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Originally Posted by Cinds:
 
 

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

 

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.

Firstly, as I have said, I would never be filmed having sex.  The thought of it actually leaves me cold...  I don't understand why on earth people need or WANT to film it.  (And then watch themselves back!)  It's just not something that appeals to me.  But each to their own of course.

 

Secondly however, I have to ask this... Re; the BOLDED line above...  ^^^^^ Why are you the in control of the recordings?  I assume that you mean that you are the one who has the 'master copies,' or the only copies available.  Why has your husband not got control of them too?  Why are you in control of them?  

FM
Originally Posted by Rawky-Roo:

 

Wot they said N-Dubz aren't really my thing, but I do think Tulisa has talent, they've got where they are through their own hard work etc and weren't launched from some x-factor type thing.

 

 

you better not release any of 'our' videos Saz!!

 

Filming us dancing to S Club 7 is a very private thing GOT IT!!!

 

I wanna see that dancing to S Club video!

FM
Originally Posted by Cupcake:

Anyway, I'm off.  Time for tea.  So my ranting is over for the afternoon.    Everyone loves a good rant; I know *I* do, and everyone is entitled to their opinions including me!    

 

But I get that people aren't always going to be happy with my views.

 

So no offence intended.  And I DO appreciate and respect everyone's input and opinions and counter-arguments...  I just get pissed off sometimes, especially with 'celebs' I dislike.  

 

Catch ya later  

Really?. .you'd never notice

Mount Olympus *Olly*
Originally Posted by Renton:

Cos she's mucky AND a dominatrix

LOL.  Seriously though, I don't understand it.  If there's full trust, surely both partners in the relationship should get access to the sex tapes.   

 

I stand by what I said before, if you make a sex tape with ANYone, you do take that risk that they will show it to others when the relationships breaks down, and I know this sounds cynical, but most relationships do break down.  I would never take that risk.

FM
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:

Anyway, I'm off.  Time for tea.  So my ranting is over for the afternoon.    Everyone loves a good rant; I know *I* do, and everyone is entitled to their opinions including me!    

 

But I get that people aren't always going to be happy with my views.

 

So no offence intended.  And I DO appreciate and respect everyone's input and opinions and counter-arguments...  I just get pissed off sometimes, especially with 'celebs' I dislike.  

 

Catch ya later  

Really?. .you'd never notice

Stoppit! 

FM
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Renton:

Cos she's mucky AND a dominatrix

LOL.  Seriously though, I don't understand it.  If there's full trust, surely both partners in the relationship should get access to the sex tapes.   

 

I stand by what I said before, if you make a sex tape with ANYone, you do take that risk that they will show it to others when the relationships breaks down, and I know this sounds cynical, but most relationships do break down.  I would never take that risk.

Is that because you'd hate to be judged by others if it was leaked, or be thought of as a " little bint" ?

Like folk have already said, her mistake was to trust someone - the person who put the tape out there is the one who's acted badly in all of this I reckon.

FM
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:

Don't really know who Tulisa is so don't have any opinion on her talent for singing and tv stuff.

 

But, having seen the video, I would imagine she's got the lawyers on the case because she doesn't want the world and his wife to see how godawfully bad she is at the featured activity!

 

 

Hahahah!

FM
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:

Don't really know who Tulisa is so don't have any opinion on her talent for singing and tv stuff.

 

But, having seen the video, I would imagine she's got the lawyers on the case because she doesn't want the world and his wife to see how godawfully bad she is at the featured activity!

 

 

 

 

Does she have his willy in her mouth?

Never mind . . . .

Saint
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 
 

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

 

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.

Firstly, as I have said, I would never be filmed having sex.  The thought of it actually leaves me cold...  I don't understand why on earth people need or WANT to film it.  (And then watch themselves back!)  It's just not something that appeals to me.  But each to their own of course.

 

Secondly however, I have to ask this... Re; the BOLDED line above...  ^^^^^ Why are you the in control of the recordings?  I assume that you mean that you are the one who has the 'master copies,' or the only copies available.  Why has your husband not got control of them too?  Why are you in control of them?  

Like you say each to their own.  We like it, but everyone is different.  

 

And the reason I am in control of it is because he doesn't know I film it. 

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Renton:

I wud hate to see my sweaty arse thundering away at some poor unfortunate - probably with the odd fart thrown in

 YUK !!!

Oh fecking norah!    I laffed so much that I peed myself a little then Renton!

I hear there's a specialist market for that sort of video Cupcake

FM
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 
 

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

 

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.

Firstly, as I have said, I would never be filmed having sex.  The thought of it actually leaves me cold...  I don't understand why on earth people need or WANT to film it.  (And then watch themselves back!)  It's just not something that appeals to me.  But each to their own of course.

 

Secondly however, I have to ask this... Re; the BOLDED line above...  ^^^^^ Why are you the in control of the recordings?  I assume that you mean that you are the one who has the 'master copies,' or the only copies available.  Why has your husband not got control of them too?  Why are you in control of them?  

Like you say each to their own.  We like it, but everyone is different.  

 

And the reason I am in control of it is because he doesn't know I film it. 

 

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

Rawky-Roo
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 
 

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

 

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.

Firstly, as I have said, I would never be filmed having sex.  The thought of it actually leaves me cold...  I don't understand why on earth people need or WANT to film it.  (And then watch themselves back!)  It's just not something that appeals to me.  But each to their own of course.

 

Secondly however, I have to ask this... Re; the BOLDED line above...  ^^^^^ Why are you the in control of the recordings?  I assume that you mean that you are the one who has the 'master copies,' or the only copies available.  Why has your husband not got control of them too?  Why are you in control of them?  

Like you say each to their own.  We like it, but everyone is different.  

 

And the reason I am in control of it is because he doesn't know I film it. 

I hope your Mother aint reading this

Saint
Originally Posted by Slinkiwitch x:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Renton:

Cos she's mucky AND a dominatrix

LOL.  Seriously though, I don't understand it.  If there's full trust, surely both partners in the relationship should get access to the sex tapes.   

 

I stand by what I said before, if you make a sex tape with ANYone, you do take that risk that they will show it to others when the relationships breaks down, and I know this sounds cynical, but most relationships do break down.  I would never take that risk.

Is that because you'd hate to be judged by others if it was leaked, or be thought of as a " little bint" ?

Like folk have already said, her mistake was to trust someone - the person who put the tape out there is the one who's acted badly in all of this I reckon.

NONE of the above.  I simply wouldn't want the entire world being able to see me engaging in sexual activity and giving my partner oral sex!  Kind of obvious really.  Nothing to do with 'being judged' or being seen as a stupid bint.

FM
Originally Posted by Cinds:

Actually I am lying, of course he knows we are filming it, my point is, a woman is less likely to release a film of herself having sex than a man is.  Unless of course the woman is semi-famous and needs the exposure.

But I still don't get why only you get to control the video.  Do you think  your other half may release it and let people watch it if you split?  

FM
Last edited by Former Member
Originally Posted by Renton:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 
 

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

 

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.

Firstly, as I have said, I would never be filmed having sex.  The thought of it actually leaves me cold...  I don't understand why on earth people need or WANT to film it.  (And then watch themselves back!)  It's just not something that appeals to me.  But each to their own of course.

 

Secondly however, I have to ask this... Re; the BOLDED line above...  ^^^^^ Why are you the in control of the recordings?  I assume that you mean that you are the one who has the 'master copies,' or the only copies available.  Why has your husband not got control of them too?  Why are you in control of them?  

Like you say each to their own.  We like it, but everyone is different.  

 

And the reason I am in control of it is because he doesn't know I film it. 

I hope your Mother aint reading this

My mother would laugh at that.

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
 

Is that because you'd hate to be judged by others if it was leaked, or be thought of as a " little bint" ?

Like folk have already said, her mistake was to trust someone - the person who put the tape out there is the one who's acted badly in all of this I reckon.

NONE of the above.  I simply wouldn't want the entire world being able to see me engaging in sexual activity and giving my partner oral sex!  Kind of obvious really.  Nothing to do with 'being judged' or being seen as a stupid bint.

Fair dos. Maybe at the time she never gave a thought to the possibility of the relationship breaking down and the film going public though.

FM
Originally Posted by Slinkiwitch x:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
Originally Posted by Renton:

I wud hate to see my sweaty arse thundering away at some poor unfortunate - probably with the odd fart thrown in

 YUK !!!

Oh fecking norah!    I laffed so much that I peed myself a little then Renton!

I hear there's a specialist market for that sort of video Cupcake

  Cheeky.

 

You too Renton!

FM
Originally Posted by Slinkiwitch x:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
 

Is that because you'd hate to be judged by others if it was leaked, or be thought of as a " little bint" ?

Like folk have already said, her mistake was to trust someone - the person who put the tape out there is the one who's acted badly in all of this I reckon.

NONE of the above.  I simply wouldn't want the entire world being able to see me engaging in sexual activity and giving my partner oral sex!  Kind of obvious really.  Nothing to do with 'being judged' or being seen as a stupid bint.

Fair dos. Maybe at the time she never gave a thought to the possibility of the relationship breaking down and the film going public though.

Well I guess not.  I suppose I have been giving her a hard time really.  I just think that it's plain daft to make a sex tape, and not think of the consequences if/when the relationship breaks down.  I agree that the toad who released the film is the one in the wrong.  I just find it hard to feel sorry for her, because I think 'why are you surprised?  This was bound to happen.'   I am sure she was quite famous already when she did this.  I think it was only 2009.

FM
Originally Posted by Veggieburger:

Don't really know who Tulisa is so don't have any opinion on her talent for singing and tv stuff.

 

But, having seen the video, I would imagine she's got the lawyers on the case because she doesn't want the world and his wife to see how godawfully bad she is at the featured activity!

 

 

 

 

FM

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