The CSA rang me today and I thought at last he's made a payment but no it was to tell me that my case is closed now my daughter is 19 but they will still chase the arrears so I asked how much is owed to me and it's just under 12 grand wouldn't that be lovely to get at this time of the year but they've done a check with HMRC and he's not paying any tax or insurance so he's not working so they can't make an order to deduct money from his wages, funny how he can't pick our daughter up from uni till late tomorrow because he's working
Cash in hand? Not going through the system?
Aimee, it's disgusting isn't it. Although, from my point at least the biological doesn't even try to see the boy. It would kill me if he did, but didn't stump up anything for him.
To sprout, Mr C has been a dad to master C since he was 3 years old. From being 6 he has called him Dad. And yes, you're right, much better for the boy having him as his Dad.