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aw... its different with kids though..    the terms of endearment I call my kids range from "baby" & "baby boy"  (I really must stop calling my son that.... he's 13 and is gonna start resenting it soon)...   poppet, ma petit choufleur, & my little onion, lovely, cutie...     loads of gushy shit!   But its ok...  cos they're my kids.

 

In relationship terms..    being called "dear" is the worst...   when I am called that I find its insincere, and usually said with a curl of the lip.    I call hubby "baby"... but only when I am on a charm offensive & want something...  so sort of in jest.    He calls me "bird"  and it is his term of endearment to me...   I know some people hate being called that... but its what he has always called me (I got upped to Mrs Bird when we got married).    I call him "husband"...  

 

tis the way it is in our relationship. 

Dirtyprettygirlthing
Originally Posted by Growlybear:

I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards


^^^ this....

 

I can just about cope with darlin'....

 

normally its an 'awright darlin!'

 

but anything else....no thanks.

Croctacus
Originally Posted by Growlybear:

I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards

I'm with you Growly. i don't call people by them and certainly don't like to be called them myself. *Shakesheadsmilie* I'm at work and don't have the range of smilies

FM
Originally Posted by Roxan:
Originally Posted by Croctacus:

I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....

 

Or maybe forgetfulness? My OH calls me sweet, also calls every female he knows this and i'm convinced it's because he cant remember our names!

Outwith the family, Mr Yogi uses "Love" for women and "Mate" for guys, for the same reason.

Yogi19
Originally Posted by Roxan:
Originally Posted by Yogi19:
Originally Posted by Roxan:
Originally Posted by Croctacus:

I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....

 

Or maybe forgetfulness? My OH calls me sweet, also calls every female he knows this and i'm convinced it's because he cant remember our names!

Outwith the family, Mr Yogi uses "Love" for women and "Mate" for guys, for the same reason.

lol does he ever mix it up?

It has been known.

Yogi19

Is it a cultural thing possibly? I call my husband honey ..................I call my kids/grandkids hun , honey or bubs and that's just how it is - outside of family I never call anyone anything other than their name - it irks me when people I hatrdly know call me babe, hun, love or whatever ...............to me it's a family thing - a term of endearment!

Soozy Woo
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
 

 

OK Chicken! 


Oh Christ that sets my teeth on edge, especially since there's an uber bitch at work who sweetly calls people chicken whilst gleefully sticking knives in them the minute their back is turned.  Sometimes she shortens it to 'chick', which makes me want to vomit for about 6 hours solid and set fire to things. 

 

I say:  flower, pet and sausage.  Probably because I'm Northern.

fracas
Originally Posted by fracas:
Originally Posted by Cupcake:
 

 

OK Chicken! 


Oh Christ that sets my teeth on edge, especially since there's an uber bitch at work who sweetly calls people chicken whilst gleefully sticking knives in them the minute their back is turned.  Sometimes she shortens it to 'chick', which makes me want to vomit for about 6 hours solid and set fire to things. 

 

I say:  flower, pet and sausage.  Probably because I'm Northern.

I can understand your grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr there. Chick is a term used where I live and is used so loosely and is so insincere ...........I fully understand.

 

I only use little terms of endearments to loved ones. I hate it when people casually throw them about.

Soozy Woo

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