Bloody stalker. Don't they usually blame their victims?

Oh dear!! There'll be tears before bed time..again

What do you expect? It was real love after all.

Looking after her??? What planet is this boy on! She is a grown woman who can make her own decisions in life!

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
Bloody stalker. Don't they usually blame their victims?

Yes Deman, without fail

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Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:
Looking after her??? What planet is this boy on! She is a grown woman who can make her own decisions in life!

He needs "looking after", not her. Or should that be "taking care of"?

He's a proper head***k!

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
Bloody stalker. Don't they usually blame their victims?

Yes Deman, without fail

Always seems to be: "He/she MADE me do it.."

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

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Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:
Looking after her??? What planet is this boy on! She is a grown woman who can make her own decisions in life!

He needs "looking after", not her. Or should that be "taking care of"?

Locked up in a padded room more like

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Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

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Originally posted by Sexy_Kelly:
Looking after her??? What planet is this boy on! She is a grown woman who can make her own decisions in life!

He needs "looking after", not her. Or should that be "taking care of"?

Locked up in a padded room more like

I was thinking more along the lines of a dark alley and a sockful of pound coins..

Wow i thought i hated him
You go for it hun. The forum is behind you

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
Bloody stalker. Don't they usually blame their victims?

Yes Deman, without fail

Always seems to be: "He/she MADE me do it.."

I found that it was, "Oh poor me, I don't know what I've done wrong, all I've done is be WONDERFUL to her and now she won't talk to me, she must have issues, she's so nasty to poor old me me me me me. How could SHE do this to ME?"


AAAAAAGGGG!

fracas
I remember you talking about your own experience of this kind of thing - and you can obviously spot another one when you see one, eh?

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
I was thinking more along the lines of a dark alley and a sockful of pound coins..

And add to his imagined victimhood? He'd love that. The only way to REALLY do his head in is to ignore. He'll implode at the thought of not being centre of the chuffing universe

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
I was thinking more along the lines of a dark alley and a sockful of pound coins..

And add to his imagined victimhood? He'd love that. The only way to REALLY do his head in is to ignore. He'll implode at the thought of not being centre of the chuffing universe

You're probably right. In a show that traditionally attracts attention-seekers, he's the most extreme example I've ever seen in there. He feeds off ANY attention, even negative.

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
fracas
I remember you talking about your own experience of this kind of thing - and you can obviously spot another one when you see one, eh?

I think just about everyone can see it in Sree.

But yeah, I feel so bad for Noirin, stuck in there with that loon

I'm watching last night HL show and the boy needs help. He has the potential to be dangerous with his obsession with her. I think she needs to be very careful around him. I have said this in other threads she seems much more relaxed around Marcus and seems to enjoy the banter with him, in fact I think that they have become good friends and with someone like Sree around she needs all the friends she can get.

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

You're probably right. In a show that traditionally attracts attention-seekers, he's the most extreme example I've ever seen in there. He feeds off ANY attention, even negative.

Exactly. Any attention at all will feed him. But it's practically impossible for her to ignore him when she's stuck in that house. He's ruining it for her. When they showed her laughing and joking with Marcus, that was the first time she had been able to let her hair down and just relax. By god, she'll pay for that one. I feel sorry for her, she does all the hard work to get into the BB house and then he just ruins it. I think BB need to act on this because it's awful.

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

You're probably right. In a show that traditionally attracts attention-seekers, he's the most extreme example I've ever seen in there. He feeds off ANY attention, even negative.

Exactly. Any attention at all will feed him. But it's practically impossible for her to ignore him when she's stuck in that house. He's ruining it for her. When they showed her laughing and joking with Marcus, that was the first time she had been able to let her hair down and just relax. By god, she'll pay for that one. I feel sorry for her, she does all the hard work to get into the BB house and then he just ruins it. I think BB need to act on this because it's awful.

They won't, unless she tells them it's a problem. And she ought to.

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

You're probably right. In a show that traditionally attracts attention-seekers, he's the most extreme example I've ever seen in there. He feeds off ANY attention, even negative.

Exactly. Any attention at all will feed him. But it's practically impossible for her to ignore him when she's stuck in that house. He's ruining it for her. When they showed her laughing and joking with Marcus, that was the first time she had been able to let her hair down and just relax. By god, she'll pay for that one. I feel sorry for her, she does all the hard work to get into the BB house and then he just ruins it. I think BB need to act on this because it's awful.

They won't, unless she tells them it's a problem. And she ought to.

I said this last night. She really should speak to them about it.

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Originally posted by Demantoid:

They won't, unless she tells them it's a problem. And she ought to.

Yeah, she does. I think he'll get much worse now he's had the knock back. I reckon she'll be in that DR within the week.

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Originally posted by Demantoid:
Bloody stalker. Don't they usually blame their victims?

Speaking as someone who was stalked for a long time by someone I absolutely couldn`t stand, (you can`t imagine how scary it was) that is so true.

Anyone who's had to put up with any degree of that kind of behaviour really has my sympathy. Nightmare.

That must be a very scary situation. I had an injunction taken out on a ex a couple of years ago who was out to basically ruin my life. The police thought we would stalk me and gave me safety personal alarm. Very scary having to walk home from work. It was a half an hour walk on mainly very quiet roads. I remember my heart would skip a beat everytime a car went past coz i thought it was him and he was going to jump out. Luckily he left me alone after a couple of threatening visits to my parents house.

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Speaking as someone who was stalked for a long time by someone I absolutely couldn`t stand, (you can`t imagine how scary it was) that is so true.

I feel your pain sista (?). It's like they steal your life

Now gimme hug (not a Sree one!)

It would be interesting to see him on the daily live feed.......see how often he bothers her....of course, we only see what the editors want us to see.

His constant butting in gets on my nerves.
It made me laugh when someone asked him to repeat back what they had just said to him and he couldn't.

Task for next week's shopping, get him to shut up for twenty four hours.

Methinks it's about time BB had a word in his shell like

Very true kitty, without the live feed we have no idea how frequent is this harassment.
I don't know how he escaped being nominated this week we can only hope for Noirin sake that he's out next week.

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Originally posted by paace:
Very true kitty, without the live feed we have no idea how frequent is this harassment.

Does it depend on frequncy then? Harrassment is harrassment is harrassment. And they seem to have PLENTY of footage.

Jeez

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by Latecomer:


Speaking as someone who was stalked for a long time by someone I absolutely couldn`t stand, (you can`t imagine how scary it was) that is so true.

I feel your pain sista (?). It's like they steal your life

Now gimme hug (not a Sree one!)

You`ve been there too ?

It was years ago, but I still have an unlisted number!!!

Hope you`re not still going through it

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Originally posted by fracas:

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Originally posted by paace:
Very true kitty, without the live feed we have no idea how frequent is this harassment.

Does it depend on frequncy then? Harrassment is harrassment is harrassment. And they seem to have PLENTY of footage.

Jeez

No.it doesn't depend on frequency, he could be ten times worse during the day, but BB wouldn't want everyone knowing and complaining to OFCOM about sexual harassment, would they.

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Originally posted by Latecomer:
You`ve been there too ?

It was years ago, but I still have an unlisted number!!!

Hope you`re not still going through it

Oh aye, a few on here have heard me rants

It's not going on any more, but only because I had to leave large chunks of my life behind It went on for FOUR YEARS. I cut off all contact, changed numbers, stoppped going places, so he started his crap with all my friends, even my family, orchestrated a nice little campaign by proxy, in which of course I was the baddy Many of them realised what a demented creep he was in the end, but damage was done. He tried to ruin my life, but he did me a favour because I got rid of dead wood and now my life is good again

Glad yours is over too, what's the story with you?

It does make you wonder about his behaviour on the outside. This doesn't look like a persona that he's adopted just to stand out on a reality show.

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Originally posted by kittyuk:


No.it doesn't depend on frequency, he could be ten times worse during the day, but BB wouldn't want everyone knowing and complaining to OFCOM about sexual harassment, would they.

I'm really amazed that nothing has been done yet. Blimey, the world goes mad about an ignorant chav saying 'poppadom', but let this abuse happen because it is good TV? It makes me really mad.

Didn't speak to her at all yesterday? I doubt that very much.

I think BB really do need to speak to him now, both of them even, and get it sorted because it's not a joke anymore.

I'm loving this story line..long may it continue.

It was quality editing last night, i just about wet myself right at the end when noiron told him she needed her space and it ended with him waiting on her with the sun glasses and the shiny cheesy grin..bb at it's best, keep them in.

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Originally posted by captain marbles:
It does make you wonder about his behaviour on the outside. This doesn't look like a persona that he's adopted just to stand out on a reality show.

It seems he is just the same. On one of those vidoes shown on youtube there was a long and revealing insight left by one of the people who know him at University which said he's constantly harassing females and that he's been thrown out of loads of parties for doing the same.

Shud - shouldn't it continue?

hmmm . . . compulsive viewing admitedly and BB hav a habit of intervening way too early in arguements this series.
But not here - wonder why as it is harrassment.

Fascinating though

Sree needs to be spoken to by BB - but remember there is SO much we are not seeing