"Never been the type to sit down and keep my mouth shut"

Firstly, I do think that she has talent.

Secondly, she's not the first and won't be the last person to put trust in a relationship. 

I'm not sure what the legal position is, but, if possible, I hope she sues his arse off and gets it on film.

Having seen the tape, I wouldn't say she's that talented.

I guess it's a matter of opinion, but I think that her and that group she was in (Ndubz) are crap.  And I would never ever ever in a million YEARS let anyone film me whilst having sex.  No matter how much I 'trusted' him.  

But that's just me.  If other people are happy to be filmed having sex; fine.  But don't cry off and act like the victim, and all upset, when your ex shows everyone what he has filmed.    Any woman who lets her B/F film her, is very naive if she thinks the video has NO CHANCE of ever being seen by anyone else.

Fine, that's your opinion. They've done quite well, so others like them, presumably.

As for acting the victim? She is the victim, in this case, and has every right to be upset about it. Hopefully others will learn from this, but it's a sad state of affairs when the innocent one gets all the blame.

No.  I don't buy Tulisa as a 'victim.'  She made a sex tape with her boyfriend with FULL CONSENT, and is now acting all upset and pissed off now that he has released it.  Like I said, how can anyone who makes a sex tape with a boyfriend, POSSIBLY think that it will never ever get seen by anyone else?  I have no sympathy for the silly bint at all.  I would NEVER make a sex tape, and anyone who does, has to accept the risk that it MAY be seen by people other than her and the man she was having sex with on the video.  

We will have to agree to differ I'm afraid Blizzie.

She's done nowt wrong. She was in a relationship so naturally got up to fruity things with him. Filming each other doing intimate things is a buzz for some, a little thrill, a little spicy if you will.

He's the complete dick here (no pun intended). Sure she may have performed the act after so was famous, but it was before she became an even bigger name.  This is why the guys done this. She's done the right thing by exposing him and she's actually done it in a very grown up way.

She is not at fault here.

N-Dubz were shit though.

Such a compassionate person. You're on a bit of a roll this afternoon. Has someone upset you or something? 

Have to disagree with her not being at fault.  She made the video, and took that risk that it may get out.  Like I said, I have no sympathy for her.  I can't even stand the silly bint anyway!

Yeah, you keep saying that.

She technically didn't make the video, seeing as the fella is the one holding the camera (i'm guessing its a camera phone).  At the time he probably had no intention of releasing it, it was something for them to share together. Sure he may have shown a couple of his mates and she probably did as well, but made sure that no-one else got hold of the footage.  They split up, she becomes a bigger name and the douche bag releases the video. He is the one at fault here.

Wot they said N-Dubz aren't really my thing, but I do think Tulisa has talent, they've got where they are through their own hard work etc and weren't launched from some x-factor type thing.

I'm not saying Tulisa is 'at fault' Rawky.  I haven't said that...  I am just saying if someone makes a video of themselves having sex, then don't be shocked and act like a 'victim' when the relationship finishes, and the video gets leaked.  The fact is that in a situation like this, the woman is ALWAYS going to come out looking bad.  Like Tulisa has.  She chose to make this video, even though she was already quite famous.  It was a risk she chose to take.   

Anyway, I'm off.  Time for tea.  So my ranting is over for the afternoon.    Everyone loves a good rant; I know *I* do, and everyone is entitled to their opinions including me!    

But I get that people aren't always going to be happy with my views.

So no offence intended.  And I DO appreciate and respect everyone's input and opinions and counter-arguments...  I just get pissed off sometimes, especially with 'celebs' I dislike.  

Catch ya later  

you better not release any of 'our' videos Saz!!

Filming us dancing to S Club 7 is a very private thing GOT IT!!!

Totally agree Lilibet.

Only to some people.

To others, the one who chose to release such a personal film will always be the one in the wrong.

Yup. Complete breach of trust . That's low.

Read more: http://www.3news.co.nz/Lawyers...t.aspx#ixzz1prpne0E6

Rawky, no one is going to want to watch those

I'd watch. 

Originally Posted by Rawky-Roo:

Originally Posted by SazBomb:

Originally Posted by Rawky-Roo:

you better not release any of 'our' videos Saz!!

 

Filming us dancing to S Club 7 is a very private thing GOT IT!!!

 

Rawky, no one is going to want to watch those

 

I'd watch. 

Pervert

There's gold in that there tie!

Saz has never looked better.

Or more confuzzled Rawky  

I can't help it! 

They look like Big Bird and the Count! 

Match made in heaven

Why do they make sex tapes?

How can she be so massively naieve?

I suppose maybe at the time she was naive enough to think this dick she was with was trustworthy enough and they could have a little fun without even thinking that somewhere down the line she'd become a big name and he'd be so green with envy that he'd release the video.  He's the disgusting one.

*locks up video collection*

From DS

''Tulisa didnt think her sex tape would N-DUB on the internet, she wasnt too DAPPY about it but that didnt FAZER!''

Classic

Thats how i feel on this subject Blizzie.

I feel sorry for her, but that's funny

In my opinion, the one releasing it is the low life.  People have sex, some choose to record it.  I have with my husband, and I'm not ashamed of it, it's quite nice to watch yourself PLUS it can also be a learning tool  

I am the one in control of the recordings, so I know they're not going to go any where. Anyone releasing stuff like that is done out of either spite or (if one of the participants are famous) for money.