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I am glad she is leaving ( if this is true). I know you liked her - I don't understand why and I will never understand why but I am sorry that you feel bad about it. The thing is CS, people say she is entertaining tc... she isn't. Not really. She is a young woman with a huge chip on her shoulder who really is very self centred. At times she showed a side that was sensitive but those times were few and far between. It is very worrying that she has such terrific temper tantrums and appears to think that every one should accept these as part of her. Er no, she is an adult and should learn to control her temper. The house will be a lot quieter but better - there are enough big characters in there to keep it entertaining. And ( as I have said on other threads) bad behaviour should never be rewarded,
Looking at some of the footage from last night it would seem that everyone threw a tantrum of some description – are you saying that none of them should be rewarded.
The way the house dynamic has evolved we now have The Baron (Steve) as some sort of unofficial HoH and Nathan the kitchen police. Shabby has stated that the bathroom is about the only place that she now feels comfortable. Shabby and Caoimhe walking will be a victory for Nathan and Ife; but do they deserve to be rewarded?
Shabby has many faults from - her overbearing presence that can make people uncomfortable to an unnecessary use of foul language. But despite these I would still prefer her in the house to the radar dodgers and nodding puppy dogs. We saw a perfect example on the HL show last night when she challenged Josie over her attitude towards London – and threw another strop. I’m not suggesting Shabby was in the right – but she is never going to sit in silence or nod like a puppy dog if she disagrees with something.
The dullards and the poker players sit in silence while the likes of Shabby explode and fall to pieces; but it doesn’t make them nicer people, better people, or more deserving of housemate status imo…