I hope it all gets sorted soon, and by the sounds of it what you said is better off out in the open now.
MrsB I'm useless at thinking of comforting words but I hope it all gets sorted soon, and by the sounds of it what you said is better off out in the open now.
I hope it all gets sorted soon, and by the sounds of it what you said is better off out in the open now.
awwww just come in - poor mrs B - lots of - it is difficult but I agree with you -your dad shouldn't be doing everything for her 
- it is difficult but I agree with you -your dad shouldn't be doing everything for her
Is she entitled to any help??? -
Mrs B
Guys , my peepers are shutting so gonna have to be a party pooper
Will try to be around tomorrow night if Charli & Mary you will still be here . If i don't get a chance to catch up then Charli , I wish you all the luck in the world for uni & Mary , good luck with the move & I hope you settle in okay & get your dongle ( that sound so rude
)
come back soon xxxxxxxx
Guys , my peepers are shutting so gonna have to be a party pooper
Will try to be around tomorrow night if Charli & Mary you will still be here . If i don't get a chance to catch up then Charli , I wish you all the luck in the world for uni & Mary , good luck with the move & I hope you settle in okay & get your dongle ( that sound so rude
)come back soon xxxxxxxx
aw... I should probably have backspaced and put comforting words.... but family don't half get on my tits sometimes!
MrsB
MrsB
quote:Originally posted by breatheout:
Mrs B
Guys , my peepers are shutting so gonna have to be a party pooper
Will try to be around tomorrow night if Charli & Mary you will still be here . If i don't get a chance to catch up then Charli , I wish you all the luck in the world for uni & Mary , good luck with the move & I hope you settle in okay & get your dongle ( that sound so rude
come back soon xxxxxxxx
Awwh thanks Breathe
Nighty nightt
Night Breathe... you mustn't push yourself... you are convalescing!
Night night Breathe
night breathe
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
aw... I should probably have backspaced and put comforting words.... but family don't half get on my tits sometimes!
MrsB
No... what you said was perfect!
I mean...I love her dearly...but don't like her very much sometimes. I know I should say these things to her...but I also know my Mother would make my life miserable for it...tomorrow should be fun!
My Dad took my critisisms of my sister as me saying that HE hadn't done enough to help her move and accused me of being ungrateful and all that. I had said that she is at home all day, there is only her living there....she SHOULD be doing some of her own packing and cleaning etc...he took it to mean that I thought HE should have done it all. He said some really mean things to me and I said that I wasn't the ungrateful one...she is...we've both bailed her out of her pit so many times and she continues to pay us back by messing it up again...she needs to show some respect and thanks, not me. He also took me saying that I didn't want him moving the heavy stuff as meaning my sister should be doing it. I actually said I'd do it cos I was worried about his heart and hernia...he just thought I was critisising him. I hung up on him for the first time in my life. MrB said he hadn't seem me cry like that since my Grandma died.
My Dad phoned back about 10mins later...MrB spoke to him cos I couldn't do anything but cry...he did apologise...but I still feel like shit cos I know I've got to see him tomorrow and some of the things said were awful...
Sorry for long post...
My Dad took my critisisms of my sister as me saying that HE hadn't done enough to help her move and accused me of being ungrateful and all that. I had said that she is at home all day, there is only her living there....she SHOULD be doing some of her own packing and cleaning etc...he took it to mean that I thought HE should have done it all. He said some really mean things to me and I said that I wasn't the ungrateful one...she is...we've both bailed her out of her pit so many times and she continues to pay us back by messing it up again...she needs to show some respect and thanks, not me. He also took me saying that I didn't want him moving the heavy stuff as meaning my sister should be doing it. I actually said I'd do it cos I was worried about his heart and hernia...he just thought I was critisising him. I hung up on him for the first time in my life. MrB said he hadn't seem me cry like that since my Grandma died.
My Dad phoned back about 10mins later...MrB spoke to him cos I couldn't do anything but cry...he did apologise...but I still feel like shit cos I know I've got to see him tomorrow and some of the things said were awful...
Sorry for long post...
Night Breathe
quote:Originally posted by rosgirl:
Is she entitled to any help??? -
I actually said that if she was so incapable of caring for herself, maybe she would be better off in some kind of sheltered housing...god...my mouth runs away sometimes...
I keep on at her to get help...but I'm sure she expects me or Dad to find it for her.
Sorry about your granny
As it was said before, at least you got it off your chest
As it was said before, at least you got it off your chest
quote:Originally posted by MrsB:quote:Originally posted by rosgirl:
Is she entitled to any help??? -
I actually said that if she was so incapable of caring for herself, maybe she would be better off in some kind of sheltered housing...god...my mouth runs away sometimes...
I keep on at her to get help...but I'm sure she expects me or Dad to find it for her.
- I am sure she should be able to get help with housework - - feel so sorry for you - but you are spot on - it needed saying and it seems bad now but overall you will feel better now it is in the open quote:Originally posted by MrsB:
I mean...I love her dearly...but don't like her very much sometimes. I know I should say these things to her...but I also know my Mother would make my life miserable for it...tomorrow should be fun!
My Dad took my critisisms of my sister as me saying that HE hadn't done enough to help her move and accused me of being ungrateful and all that. I had said that she is at home all day, there is only her living there....she SHOULD be doing some of her own packing and cleaning etc...he took it to mean that I thought HE should have done it all. He said some really mean things to me and I said that I wasn't the ungrateful one...she is...we've both bailed her out of her pit so many times and she continues to pay us back by messing it up again...she needs to show some respect and thanks, not me. He also took me saying that I didn't want him moving the heavy stuff as meaning my sister should be doing it. I actually said I'd do it cos I was worried about his heart and hernia...he just thought I was critisising him. I hung up on him for the first time in my life. MrB said he hadn't seem me cry like that since my Grandma died.
My Dad phoned back about 10mins later...MrB spoke to him cos I couldn't do anything but cry...he did apologise...but I still feel like shit cos I know I've got to see him tomorrow and some of the things said were awful...
Sorry for long post...
I'm sure it won't be as bad as you expect when you see him MrsB. These things never are.
And don't you dare apologise for posting long posts in here! That's what we're here for! I'd hate to think of any of us being upset and feeling they could not offload in here.
We might not be able to make it all better for you.... but we can listen and try our best to cheer you up.
quote:Originally posted by Charli:
Sorry about your granny
As it was said before, at least you got it off your chest
My Grandma died 15yrs ago...feels like yesterday...she was the bestest person in the whole world and I miss her immensely...she would know exactly how to deal with this....just wish she was here to tell me.Feck it...now I'm crying again
awwwwwwwww mrs b - I have just read your long post - Feel so upset for you - you and your dad are both under pressure - taking the strain - TBH I think your sister is being selfish - unless she really doesn't realise what she is doing
At least now you might be able to discuss it with your sister as well - she should be made aware how you feel and the effect it is having on you
- I have just read your long post - Feel so upset for you - you and your dad are both under pressure - taking the strain - TBH I think your sister is being selfish - unless she really doesn't realise what she is doing At least now you might be able to discuss it with your sister as well - she should be made aware how you feel and the effect it is having on you
Awwww Will these put a smile to your face?
Will these put a smile to your face? quote:Originally posted by MrsB:quote:Originally posted by Charli:
Sorry about your granny
As it was said before, at least you got it off your chest
Feck it...now I'm crying again
Awww MrsB.
I wish I could fastforward tonight and tomorrow for you. quote:Originally posted by Duckypup:quote:Originally posted by MrsB:
I mean...I love her dearly...but don't like her very much sometimes. I know I should say these things to her...but I also know my Mother would make my life miserable for it...tomorrow should be fun!
My Dad took my critisisms of my sister as me saying that HE hadn't done enough to help her move and accused me of being ungrateful and all that. I had said that she is at home all day, there is only her living there....she SHOULD be doing some of her own packing and cleaning etc...he took it to mean that I thought HE should have done it all. He said some really mean things to me and I said that I wasn't the ungrateful one...she is...we've both bailed her out of her pit so many times and she continues to pay us back by messing it up again...she needs to show some respect and thanks, not me. He also took me saying that I didn't want him moving the heavy stuff as meaning my sister should be doing it. I actually said I'd do it cos I was worried about his heart and hernia...he just thought I was critisising him. I hung up on him for the first time in my life. MrB said he hadn't seem me cry like that since my Grandma died.
My Dad phoned back about 10mins later...MrB spoke to him cos I couldn't do anything but cry...he did apologise...but I still feel like shit cos I know I've got to see him tomorrow and some of the things said were awful...
Sorry for long post...
I'm sure it won't be as bad as you expect when you see him MrsB. These things never are.
And don't you dare apologise for posting long posts in here! That's what we're here for! I'd hate to think of any of us being upset and feeling they could not offload in here.
We might not be able to make it all better for you.... but we can listen and try our best to cheer you up.
absolutely this is one place where you can say anything
MrsB... he rang back. He loves you. You are his child!!! They kinda expect us to stay stuff we shouldn't sometimes. And then they sit back and realise we are adults, and perhaps we aren't wrong.
It'll be ok.. I promise!
I've had worse ones.... I won't go into it.. but in the heat of the moment I have said worse... but not untrue. What you said may have been bad... but it was true!
It will be ok
It'll be ok.. I promise!
I've had worse ones.... I won't go into it.. but in the heat of the moment I have said worse... but not untrue. What you said may have been bad... but it was true!
It will be ok
those cupcakes look gorjuss charli - thank you
BTW... the tablets probably make things feel worse than they are! 
Thank You all for being lickle sweeties
I guess I shall just have to see what the morning brings....I know my Mum won't be able to keep quiet about it...but I'm used to being on the receiving end of one of her tirades...water off the proverbial ducks back!! I've just ever argued with my Dad before...it's new territory for me! As is all of this...it's odd being here without the smut!!
I guess I shall just have to see what the morning brings....I know my Mum won't be able to keep quiet about it...but I'm used to being on the receiving end of one of her tirades...water off the proverbial ducks back!! I've just ever argued with my Dad before...it's new territory for me! As is all of this...it's odd being here without the smut!!
I knew there was a smutless side to Mrs B
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB... he rang back. He loves you. You are his child!!! They kinda expect us to stay stuff we shouldn't sometimes. And then they sit back and realise we are adults, and perhaps we aren't wrong.
It'll be ok.. I promise!
I've had worse ones.... I won't go into it.. but in the heat of the moment I have said worse... but not untrue. What you said may have been bad... but it was true!
It will be ok
Brilliant post. I salute you Ditty.
Awwww Mrs B .
.
Funny... I hadn't even noticed you were smutless.
Hope you get some sleep tonight... have a swig of something strong... brandy, whiskey, (benylin)...
Hope you get some sleep tonight... have a swig of something strong... brandy, whiskey, (benylin
)...quote:Originally posted by Duckypup:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB... he rang back. He loves you. You are his child!!! They kinda expect us to stay stuff we shouldn't sometimes. And then they sit back and realise we are adults, and perhaps we aren't wrong.
It'll be ok.. I promise!
I've had worse ones.... I won't go into it.. but in the heat of the moment I have said worse... but not untrue. What you said may have been bad... but it was true!
It will be ok
Brilliant post. I salute you Ditty.
Dunno Ducky... I usually say too much! Prob why I can relate to MrsB's tears tonight.
My gob is always getting me into trouble!
I always feel better after a goodnight's sleep. I tell myself that if I have anything to worry about (which is a lot nowadays
), there's no point mulling over them overnight cos the problem's gonna be the same come morning time
), there's no point mulling over them overnight cos the problem's gonna be the same come morning timequote:Originally posted by Charli:
I always feel better after a goodnight's sleep. I tell myself that if I have anything to worry about (which is a lot nowadays
Wise words from one so young!
Ta
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Where's Mary? She's supposed to get this party started
........
Where's Mary? She's supposed to get this party started
quote:Originally posted by MrsB:
Thank You all for being lickle sweeties
I guess I shall just have to see what the morning brings....I know my Mum won't be able to keep quiet about it...but I'm used to being on the receiving end of one of her tirades...water off the proverbial ducks back!! I've just ever argued with my Dad before...it's new territory for me! As is all of this...it's odd being here without the smut!!
*plucks feathers..... gets Charli to sew them into a MrsB shaped coat..... and wraps it rightly round MrsB's shoulders*
There! Not even your mum can hurt you now.
If the feathers fail...... someone we all know gave me a great little tip once. She told me if I was around someone who gives out negative energy (I'm thinking your mum here
).... then pretend you're wearing a banana suit. Imagine yourself stepping into it and zipping it up over your head, so you're completely protected. Sounds totally nuts! But I tried it around my sister once and it works a treat.
quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
BTW... the tablets probably make things feel worse than they are!
But they ARE working....I'd be on my 12th bar of choccie by now!!!
It's been brewing for ages and was always going to be messy...the row..not any side-effects from tablets....MrB knows how much it has always upset me...we all have to rush round and help her pack etc cos she can't do it...but no-one helped me pack and all that when we moved...Nathan was 4weeks old...I had PND and a very torn up fanny...but I still packed up a two bed house on my own AND cared for baby...(MrB had to go back to work...no long leave then!)...and we hired the van and moved ourselves with no other help...
Now I just sound bitter....and jellus
*nicks Ducky's tip*
MARY NOOOOOOOO DON'T GO TO BED YOU'RE NOT ON THE ONLINE LIST!!!!!!
MARY NOOOOOOOO DON'T GO TO BED YOU'RE NOT ON THE ONLINE LIST!!!!!!
I know we're all being deadly serious... but am I allowed to giggle at the fanny comment?
quote:Originally posted by Duckypup:
I know we're all being deadly serious... but am I allowed to giggle at the fanny comment?
think soquote:Originally posted by MrsB:quote:Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
BTW... the tablets probably make things feel worse than they are!
But they ARE working....I'd be on my 12th bar of choccie by now!!!
It's been brewing for ages and was always going to be messy...the row..not any side-effects from tablets....MrB knows how much it has always upset me...we all have to rush round and help her pack etc cos she can't do it...but no-one helped me pack and all that when we moved...Nathan was 4weeks old...I had PND and a very torn up fanny...but I still packed up a two bed house on my own AND cared for baby...(MrB had to go back to work...no long leave then!)...and we hired the van and moved ourselves with no other help...
Now I just sound bitter....and jellus
NO! you do not sound bitter and jellus. I only say the tablets may be making things worse, cos they can accentuate emotions.. make stuff feel even bigger... they can also bring out stuff we normally bury (well the core ingredient can).
That doesn't change anything, I still think you were right to say what you did. If anything happened to your Dad and you hadn't said anything you would be beating yourself up even more!
You are such a good person MrsB... I only know you on here, but its obvious.
Be kind to yourself.... it will be ok! It will probably be more than ok... you will probably look back and be thankful it happened!
*puts on feather coat...scoffs all the cupcakes...rubs very sore and swollen belly...necks a bottle of pepto bismol to get rid of sick feeling...wipes snot on sleeves...is glad feathers are water-proof whilst trying to wash snot off coat...resists urge to glug vodka due to driving in morning....checks whether pepto bismol has any alcoholy stuff in it...can't understand list of ingredients...gives up and goes back to the chocolate fountain a few pages back*