Originally Posted by Ells:
In other news:
Kids!! Why can't they just have a falling out without parents getting all involved? My youngest is 6 and he plays in the street with about 5 other kids aged between 6 and 8 and they always fall out with each other and have the usual 'I'm not playing with you' carry on then be the best of friends 10 minutes later. My wee one was playing with one of the kids when another of them came along and my son said he couldnt play with him right now because the one he was playing with wasn;t alowed to play with the other boy (still with me?) but he'd play with him later.
This resulted in an argument and the wee boy threw an ice pop at my son and my son and him must have had an argument because next thing the wee boy comes to my door shouting 'He's being cheeky to me!' but I was on the phone so I said 'I'm on the phone.....go play'. I noticed the Mum of the wee boy passing by at the same time but didn't think anything of it.
Now my son comes in crying telling me he called for the boy he had been arguing with and his Mum tells him to go away and not to ever call back for him because he's now not allowed to play with my son anymore
Jebus! Just let them fall out and make up like they always do instead of making it into a whole carry on with the kids getting upset because they think they're never gonna be friends again.
Roll on September when they're back at school!!
Ells, we have a couple in our street and you can see them marching down to the house of which ever kid has upset theirs and having ding dongs on the doorstep. (To be honest in the main it is their kids that start the crap anyway, but we won't get in to that).
My mother always used to say to me 'never fall out over your kids, because while you're falling out the kids are busy making up', and I have always tried to remember that.
I recently watched the movie Carnage (Jodie Foster and Kate Winslet) which reflects that saying very well.