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Originally posted by Charli:
I'll be here tomorrow nightHug I forgot that your sister was moving, please forgive meDisappointed Hope everything goes alrightHugHug


No worries! Just hope I can control my gob and not have almighty row with sis too...she was the reason me and Dad argued...

I aim to arrive here tomorrow night in a good mood and armed with cakes for my fave baker!!!
MrsB
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Charli:
I'll be here tomorrow nightHug I forgot that your sister was moving, please forgive meDisappointed Hope everything goes alrightHugHug


No worries! Just hope I can control my gob and not have almighty row with sis too...she was the reason me and Dad argued...

I aim to arrive here tomorrow night in a good mood and armed with cakes for my fave baker!!!



We'll all be waiting, armed with Rex pics for our favourite bad girl. Hug
Ducky
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB.... you come back tomorrow night

Am sending you 'ooommmmmmmmmm' vibes to be able to tolerate sister moving day!


Ta muchly Valentine I'm now feeling guilt for the things I said about my sis...but they needed saying...so hey-ho!



I know it's hard but try not to feel guilty. If things need saying, they need saying. Hug

I had one of those moments with my little sis a few months ago. It didn't work out too well (she's disowned me Roll Eyes).... but I don't regret for one moment what I said. If I hadn't said it I would still have that angry knot in my stomach to this day (you know the one!) Nod
Ducky
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Originally posted by Duckypup:
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB.... you come back tomorrow night

Am sending you 'ooommmmmmmmmm' vibes to be able to tolerate sister moving day!


Ta muchly Valentine I'm now feeling guilt for the things I said about my sis...but they needed saying...so hey-ho!



I know it's hard but try not to feel guilty. If things need saying, they need saying. Hug

I had one of those moments with my little sis a few months ago. It didn't work out too well (she's disowned me Roll Eyes).... but I don't regret for one moment what I said. If I hadn't said it I would still have that angry knot in my stomach to this day (you know the one!) Nod


Add into this the fact my little sis has rheumatoid arthritis and uses it as an excuse to get everyone to do everything for her and you'll have a vague idea how my evening went...I KNOW how awful it is for her...I accept that life is hideous for her...but that does not mean that she can't do anything for herself, surely??? The row has been brewing for about 9yrs...so it was bound to be bad.
MrsB
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Duckypup:
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB.... you come back tomorrow night

Am sending you 'ooommmmmmmmmm' vibes to be able to tolerate sister moving day!


Ta muchly Valentine I'm now feeling guilt for the things I said about my sis...but they needed saying...so hey-ho!



I know it's hard but try not to feel guilty. If things need saying, they need saying. Hug

I had one of those moments with my little sis a few months ago. It didn't work out too well (she's disowned me Roll Eyes).... but I don't regret for one moment what I said. If I hadn't said it I would still have that angry knot in my stomach to this day (you know the one!) Nod


Add into this the fact my little sis has rheumatoid arthritis and uses it as an excuse to get everyone to do everything for her and you'll have a vague idea how my evening went...I KNOW how awful it is for her...I accept that life is hideous for her...but that does not mean that she can't do anything for herself, surely??? The row has been brewing for about 9yrs...so it was bound to be bad.


If it needed to be said, it needed to be said! Nod

Not including the Poland experience (which was stuff that really wasn't needing to be said!)... I have "put the moose on the table" on many occasions in my family!

I don't do the "lets not mention it" thing very well.... cos in my experience.. it just festers, and comes out at christmas! Big Grin
Dirtyprettygirlthing
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Duckypup:
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Dirtyprettygirlthing:
MrsB.... you come back tomorrow night

Am sending you 'ooommmmmmmmmm' vibes to be able to tolerate sister moving day!


Ta muchly Valentine I'm now feeling guilt for the things I said about my sis...but they needed saying...so hey-ho!



I know it's hard but try not to feel guilty. If things need saying, they need saying. Hug

I had one of those moments with my little sis a few months ago. It didn't work out too well (she's disowned me Roll Eyes).... but I don't regret for one moment what I said. If I hadn't said it I would still have that angry knot in my stomach to this day (you know the one!) Nod


Add into this the fact my little sis has rheumatoid arthritis and uses it as an excuse to get everyone to do everything for her and you'll have a vague idea how my evening went...I KNOW how awful it is for her...I accept that life is hideous for her...but that does not mean that she can't do anything for herself, surely??? The row has been brewing for about 9yrs...so it was bound to be bad.



I'm with ya MrsB. Hug We went through the same kind of thing everytime my little sis was pregnant (something she chose to do 5 bleedin times Laugh)..... I remember the frustration well, I can imagine how hard it must be if it is continuous. Hug

I know you feel crap right now.... but I honestly think this will help things in the long term. Even if nothing changes, it can help just knowing you've had your say.
Ducky
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Originally posted by Charli:
Mrs B I'm sorry to hear about her arthritisHug but I definitely agree that it shouldn't be used as an excuseShake Head


Thanks Charli Valentine she's had it since she was 23 and is alot of pain, I know that an understand that it makes things difficult for her. However, she doesn't even tidy her own house...ever. When my eldest was a baby, I used to go over there and spend the entire day emptying the house (hiring a skip) and cleaning it til it sparkled...as well as caring for my baby...then I'd go back the next week and it would be a tip again....she never took anything to the bin, even though she walked past it to get to her car...I did this for a while...until the time I went round to build a wardrobe for her...she was supposed to be looking after Nathan who was 2 at the time. I finished building the wardrobe...went back to the lounge and my son was nowhere to be seen and she had no idea how long he'd been missing....half hour frantic search later, we found him in a neighbour's garden, leaning over a fishpond....I have never cleaned for her again...now my poor Dad does it all and I simply told him not to bother...he's 67, got heart problems, a hernia and arthritis himself...she's 34, about time she started to act it.
MrsB
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Originally posted by MrsB:
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Originally posted by Charli:
Mrs B I'm sorry to hear about her arthritisHug but I definitely agree that it shouldn't be used as an excuseShake Head


Thanks Charli Valentine she's had it since she was 23 and is alot of pain, I know that an understand that it makes things difficult for her. However, she doesn't even tidy her own house...ever. When my eldest was a baby, I used to go over there and spend the entire day emptying the house (hiring a skip) and cleaning it til it sparkled...as well as caring for my baby...then I'd go back the next week and it would be a tip again....she never took anything to the bin, even though she walked past it to get to her car...I did this for a while...until the time I went round to build a wardrobe for her...she was supposed to be looking after Nathan who was 2 at the time. I finished building the wardrobe...went back to the lounge and my son was nowhere to be seen and she had no idea how long he'd been missing....half hour frantic search later, we found him in a neighbour's garden, leaning over a fishpond....I have never cleaned for her again...now my poor Dad does it all and I simply told him not to bother...he's 67, got heart problems, a hernia and arthritis himself...she's 34, about time she started to act it.


Sounds like the home truths should be going directly to her MrsB!

I used to work with a girl who had had juvenile arthritis since she was 7. She was in her 30's. I would never have known she had it if she hadn't told me. She never moaned, and worked as hard as any of us!

She was probably an exceptional example... but then your sister sounds to be the other end of the scale. Yes in pain, but also bone bloody idle as well!

If anything had happened to your son!!! You'd have thought that lapse alone would have made her think about stuff!
Dirtyprettygirlthing

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