What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super 
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I can be a right chatterbox, with the right people, and other times I'm the quietest person in the room
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean! 
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me 
Quandry
If talking was an Olympic sport I'd win for Scotland I talk non stop. My mum says I haven't shut up since I was born. My kids are the same
One of my favourite quotes that I always carry around with me:
In true listening, we reach behind the words, see through them, to find the person who is revealed. Listening is a search to find the treasure of the true person as revealed verbally and non-verbally. There is the semantic problem of course. The words bear a different connotation for you than they do for me. Consequently, I can never tell what you said, but only what I heard. I will have to rephrase what you said, and check it out with you to make sure that what left your mind and heart arrived in my mind and heart, intact and without distortion.
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean!
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me Quandry
In my experience, they're too busy thinking about themselves to give that a thought!
If talking was an Olympic sport I'd win for Scotland I talk non stop. My mum says I haven't shut up since I was born. My kids are the same
Ha ha...hello Cags, long time no see
One of my favourite quotes that I always carry around with me:
In true listening, we reach behind the words, see through them, to find the person who is revealed. Listening is a search to find the treasure of the true person as revealed verbally and non-verbally. There is the semantic problem of course. The words bear a different connotation for you than they do for me. Consequently, I can never tell what you said, but only what I heard. I will have to rephrase what you said, and check it out with you to make sure that what left your mind and heart arrived in my mind and heart, intact and without distortion.
That's a brilliant quote, Supes.
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean!
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me Quandry
Yep! I can talk for England .......funny enough it's always questions in order to get conversation flowing. I never talk freely about my own feelings etc. A very good friend (of many years) pointed that out to me the other day. I love the conversation to flow but - believe it or not - I'm a very private person.
It's pretty complex really ................I guess some people with the most to say - are actually the most private?
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean!
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me Quandry
Yep! I can talk for England .......funny enough it's always questions in order to get conversation flowing. I never talk freely about my own feelings etc. A very good friend (of many years) pointed that out to me the other day. I love the conversation to flow but - believe it or not - I'm a very private person.
It's pretty complex really ................I guess some people with the most to say - are actually the most private?
Flippin eck Sooz! You've sorta got the kinda person I am too 
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean!
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me Quandry
Yep! I can talk for England .......funny enough it's always questions in order to get conversation flowing. I never talk freely about my own feelings etc. A very good friend (of many years) pointed that out to me the other day. I love the conversation to flow but - believe it or not - I'm a very private person.
It's pretty complex really ................I guess some people with the most to say - are actually the most private?
Flippin eck Sooz! You've sorta got the kinda person I am too
I knew that
What..you mean those who actually are interested in you rather than hearing the sound of their own voices?
Yeah, there are some out there Super
I do get where they are coming from 'though nuts....I have an old school 'friend' who is a bit like that, thinks that she has to be a constant source of entertainment, conversation and 'fun'..sometimes it's just a bloody pita and again I wanna scream "Just shut the f up"!!!
I really do know what you mean!
And like I say, I'm completely the opposite at times until I get to know people, and while I'm being quiet I'm wondering what do they think of me Quandry
Yep! I can talk for England .......funny enough it's always questions in order to get conversation flowing. I never talk freely about my own feelings etc. A very good friend (of many years) pointed that out to me the other day. I love the conversation to flow but - believe it or not - I'm a very private person.
It's pretty complex really ................I guess some people with the most to say - are actually the most private?
Lots of people like to talk about themselves nuts. I love chatting with people I'm comfortable with and hate 'big social events.' When I'm with new people, I just ask them loads about themselves, usually works a treat
