I should go myself *yawns*
quote:Wiht hindsight though, I would have liked to have been able to warn people like Tupps, Lee & Stonksy etc....... I KNEW it would all end in tears
I did try
But I think peeps thought I was a bit of a loon.I'm lots of things, most of which I can own up to (not all, we all have issues, eh?) but yeah...I'm annoying as frick etc etc...but I was right about that.
Good people got hurt, no satisfaction there from me...but I saw it coming a mile off.
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
I'm painfully aware of that. And all the poor buggers who got banned because they'd posted within a 5km radius of me at some point within the last five years.
I could say an awful lot.
But what's the point. Divas is finished and over. C4 is finished and over. Whoever got their jollies dragging their wormy arse over both forums is either gone or still getting their jollies.
Thing is.. now.. here.. freedom of speech and all that.. if anyone had a comment about specific FMs on tha defunct forum they could just do that. Because to say 'Divas' tars a fair few with the brush.. then you get defensive people... etc etc.
quote:Originally posted by Deegs:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oracle. You saw it all first time round too.
That's the one......and yes, I did. Epic stuff
I never went within sniffing distance of Divas, because I knew that jerk-off was behind it all. And no way in this lifetime would I ever have given him (and that poisonous mare Rosy) the staisfaction of denying my request to join. Plus I never do other places anyway.
Wiht hindsight though, I would have liked to have been able to warn people like Tupps, Lee & Stonksy etc....... I KNEW it would all end in tears
There was one person in particular that got hurt by the stuff on there. I'm grateful that we did manage to sort things out.
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
I did try
I'm lots of things, most of which I can own up to (not all, we all have issues, eh?) but yeah...I'm annoying as frick etc etc...but I was right about that.
Good people got hurt, no satisfaction there from me...but I saw it coming a mile off.
I'm a bit offended, to be honest!
You have NEVER annoyed me!
quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:Stay here, vem comer a salsicha cruaquote:Originally posted by Essex Angel:
Well I'm off, no-ones interested in me love triangle wiv carot's & scotty, I changed me sexual orientation for 5 minutes, no-one cared, I'm off to watch Katie & Peter to get a bit of
prospective in my life, if I'm still awake I'm gonna watch Britains next top model. Night peeps.
You gaiato tripular , soube EU poderia resistir , Eu sou desliga a cama , um grande construtor é esperando por me.
Right after all that I've come to the conclusion that I should go
Night all, be good to each other
Night all, be good to each other
Nossa! Não esperava isso!quote:Originally posted by Essex Angel:
You gaiato tripular , soube EU poderia resistir , Eu sou desliga a cama , um grande construtor é esperando por me.
quote:Originally posted by kattymieoww:
Wanders ..off!litttle girl bunny will be treated at the vet tomorrow! Hummph!
Katty I really hope you get comforting news tomorrow
our pets are such a precious part of our life aren't they. So many threads here end up discussing who was who elsewhere, who said or did what elsewhere, either a lot of hurt feeling still or maybe some can't just let go
quote:Originally posted by Raggy♥Doll:
Right after all that I've come to the conclusion that I should go
Night all, be good to each other
Night night.
I am good for anyone tonight!
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
I'm a bit offended, to be honest!
You have NEVER annoyed me!
I can try dead hard if you like?
And I won't get any kinky satisfaction out of it, honest.
quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.
I hear ya..
Lots of history.. none of which 99% of that forum were part of or even really knew of.
Correct me if I'm wrong.. but the 'beef' seems to be with a very small number. Not all 'divas'.. or should I say ex 'divas'.
quote:Originally posted by electric6:quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
I'm a bit offended, to be honest!
You have NEVER annoyed me!
I can try dead hard if you like?
And I won't get any kinky satisfaction out of it, honest.
Gawan then!
quote:Originally posted by Raggy♥Doll:
Right after all that I've come to the conclusion that I should go
Night all, be good to each other
Ta ra and sleep well xxx
Late for you Lecs...isn't the Post Office opening in 6 hours time?
On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.
I hear ya..
Lots of history.. none of which 99% of that forum were part of or even really knew of.
Correct me if I'm wrong.. but the 'beef' seems to be with a very small number. Not all 'divas'.. or should I say ex 'divas'.
quote:Originally posted by Raggy♥Doll:
Right after all that I've come to the conclusion that I should go
Night all, be good to each other
Nigh night Raggy..you've been a scream....
quote:Originally posted by Cariad:
Late for you Lecs...isn't the Post Office opening in 6 hours time?
OH! How very dare you!
*Rearranges Uggs*
*Checks tan*
*Bling, done*
*Pulling Disability Card, nods*
Pushes Cariad ouuta da way...NUFFINK comes between me an' me wagbenefits!
( Tell no one nowt, top secret this >>>
)
Good night to all you lovely peeps.
I still maintain Blizzie is the most sensible and wisest poster on this forum.
I still maintain Blizzie is the most sensible and wisest poster on this forum.
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
OH! How very dare you!
*Rearranges Uggs*
*Checks tan*
*Bling, done*
*Pulling Disability Card, nods*
Pushes Cariad ouuta da way...NUFFINK comes between me an' me wagbenefits!
( Tell no one nowt, top secret this >>>
OK, I'm slightly annoyed!
quote:Originally posted by Essex Angel:
Good night to all you lovely peeps.
I still maintain Blizzie is the most sensible and wisest poster on this forum.
Well, tonight I am drunkled and will agree with you!
And goodnight!
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
*Annoys Blizzie HARD*
*** enjoyze ***
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by electric6:
*Annoys Blizzie HARD*
*** enjoyze ***
Deeeeeeeeeeeeustzting!
quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.
I hear ya..
Lots of history.. none of which 99% of that forum were part of or even really knew of.
Correct me if I'm wrong.. but the 'beef' seems to be with a very small number. Not all 'divas'.. or should I say ex 'divas'.
It worries me that people seem to think all Divas were "fooled" and fell for some sort of act. Many weren't fooled for a minute but choose to ignore it as it didn't effect their lives in any way and they had friends there they wanted to continue to post with.
It worries me that a tiny minority of anonymous members are now blamed for the trolling on C4. I was at Divas from the very beginning, I had access to the infamous Venting room, I never once became involved in the paranoia that sprung from there or the arguments that followed but I tell you this much.... anyone with access to that room also had access to knowledge of at least two Diva members alternate C4 ID's. I saw people laughing at the antics. I saw people slagging others off for the EXACT same tactics. The hypocrisy made me sick.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but it wasn't just down to the owner. It frustrates the hell out of me that I had to "listen" to months of ramblings about the "evil Pris" but watch people behave in the exact way they accused you of.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but every time I see a newbie accused of being an alternate ID, every time I see someone jumped on for very little reason except some imagined slight it brings it all flooding back.
It was a small minority, but they certainly weren't all anonymous.
divas never invited me in, that is so wrong.
quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.
My philosophy is to have it out..
in case people hadn't noticed. That was hard to do on C4 and I think alot of crap has gone around with the 'he said/she saids' .. 'evidence' presented that was never even shown to the other side let alone them be allowed to question or counter it. I'm just going to say that with divas (when it existed and in the fallout) not everyone got a chance to hear both sides, not everyone toed the party line and not everyone was a card carrying hater. I've said this to some people concerned at the time and took a whole load of crap for it.. some of what happened, what was said and the spin bullshit was unfounded and wrong.
But that is that and there is no turning the clock back. But with the continued little digs at 'divas' it's all just living in the past.
It's over.. done.. for most people who were on there. For the ones who took their baggage there and are still hauling it.. they're the ones that should be getting the crap.
I really appreciate that. Thanks. It's the first time anyone's ever said anything like it.quote:Originally posted by Duckypup:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.
I hear ya..
Lots of history.. none of which 99% of that forum were part of or even really knew of.
Correct me if I'm wrong.. but the 'beef' seems to be with a very small number. Not all 'divas'.. or should I say ex 'divas'.
It worries me that people seem to think all Divas were "fooled" and fell for some sort of act. Many weren't fooled for a minute but choose to ignore it as it didn't effect their lives in any way and they had friends there they wanted to continue to post with.
It worries me that a tiny minority of anonymous members are now blamed for the trolling on C4. I was at Divas from the very beginning, I had access to the infamous Venting room, I never once became involved in the paranoia that sprung from there or the arguments that followed but I tell you this much.... anyone with access to that room also had access to knowledge of at least two Diva members alternate C4 ID's. I saw people laughing at the antics. I saw people slagging others off for the EXACT same tactics. The hypocrisy made me sick.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but it wasn't just down to the owner. It frustrates the hell out of me that I had to "listen" to months of ramblings about the "evil Pris" but watch people behave in the exact way they accused you of.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but every time I see a newbie accused of being an alternate ID, every time I see someone jumped on for very little reason except some imagined slight it brings it all flooding back.
It was a small minority, but they certainly weren't all anonymous.
quote:Originally posted by strike:
divas never invited me in, that is so wrong.
You have a pm
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
I proper flupped up that spelling
Was it somefink Geordieish?
quote:Originally posted by strike:
divas never invited me in, that is so wrong.
Well, the blanket silence on the subject appears to have lifted, which in all honesty has chuffed me no end. It probably shouldn't in that once the computer's switched off it doesn't get a second thought, but as long as I'm here, it probably does mean something, but the simple fact that it's being acknowledged that some of it did indeed happen is enough to put it to bed for me.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.
My philosophy is to have it out..
I'm just going to say that with divas (when it existed and in the fallout) not everyone got a chance to hear both sides, not everyone toed the party line and not everyone was a card carrying hater. I've said this to some people concerned at the time and took a whole load of crap for it.. some of what happened, what was said and the spin bullshit was unfounded and wrong.
But that is that and there is no turning the clock back. But with the continued little digs at 'divas' it's all just living in the past.
It's over.. done.. for most people who were on there. For the ones who took their baggage there and are still hauling it.. they're the ones that should be getting the crap.
quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:I really appreciate that. Thanks. It's the first time anyone's ever said anything like it.quote:Originally posted by Duckypup:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:On my part yes. I don't know the majority of them and I'm certainly not here to change anyone's opinions. All I'm saying is that some were indeed privy and revelled in it.quote:Originally posted by tupps:quote:Originally posted by Penny Gabrielwise:
Oh I agree; on both sides, which is why the 'leave the baggage at the door' was never going to happen.
I hear ya..
Lots of history.. none of which 99% of that forum were part of or even really knew of.
Correct me if I'm wrong.. but the 'beef' seems to be with a very small number. Not all 'divas'.. or should I say ex 'divas'.
It worries me that people seem to think all Divas were "fooled" and fell for some sort of act. Many weren't fooled for a minute but choose to ignore it as it didn't effect their lives in any way and they had friends there they wanted to continue to post with.
It worries me that a tiny minority of anonymous members are now blamed for the trolling on C4. I was at Divas from the very beginning, I had access to the infamous Venting room, I never once became involved in the paranoia that sprung from there or the arguments that followed but I tell you this much.... anyone with access to that room also had access to knowledge of at least two Diva members alternate C4 ID's. I saw people laughing at the antics. I saw people slagging others off for the EXACT same tactics. The hypocrisy made me sick.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but it wasn't just down to the owner. It frustrates the hell out of me that I had to "listen" to months of ramblings about the "evil Pris" but watch people behave in the exact way they accused you of.
Divas is over and done with, we all know that... but every time I see a newbie accused of being an alternate ID, every time I see someone jumped on for very little reason except some imagined slight it brings it all flooding back.
It was a small minority, but they certainly weren't all anonymous.
I've been biting my tongue for months.
If Divas taught me anything it was that you should always speak up if it's appropriate. I just wish I'd done more of it in Divas all those months ago.
Ironically ducky it was your thread in divas that started the whole beso vendetta off. No-one is blameless for the crap that happened in there or as a result of there. Not even you.
I was invited, but never got there.
Just like the shops.
Just like the shops.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by electric6:
I proper flupped up that spelling
Was it somefink Geordieish?
Vodkaish
I read it in forrin and wondered why you were posting about God, with something unintelligible on the end Lecs?
