We always had stayed in with the kids had neighbours in and a fun night. The kids got older - we had great parties - the kids started going out - we;d be in with friends, neighbours, family (open house) and the kids joined in when they came home.
the last three years we've gone down to my sister (4 hour drive) taken my mum too - lovely meal in and it's been lovely to have that tyime together as we don't ever get to spend Christmas together - we'll be going down to Kent Saturday afternoon and seeing all the nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews too on New Years Day. My daughter is coming as well this year - she's single for the first time in 12 years, although she has people to go out with she said she wants to be with people who are special to her!
It's all about being with loved ones TBH. And .....although we're not Scottish we always send someone dark out of the back door to be the first person through the door on NYD!