Which is your favourite term, and which is your least favourite term
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Hi Zazz.
When you say "favourite", do you mean the one I call other people, or the one I prefer to be called?
I prefer to say sweetness - no idea why - it just comes out
I hate hun, babe, sexy . . .yuk!!
No one ever calls me nice things
Favourite would prob be baby, maybe favourite is the wrong word, but its the one that sort of slips out.
Hun and babe are my least favourite, A little bit of my sunny disposition dies every time someone calls me it
I prefer to say sweetness - no idea why - it just comes out
I hate hun, babe, sexy . . .yuk!!
No one ever calls me nice things
Hello sweetness
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you missed out bab
HOW COULD YOU!
Ooooooooooooooh dear . I always call my grand kids and kids hun, honey or bubs.
i often call my little ones (and some not so little) sweetheart/sweetie pie
My fave penname to be called is just 'love' or luv, and I do have a least fave that isn't on there, but I don't want to say in case people start calling it me on here to piss me off! LOL! So I picked OTHER for both.
i often call my little ones (and some not so little) sweetheart/sweetie pie
I like sweetie too and bab.
aw... its different with kids though.. the terms of endearment I call my kids range from "baby" & "baby boy" (I really must stop calling my son that.... he's 13 and is gonna start resenting it soon)... poppet, ma petit choufleur, & my little onion, lovely, cutie... loads of gushy shit! But its ok... cos they're my kids.
In relationship terms.. being called "dear" is the worst... when I am called that I find its insincere, and usually said with a curl of the lip. I call hubby "baby"... but only when I am on a charm offensive & want something... so sort of in jest. He calls me "bird" and it is his term of endearment to me... I know some people hate being called that... but its what he has always called me (I got upped to Mrs Bird when we got married). I call him "husband"...
tis the way it is in our relationship.
POPPET is cute
I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards
I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards
OK Chicken!
I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards
^^^ this....
I can just about cope with darlin'....
normally its an 'awright darlin!'
but anything else....no thanks.
I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards
I'm with you Growly. i don't call people by them and certainly don't like to be called them myself. *Shakesheadsmilie* I'm at work and don't have the range of smilies
I am actually completely the opposite, and don't mind at all being called most pen-names/pet- names, and I really don't 'get' why people get upset by it. But each to their own; everyone is entitled to not like it if they so wish.
I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....
Hun is by far the worst though...I have no time for anyone that uses that term.
I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....
Hun is by far the worst though...I have no time for anyone that uses that term.
Must admit I don't like hun a lot croc...
I prefer to say sweetness - no idea why - it just comes out
I hate hun, babe, sexy . . .yuk!!
No one ever calls me nice things
Hello sweetness
Awww thanx
I use "Darling" or "Love" when speaking to hubby and he calls me "Sweetheart" or "Lovey".
Middle son calls me "Doll" and I call my three sons "Sweetheart", Darling" or "Love", and I sometimes call my youngest son (aged 22) "Babe", 'cos he is my baby.
I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....
Or maybe forgetfulness? My OH calls me sweet, also calls every female he knows this and i'm convinced it's because he cant remember our names!
Outwith the family, Mr Yogi uses "Love" for women and "Mate" for guys, for the same reason.
I think half the time calling poeple by petnames is lazy....
Or maybe forgetfulness? My OH calls me sweet, also calls every female he knows this and i'm convinced it's because he cant remember our names!
Outwith the family, Mr Yogi uses "Love" for women and "Mate" for guys, for the same reason.
lol does he ever mix it up?
It has been known.
No one ever calls me nice things
Well, if you will add '(I hate you)' at the bottom of your reply to them are you surprised!
I would bristle a bit if I was called by any of these names, but if anyone called me hun, babe, or baby to my face, they would need to count how many teeth they had left afterwards
Even if it was John in his undies calling you hun, babe?
Is it a cultural thing possibly? I call my husband honey ..................I call my kids/grandkids hun , honey or bubs and that's just how it is - outside of family I never call anyone anything other than their name - it irks me when people I hatrdly know call me babe, hun, love or whatever ...............to me it's a family thing - a term of endearment!
OK Chicken!
Oh Christ that sets my teeth on edge, especially since there's an uber bitch at work who sweetly calls people chicken whilst gleefully sticking knives in them the minute their back is turned. Sometimes she shortens it to 'chick', which makes me want to vomit for about 6 hours solid and set fire to things.
I say: flower, pet and sausage. Probably because I'm Northern.
OK Chicken!
Oh Christ that sets my teeth on edge, especially since there's an uber bitch at work who sweetly calls people chicken whilst gleefully sticking knives in them the minute their back is turned. Sometimes she shortens it to 'chick', which makes me want to vomit for about 6 hours solid and set fire to things.
I say: flower, pet and sausage. Probably because I'm Northern.
I can understand your grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr there. Chick is a term used where I live and is used so loosely and is so insincere ...........I fully understand.
I only use little terms of endearments to loved ones. I hate it when people casually throw them about.
Me too Susan Wusan <runs quite fast just in case>
Me too Susan Wusan <runs quite fast just in case>
Blimey . When I read that quickly it looked just like my real name - I thought I'd been outed there
I think the word "jewellery" can be a very seductive term of endearment.
Lateral thinking!
"Lady" is another one. Especially when it's said in a commanding Yorkshire accent - as in "c'm'ere laaaay-deh!"
IMO it's all about nuances and the sentiments behind the word. Said in the right way, even "Oi you!" can be a turn-on
No one ever calls me nice things
Well, if you will add '(I hate you)' at the bottom of your reply to them are you surprised!
OUCH!!!
Thats called tough love
I like twunt.
I have never called family or anyone by a pet name I use words of endearment but not as a pet name ..
I like twunt.
i like you too blizzie,xx
i have little to no tolerance honey for ' hun,babe, sweetie,hon'
i have little to no tolerance honey for ' hun,babe, sweetie,hon'
You sure about that, hun?
*runs*
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