@ the pic. Hi Dame.
Not sure about your theory. I think in this particular instance, I just find Nel an arrogant, sarcastic twonk!
You are right about Pengy and The Tie though.
And I agree about him doing a Rambo, and don't think the state has done enough to prove that there was a huge row and he shot Reeva in a rage.
I also think he is so desperate to get off on all charges that he is telling porkies and that could be his undoing.
There's a lot of truth in your last paragraph too - I do think he feels genuine remorse about shooting Reeva but he is self-centred, and his main concern is how it all affects him.
but... but... but.... I'm beyond all help