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Originally posted by Liverpoollass:

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Originally posted by Mentalist:
Unfortunately Noirin is in the a 'nowhere to run' situation, if this happened outside she could just tell him to F*** off, and hopefully she would never see him again. In the house she only has to turn over in bed and there he is staring at her. I think this makes the job of dealing with Sree more difficult.

I must say I'm not keen on Noirin but I absolutely loath Sree.

I agree about that. I do, however, think if she were that bothered she would talk to BB about it. They could then call in into the DR and have a word with him.

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Originally posted by brisket:
I still think Noirin has showed very poor communication skills.
We know Sree is a poor listener, and Noirin has noticed that too.
I think she allowed a mixed-up situation to continue because it suited her to do so.
I don`t believe anything was done to save Sree from feeling hurt. I think it was done because she found it expedient.
"No" should mean "no". Why on earth didn`t she use that one simple word? (and if necessary repeat it ad infinitum.)



because she chose to use the word 'friend' instead ......he chose to make that as flexible as possible. there was no expedincy involved at all ....she's a nice girl and was trying to put him right in the nicest possible way.

it didn't work now she's had to resort to different tactics ....good on her ....the guy is a creep.

I totally agree with Suzy, I have been in that situation and the stalker will always look at himself as a victim, this is such a horrible situation to be in, at least I did not have to live with the man 24/7 but it was still terrible. And I promise you, even if she says a very loud NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, it wont work at all. And you know, it is not fair, she is put in a situation by Sree that will always paint her in a different light to viewers then if she would not have had him harassing her. I feel awful for her right now, much as I liked Sree to begin with.

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remember when Noirin first tried to tell Sree to leave her alone and that they were just friends; Noirin said: "I've told you before.." so obviously they had a conversation before that we were not allowed to see. We are only seeing the edit it's unfair to call her filthy names based on just the edit. She hasn't done anything remotely whorish, enjoying male attention and having a bitch is not whoreish behaviour.

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Originally posted by Mentalist:
I have problem with the word whore, in this day and age why are women still being judged on their behaviour with men. Any woman has the right to behave in any way she wants, whether it be sleeping with many partners or flirting with people. I wish that as a society we would stop judging people on such trivial behaiours. Has she killed someone, NO, is she torturing or maiming anyone, NO. I don't like Noirin very much, not sure why, but Sree is a disagreeable little man who thinks that this poor girl is his property. Out in the real world his behaviour, if it continued to escalate would merit a restraining order.

If none of this made sense I'm sorry but I have been to the pub.