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God knows how it happened
i left her at a pub for a party-i went home-did dinner-went back
someone said she'd fell over-so i found her in the beer garden
she HAD fell over and blood was pissing out of her side
i had a better look-and i noticed a 'slit' in her side
an ambulance got called-the cop said it looked like a screwdriver had stabbed her, paramedics said the same-the doc at the hospital put a 'swab' stick inside the wound-6cm! and said it was a screwdriver or something similar
she had them scan thingys, but it missed her bowel cos it went in at an angle
so she didnt have to have surgery but she was kept in overnight
CID,cops, barstaff and us have checked where she fell-lots of blood-no sharp 3inch long things lying about
so the cops have came to the conclusion she was stabbed-they checked CCTV and nothing
WTF!

but shes home safe and sound now and i wont let her outta my sight!

anyone wanna play detective and give me some theories?

ive been offered one by a local but its so outlandish and away with the fairies, i dare not consider it

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justafriendMember

oh my goodness charmer, sounds terrible hope shes ok

10/20/0912:10 PM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

OMG charmer...that is shocking! I cannot believe it!! I hope she's ok, thank God it missed her bowel....thank God you went back for her

10/20/0912:10 PM

MysTerryMember

Hope she's OK now..

I'd have loved to play detective but under the circumstances, I haven't got a clue what might have happened

unless of course, she had something in her pocket that might have caused the 'slit' ??

10/20/0912:11 PM

darloboy (Play The Game!)Member

shocking but hope she's ok

, you spoil her rotten lol since she's not allowed out of your sight

. What a relief you went back.

10/20/0912:12 PM

DemantoidMember

Wow

That happened to OH's brother in the States. He collapsed off his bar stool and everyone just thought he was drunk - till they saw the blood. Someone had stabbed him and it just missed his kidney.

10/20/0912:14 PM

Former Member

Sorry to hear that and glad she is OK, did she fall and something in her pocket stabbed her?

10/20/0912:14 PM

Mary SeacoleMember

Charmer that's dreadful, did she have anything sharp on her, nail file in a handbag that could have pocked through for example.

10/20/0912:14 PM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

COuld she have been stabbed by someone and not felt it after a few drinks in a busy pub? Maybe if it was something sharp, it is possible...

10/20/0912:15 PM

charmerMember

nah-nothing her in pockets-they were empty
there were loads of people about - villa had played chelsea that day and loads went to the pub to watch the match-it was busy til late at night
but cos everyone was as pissed as rats (inc OH) no one can remember anything-the CCTV showed nothing
you gotta bear in mind my OH is the nicest, kindest person ever, but the only conclusion we can all come to is someone jabbed her
dunno why or how

10/20/0912:24 PM

queenshaksMember

Maybe it was an accidental jabbing Charmer?

Glad she's ok though mate

10/20/0912:26 PM

DemantoidMember

Noooooooo... don't blame the Villa fans. We're nice

10/20/0912:26 PM

Former Member

All i can say Charmer is to ask the Police to investigate further, there are nutters everywhere, unfortunately, thats why i dont go out much these days, but thank goodness she is ok x

10/20/0912:28 PM

Yogi19Member 10 years

It does sound like she has been the victim of some random stabbing, Charmer. Hope she recovers very soon.

10/20/0912:29 PM

fabienneMember

So sorry this happened to your lovely lady, charmer.

Maybe you could keep a note of all the people you know of who were there, and in time you might get some information out of them about what happened. Sometimes people will remember things after some time has passed.

10/20/0912:29 PM

charmerMember

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don't blame the Villa fans.

that will NEVER happen..!

blimey its being doing my head in though-i havent even posted here for a few days..she's got me running round after her

shes wearing me legs down-im 3ft 2" now

10/20/0912:34 PM

queenshaksMember

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shes wearing me legs down-im 3ft 2" now

I've always been that height...

10/20/0912:36 PM

charmerMember

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It does sound like she has been the victim of some random stabbing

it does-but why no evidence on CCTV from the garden, where she fell?
maybe it happened a few mins after when she went to the toilet..maybe-i dunno

10/20/0912:38 PM

The Devil In DiamanteMember

I'm sure whoever did it didn't intend to target your GF charmer, though it's scary thinking that folks carry weapons around

10/20/0912:39 PM

liverbirdMember 10 years

How awful for you both! Hope she's soon fully recovered

10/20/0912:53 PM

DemantoidMember

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that will NEVER happen..! blimey its being doing my head in though-i havent even posted here for a few days..she's got me running round after her shes wearing me legs down-im 3ft 2" now

Sounds like she's on the mend, then

10/20/0912:56 PM

JennyMember

That's a really strange one! I'm glad to hear that she's relatively alright now, but how shocking.

If CCTV didn't show anything at the time of her fall, ie no-one near her to have done something like that, how about prior to it? The few minutes leading up to it? She might not have known it happened, and the fall was the delayed reaction. Sounds far-fetched, but it can, and does happen.

10/20/091:05 PM

charmerMember

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and the fall was the delayed reaction.

never thought of that one

10/20/091:07 PM

SazBombMember

Blimey

Pleased she is ok Charmer... you just keep running round after her

10/20/091:14 PM

JennyMember

If she'd been drinking a fair bit, it is certainly a possibility. Get them to check earlier footage of the CCTV. If she was stabbed, the person who did it shouldn't be walking around able to do that to another random person.

10/20/091:14 PM

Dame_Ann_AverageMember VIP10 years

That's awful Charmer, I hope she'll be ok soon.... strange but totally plausible the fall was a delayed reaction, especially if your other half was a tad tipsy.

10/20/091:20 PM

retsinaMember

Very scary. And serious.

10/20/091:21 PM

charmerMember

ive put her to bed now
the whole idea that a random twat did a random thing-well..its pretty weird
but it happens

10/20/091:22 PM

charmerMember

by the way we live in a nice area-things have gone 'off' in the pub before
but shit happens in hundreds of pubs
but as to why my OH got hurt is waaaaaaaay beyond me-shes such a nice girl
i suppose 'random' is the word

so ive got my problems offa me chest-shes alive and moaning kicking lol!
thats the main thing

10/20/091:26 PM

Soozy WooMember

I know this may sound a bit lame but .........has she no recollection of what happened? I can be very drunk but still know vaguely what's gone on. I'm sure I'd know if I'd been stabbed and how it happened even if I was totally off my face.

10/20/091:29 PM

JennyMember

Did the CCTV show any handbags on the floor near where she fell? That's another possibility. That someone had something sharp in their bag, and as she fell on it, it dug into her. I'd rather that thought, than to think someone is going round stabbing random people with a screwdriver.

10/20/091:29 PM

charmerMember

to suzy an jenny
she'd been the pub since 1pm i went at 3pm, she'd downed about 4 pints-they'd just started on the sambucas (sp) about 5 went down-each
i had 3 pints, 3 sambucas at 6.30pm, i felt pissed and went home and made dinner-so God knows what she'd drank after i left-they were all the same-i just havent got a clue what happened

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. I'm sure I'd know if I'd been stabbed and how it happened even if I was totally off my face

i totally banned her her from ever going there again-and where did i find her earlier..?
in the bloody beer garden looking for clues-not drinking cos shes on anti biotics-but she was there, searching lol

10/20/091:54 PM

JennyMember

Oh! Another thought! Did she fall against a table or a chair, and could that item have had a nail, or a bit of metal sticking out, that struck her as she fell?

10/20/092:02 PM

charmerMember

nah, jen
me and the FBI, CID etc..
nah, thats all been checked

10/20/092:08 PM

JennyMember

It is a strange one charmer. She's so lucky that it missed anything vital. Hope she has a speedy recovery.

10/20/092:10 PM

charmerMember

It is a strange one charmer.

youre telling me!

10/20/092:17 PM

carotinoMember

Glad she's okay charmer.

But WTF!

10/20/092:21 PM

charmerMember

Glad she's okay charmer. But WTF!

M8-ive looked, ive questioned, its worn me out
i dunno where to take this

10/20/092:27 PM

nanalouMember

I'm glad your OH is ok charmer. This must have been a really scarey and nasty shock to her (and you)

10/20/092:39 PM

charmerMember

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This must have been a really scarey and nasty shock to her (and you)

nana-shes such a nice, kind girl,i cant believe anyone would hurt her-but the evidence points that way

10/20/092:43 PM

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