Rodders!

I have tried and tried and tried to like him and give him the benefit of doubt. I want to like him as essentially he is a decent guy. And I can forgive his ignorance and naivety and lack of understanding, I can also kind of forgive his black and white and no grey area outlook and put it down to his upbringing, cultural differences and also in a way, his age.

I can't however put up with his constant whining, bitching and playing the guilt trip. Nor can I put up with him always running to Lisa or anyone who will listen when he gets into an argument and ultimately gets offended or upset. Most of the time he starts things, then takes it too far then cries wolf and tried to get the other person involved (usually Charlie) to look really bad. His petulance and whiney behaviour is now starting to really grate. Not to mention the constant double standards and him not practising what he so often preaches.

He needs to shut up, listen to others instead of butting in all the time, and most importantly.... HE NEEDS TO GROW A PAIR!