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Sorry to pester you lovely folk again with one of my silly problems. I have a trivial, but very annoying problem and don't know what to do about it.

Me and my hubby get incessantly irritated by people knocking the door (who we don't know,) trying to sell us something, trying to get us to switch to their energy supplier, trying to get us to turn to their religion, or begging for some charity or other. (We give to three charities through our bank, and certainly would not sign up to anything or give anything at the door anyway.) It is especially annoying if we are in the middle of tea, and have both been at work, and we just want peace. But sometimes it's in the day too!

We can walk away from them in Sainsburys or in the town centre, but it's a gross invasion of privacy when it's at your home, and they are on your damn doorstep! Plus if you're rude to them, they know where you live!

So we put up a sign about a year ago:

NOT WELCOME:

SALEPERSONS
COLD CANVASSERS
PEOPLE DOING SURVEYS
RELIGIOUS CALLERS

We do not disturb you in your home, so please do not disturb us in ours...

For a while it worked, and no-one knocked, but for this past two or three months, people have started to knock again, despite the sign being there. It has happened SEVEN times in the last four weeks alone now!

My pal thinks it's because some people are so desperate for the work, or the business, because of the recession, that they are taking their chances and hoping someone will reply and they will get a sale anyway. My opinion is that if they KNOW there is a recession, why bother people, when they must KNOW that folk can hardly afford to pay their mortgage, let alone afford a new conservatory/a new porch/new windows/doors/kitchens/soffits/ or to give to charity etc etc etc...

Moreover, there is a large A4 sign in the door, stating clearly they should not knock! Another problem is; my husband works nights every second week - and on three occasions in the past couple of weeks alone, they have knocked, sometimes two or three times, and woken him when he is asleep, (after his night shift.) This is NOT FUNNY. It's giving him broken sleep.

It's a real bugbear for us, but what else can we do other than put the bloody sign up?

My hubby answered the door last week, and before they could speak, he said 'why did you knock?' and the one woman (a charity collector,) said 'I have been told to knock the door anyway, even if there is a sign saying not to!' We were gobsmacked!

Another TWO who my hubby answered the door to, (2 weeks ago,) said they 'didn't see the sign until they had knocked.' It's an A4 sign in the biggest font you can get, and you can spot the sign from halfway down the damn road, so no WAY did they 'not see it,' before they knocked!

I have told my hubby to not answer when someone knocks, as we can see if it's someone we know from a side window that looks onto the front door. So I said 'when it's someone we don't know, don't answer.' But he still answers! And then asks them why they knocked, or just stands there blankly, then says 'no, thank you.'

Any advice? Thanks folks. This is getting so bloody annoying now! Especially with waking up my hubby when he is asleep, after being at work at night...

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Do you have a driveway/gate before the front door? If so... Put an A2 Sign on the gate with a notice that if that person does knock (upon reading the sign) the police will be called for harrassment - I'm pretty sure there is some form of law on door to door soliciting esp' if there's a no solicitation sign up.

If not just go around to one of your neighbours who has a really vicious sounding dog and tape it. Connect said tape to the doorbell but also leave the player by the front door. And make sure to play the tape when anyone knocks on the door.
Dean0Mac
I have no real answer, but I fully understand and sympathise.
It bugs me terribly.
The energy companies have been a pest, at the door, walking through town, at the supermarket.
I am not sure if every company does it, but some will put you on a "do not call" register (which can also apply to phone calls as well as doorstepping.)
I am normally a mild-mannered person but I find I have to be quite firm with some of them.
I am not always comfortable with that but they have driven me to be more assertive.
To me it often feels rude when I do it, but I dare say to them it is just another call.
To energy people I have been known to say something like:
"I have become sick and fed up with people pestering me at my door and in town to swap companies for better deals. So I have decided to stick with who I am with now and NOT TO CHANGE AT ANY PRICE NO MATTER HOW GOOD THE DEAL I HAVE DECIDED TO STAY WHERE I AM."
I believe there were official complaints - which were upheld about some energy companies and their aggressive sales tactics.
The religious tracts people get shorter shrift, because I have learnt the hard way, that anything more than a couple of words or a fleeting interest give them the opportunity they seek.
So to them it is "No thank you." And the door is closed.

I hope it soon subsides Pixie and your stress level goes down.
Good luck
brisket
I get the same thing even though I have a note on the door also Angry if I am caught unawares and answer it I ask them "if they can read ?" usually my grumpiness makes them clear off, one guy trying to get me to change electric supply was very pushy, had to tell him he was making me feel very ill standing listening to him and that I would forget everything he told me so no point, I was losing the will to live Frowner In the US a friend of mine has a note that says "we shoot every 4 th salesman, guess what number you are" don't think we would be allowed to do that here but I am very tempted Laugh it really is getting to much though same as the bluddy telelphone going every five minutes Angry
jessejay
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Originally posted by Cinds:
I signed up to this, you get a sticker for the door, and have never been bothered since.
doorwatchdog


quote:
Door watchdog is a service based on you human right to privacy at your home and your preference not to receive unsolicited callers.


They need someone to fix their website.

And TanyaHyde - Next time someone says that, say a grand and see if they'll buy it... Ninja
Dean0Mac
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Originally posted by MoFo:
quote:
Originally posted by TanyaHyde:
I have a similar problem with my sons car in the driveway - it's only fit for scrap but despite having a not for sale sign on the windscreen people still knock and ask how much we want for it Confused
Confused Does parking your car in your drive way usually suggest its for sale then!?!? Eeker


Maybe the 'not' is in teeny tiny letters! Glance
Blizz'ard
quote:
Originally posted by Dean0Mac:
quote:
Originally posted by Cinds:
I signed up to this, you get a sticker for the door, and have never been bothered since.
doorwatchdog


quote:
Door watchdog is a service based on you human right to privacy at your home and your preference not to receive unsolicited callers.


They need someone to fix their website.

And TanyaHyde - Next time someone says that, say a grand and see if they'll buy it... Ninja


Lol good idea Thumbs Up
T
quote:
Originally posted by MoFo:
quote:
Originally posted by TanyaHyde:
I have a similar problem with my sons car in the driveway - it's only fit for scrap but despite having a not for sale sign on the windscreen people still knock and ask how much we want for it Confused
Confused Does parking your car in your drive way usually suggest its for sale then!?!? Eeker


Lol it's cos it's obviously only worth scrapping
T
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Originally posted by TanyaHyde:
quote:
Originally posted by MoFo:
quote:
Originally posted by TanyaHyde:
I have a similar problem with my sons car in the driveway - it's only fit for scrap but despite having a not for sale sign on the windscreen people still knock and ask how much we want for it Confused
Confused Does parking your car in your drive way usually suggest its for sale then!?!? Eeker


Lol it's cos it's obviously only worth scrapping
Up on bricks eh? Your neighbours must love you! Wink

Eeker I do apologise, I unleashed my inner snob there!!! Eeker Laugh Laugh
MoFo
Thanks for all the great advice folks. Sorry to disappear just after I posted, but my internet went off as soon as I clicked post!!! We have thunderstorms here and it knocked off the internet for half an hour!

Well, I can't really do anything about my hubby answering the door, but it is annoying me that he answers. 'I just want to know why they knocked' he says. Jeeeez, stop answering it man! He is annoying me with answering it...

Anyhoo, I think we need to definately put some announcement about hubby being on nightshift, but can we say 'the police will be called as it will be classed as 'harrassment if you knock when we tell you NOT to?'

My hubby said 'it's not harrassment, especially if they only call once,' but I am sure it is. If we have clearly stated that we want NO COLD CALLERS, then isn't it harrassment, if they do knock???
CheekyPixie

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