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Originally Posted by Yogi19:
Originally Posted by pirate1111:

i said yesterday that i had my tattoo re-done

it'd already started to bruise

 

this is it today

 

 

bloody hurts

That looks really inflamed. Have you got any Sudocrem that you could put on it?

i put nappy cream on it

anyway

just watched 7500 film

it was ok

not the best

if i'dve bought it i'd want my money back

it was ok

4 out of 10 i'd say

pirate1111
Originally Posted by Ells:

Cinds, I saw your post last night but couldn't respond then.  I know as parents we're supposed to support our kids in whatever they want to do but he's making a huge mistake and you are right to be furious with him and your sister for backing him up.  That poor kid deserves a father and it's just a shame that you all lose out on seeing him because of it too.

 

I don't know if it would be appropriate for you to still see the kid......although if it was me I think I'd probably tell the wee one's mother that you don't feel the same way as they do and would like to see him but I don't know how that would affect your relationship with your sister and nephew.  I have a teenage nephew and if he and his Mum did that then I know I'd be falling out with at least one of them.  He shouldn't get to just drop the kid like a cold turd.  So f*cking what if he's struggling!!!  Is his son not going to struggle 100 times more having to grow up without a dad because he's being selfish.  No-one is saying he has to do a lot while he sorts his own head out but phone calls, the odd visit and letting the kid know he's there would be better than nothing until he gets himself together.

Ells I have no intention of walking away from the child, even though I am just his great Aunt. I actually don't care if my sister and her 'poor little son' fall out with me over it. (The fall out will be short lived).

 

Like I said, I have a son who has been through the worst emotions knowing his biological father didn't want to know, but at least that dead beat was on the other side of an ocean, this poor child is going to have to grow up in a village that's 20 minutes walk from one end to the other, living there knowing his father is there but doesn't want to know.

 

I'm still so furious, I've barely slept since I found out. (I'm a shit sleeper anyway! but when stuff is on my mind it makes it harder to get to sleep).

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 

Like I said, I have a son who has been through the worst emotions knowing his biological father didn't want to know, but at least that dead beat was on the other side of an ocean, this poor child is going to have to grow up in a village that's 20 minutes walk from one end to the other, living there knowing his father is there but doesn't want to know.

 

I'm still so furious, I've barely slept since I found out. (I'm a shit sleeper anyway! but when stuff is on my mind it makes it harder to get to sleep).

 So sorry Cinds. Its terrible. Seems like you care more than the rest of them put together   

FM
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Ells:

I don't blame you, I would want to see him too.  Is the baby's Mum ok with you seeing him?  

 

I've yet to find that out. But even if she isn't, he'll still get a birthday and Christmas present off me every year.

Well hopefully for your sake she is.  

 

I can't believe people just actively think 'I don't want to see that child any more'.  Why?  How?  My nephew was ignored by his real Dad, never met him.  Then his own mother gave him away.  How lovely.  Thankfully my Mum was a better Mum to him than his own and he grew up well loved but how come someone just sit by and watch their kid grow up and do nothing?

Ells
Originally Posted by Roger the Alien:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
 

Like I said, I have a son who has been through the worst emotions knowing his biological father didn't want to know, but at least that dead beat was on the other side of an ocean, this poor child is going to have to grow up in a village that's 20 minutes walk from one end to the other, living there knowing his father is there but doesn't want to know.

 

I'm still so furious, I've barely slept since I found out. (I'm a shit sleeper anyway! but when stuff is on my mind it makes it harder to get to sleep).

 So sorry Cinds. Its terrible. Seems like you care more than the rest of them put together   

I know some of my other sisters feel the same as me, so I'm sure between us, he'll still know our side of his family to a degree.

Cinds
Originally Posted by Ells:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Ells:

I don't blame you, I would want to see him too.  Is the baby's Mum ok with you seeing him?  

 

I've yet to find that out. But even if she isn't, he'll still get a birthday and Christmas present off me every year.

Well hopefully for your sake she is.  

 

I can't believe people just actively think 'I don't want to see that child any more'.  Why?  How?  My nephew was ignored by his real Dad, never met him.  Then his own mother gave him away.  How lovely.  Thankfully my Mum was a better Mum to him than his own and he grew up well loved but how come someone just sit by and watch their kid grow up and do nothing?

Ells, I'm baffled also as to how people can do that. What I don't get even more is, they had a lovely day with him last weekend and I'd had pics sent to me. I'd commented how much he looked like his grandfather (my sisters husband who died suddenly at 39). I just cannot get my head around the nephew doing this, but more so my sister condoning it.

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Ells:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Ells:

I don't blame you, I would want to see him too.  Is the baby's Mum ok with you seeing him?  

 

I've yet to find that out. But even if she isn't, he'll still get a birthday and Christmas present off me every year.

Well hopefully for your sake she is.  

 

I can't believe people just actively think 'I don't want to see that child any more'.  Why?  How?  My nephew was ignored by his real Dad, never met him.  Then his own mother gave him away.  How lovely.  Thankfully my Mum was a better Mum to him than his own and he grew up well loved but how come someone just sit by and watch their kid grow up and do nothing?

Ells, I'm baffled also as to how people can do that. What I don't get even more is, they had a lovely day with him last weekend and I'd had pics sent to me. I'd commented how much he looked like his grandfather (my sisters husband who died suddenly at 39). I just cannot get my head around the nephew doing this, but more so my sister condoning it.

Shocking! How cold hearted can you get  

FM
Originally Posted by Sprout:
Originally Posted by Cold Sweat:
Originally Posted by Roger the Alien:
Originally Posted by Jenstar:

The stairs would take up most of the inside!

http://www.theguardian.com/mon...e-house-north-london

A dining table the width of an ironing board under the stairs... and thank goodness for wall mounted plasma telly's!

You couldn't be having a party in there 

 Could you imagine lol

FM
Originally Posted by Cold Sweat:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cold Sweat:

Converted driveway ÂĢ235,000

 

Smallest house in London?

Can I ask for a link to the website that is selling it? I'm nosey, I want to look inside.

 

thank you

McHugh & Co of Camden:

http://www.mchughandco.com/

That link takes me to something that's being sold for 1.2 million 

Cinds
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cold Sweat:
Originally Posted by Cinds:
Originally Posted by Cold Sweat:

Converted driveway ÂĢ235,000

 

Smallest house in London?

Can I ask for a link to the website that is selling it? I'm nosey, I want to look inside.

 

thank you

McHugh & Co of Camden:

http://www.mchughandco.com/

That link takes me to something that's being sold for 1.2 million 

 

as its going to auction there is a shortage of pics as usual 

 

rightmoves link 

 

http://www.rightmove.co.uk/pro...operty-32126754.html

 

 

who ever wrote that article is way out with stamp duty info - stamp duty reduced from ÂĢ250000  to any property over ÂĢ125000 ages ago 

MrsH

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