Omg Pirate

Blimey Pirate, I don't know what to say, really I don't.     Hopefully she'll get  - and accept - some help.  You look after yourself x

OMG Pirate   I don't know what to say - it must be so raw for her to do such a thing.  I hope she's getting lots of help and support and counselling 

Pirate 

Geez Pirate that's awful. 

Pirate  hope things improve for you all soon 

Pirate! Don't walk away, though it's tempting I know. Worst thing you could do right now is walk away, not for them, but for you. 95% chance you'd regret it in later years.

Of course I'm not suggesting you wade in with meaningless platitudes, that wouldn't help anyone either, just let it be known that you are around.

I hope your sister talks to someone who can help her deal with her grief.

Big hug for you, Pirate.

Pirate, try and get sis to contact Cruse bereavement Care.

www.cruse.org.uk

theyre taking her to a psychiatric hospital in a bit

hopefully theyll sort her out

It's the best place for her at the moment.Take care Pirate

she's home now

just spoke to her on the phone

she says she got nothing now Ma has gone

i told her off

shes got kids/grandkids/me

she thinks life isnt worth living

i spent half hour on the phone telling her i love her

i dont trust her

she'll do summat daft

and i bought her a kindle

anf put self help books & her fave books on

you are doing the best you can Pirate, surely her family will watch her...I've done the suicide watch with a close relative, its hard...

Awwww pirate, this is not what your mum would have wanted

What can you do? Just be there for her, talk to her, keep talking to her, and, importantly, look after yourself. It's still pretty raw for you too xxx

Oh jeez ... Sounds horrid

bro-in-law dont sound convinced

me an him dont get on but he couldnt wait to make sure me & Sis talked

i hope she'll be ok

it is Rexi, I feel for Pirate and how he's going to cope 

what about her children Pirate, can someone not stay with her?.... she needs to understand how much her family love her and how devastated they would be if she left them. they need reassurance that people care enough for them to be strong 

It must be difficult for you, Pirate. Is she seeing a counsellor or therapist that she can talk things through with?

Awww Pirate.... you can't do any more than you've done  

i told her i love her

i told her she couldnt of done anymore for Ma

even queen mother didnt have so many daily visitors 

i bought her a kindle

with self help books on

and stories from our past

off to bed

night Pirate...try and get some sleep 

shes fresh out the funny farm

she'll be reet

Pirate, this must be such a difficult time for you, but just want to say, given all that you have said and thought about your sis in the past, how bloody impressed I am that you are able to do and say this to her now 

Maybe her GP could arrange for her to see a bereavement counsellor.

Exactly what i was thinking, you're doing all you can by the looks of it