wotsits make my eyes water.
One of my ex's was massive and never again. I don't like walking like I've been horse riding
I prefer an average wotsit...
non cheesy

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Originally posted by GaGaJoyJoy:
Big wotsits make my eyes water.
One of my ex's was massive and never again. I don't like walking like I've been horse riding
I prefer an average wotsit...
non cheesy

Well - when I say "big" it's the girth I'm really thinking about not the length.
Very long wotsits are extremely uncomfortable I agree.

Did you know we've actually got a snack in England called "Cheesy Wotsits" ?

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Originally posted by Artymags:

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:


oh you can't beat a really big wotsit!

Now that isn't strictly true.

i was thinking something similar when i wrote that!

sense of humour is usually enough for me to drop my knickers

well want to anyway

This thread has made me see Artymags in a whole new light

I'd like someone who can look after me, instead of me doing the looking after all the time..

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Originally posted by watchinittoomuch:
I'd like someone who can look after me, instead of me doing the looking after all the time..

I like the idea of that lots.
In reality I don't think I could sit back and let someone else do the looking after though. I think I have some kind of inbuilt thing that makes me want to look after those I love, and if I wasn't doing it, I'd feel a bit pointless.

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Originally posted by GaGaJoyJoy:

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Originally posted by watchinittoomuch:
I'd like someone who can look after me, instead of me doing the looking after all the time..

I like the idea of that lots.
In reality I don't think I could sit back and let someone else do the looking after though. I think I have some kind of inbuilt thing that makes me want to look after those I love, and if I wasn't doing it, I'd feel a bit pointless.

Hiya

I think I mean emotionally rather than literally...when I care for someone I enjoy spoiling them and making them feel loved, I'd just like someone to be able to lean on mentally...

He's Kind,loving, makes my laugh, a bit protective. In fact I don't know how I survived the 27 years before I met him .

Put offs: Clingy, needy and liers.

Self-confidence is important to me.
I don't care if a lady is slim or larger but I like her to be happy with the way she is.
I would rather be with someone who was larger and happy to be that way than someone slim who constantly moaned about being too fat.

Qualities: Sensitivity, Humour, Intelligence(especially of the emotional variety,)Tolerance, Fun-loving, Passionate
Turn-offs: Arrogance, Sefishness; Argumentativeness; Unresolved 'issues' Tattoos and piercings
And... I know this is shallow, but 'manly' phsyique is important, not body builder type,(another turnoff) but I just can't fancy little, skinny men for some reason. Oh and sh*t hot in the cot too lol

Sense of humour
Kindness
Sensitivity
Faithfulness is a must!

Big breasts ..lol

only joking ...

Most attractive - Good Personality over looks all the time , Kindness, Caring nature,GSOH,

Turnoffs-vain airhead bimbo types

i went out with this guy for about a year, who was the most generous, kind, funny, fun filled, feller I had ever met.
I ended up walking all over him (metaphorically). I realised i needed something more of a challenge. he ended up marrying the sweetest girl, and I was SO PLEASED for him. daft isn't it?!

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:

oh you can't beat a really big wotsit!

I would agree with you if you were talking about
cheesy Wotsits. I love sucking on a cheesy wotsit.

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:
i went out with this guy for about a year, who was the most generous, kind, funny, fun filled, feller I had ever met.
I ended up walking all over him (metaphorically). I realised i needed something more of a challenge. he ended up marrying the sweetest girl, and I was SO PLEASED for him. daft isn't it?!

So is your hubby a challenge then???

being kind, appreciating me, complimenting me and making me laugh

turn offs would be: cockiness, arrogance, selfishness, lies.

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Originally posted by Well-Wisher:

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:

oh you can't beat a really big wotsit!

I would agree with you if you were talking about
cheesy Wotsits. I love sucking on a cheesy wotsit.

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Originally posted by Artymags:

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Originally posted by BeerBelle:
i went out with this guy for about a year, who was the most generous, kind, funny, fun filled, feller I had ever met.
I ended up walking all over him (metaphorically). I realised i needed something more of a challenge. he ended up marrying the sweetest girl, and I was SO PLEASED for him. daft isn't it?!

So is your hubby a challenge then???

in all sorts of ways.