Though the person may be gone. The memories will last forever Pirate 

me & sis just been crying on the phone to each other

the duprees

you belong to me

on youtube

dont wanna sound a wanka but i dont think i'll get over this

*says will blubbing*

I promise you will. 

You will.  Eventually.

And even if you didn't, it wouldn't make you a w@nker 

you will Pirate, we've been there 

Awwww.... it is very hard pirate.... but you will eventually come to terms with it

I don't think you ever do get over it pirate.. but I promise you do get through it and find ways round it , honest xx

i dunno

just listening to 'smile' a charle chaplin song

waiting to perk up

gonna drown my head with blondie

remember when i told you my mom phoned me and said

'your dad said debbie harry is in coronation street tonight'

so i watched it

it was debbie arnold

close though

 Its true Pirate xx  

going to watch warehouse 13

in the lounge

the lounge where i now have red cushions

curtesy of ma

love you mom

cracking up

i think so

i'll be reet in the morning

nighty night

Nite nite pirate. 

Loved that story about your mom and her bum steer about Debbie Harry and Corrie!  

Also love how much you love your mom. 

Night Pirate  So sorry you're hurting so much xx

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i know what you are going through, me n my mum have been down my grans place going through stuff, the `for sale` sign outside hit us like a slap in the face. We both just broke down crying, its hard> we lost her in february and it still has not hit me. i dont think I will ever get over it sometimes. maybe because of this I really felt for you, I cried when I read your post> not quite sure wat my point is but we are here for you 

 What a lovely post Clumsy

That must've been heartbreaking  Its a shock when the world just carries on... without someone so important and so loved. 

We're here for you too xx 

Lordy what a miserable sod i was last night!

ive decided to be happy

tonight

in fact im starting a new thread

Don't be silly, we all have our different ways of coping and it's VERY early days yet. Please just give it time 

Pirate. we all have our ways to deal with grief. Do it your way and dont apologise! You have friends here to listen. Glad you feel more upbeat today though  If you feel bad later, well someone will be here to listen. Its ok x


Love to Clumsy too xx 

Don't be silly Pirate  just let it out xx

Moms funeral today

ive warned sis not to go bonkers & hurl herself into the grave

as i have sciatica & wont be able to pull her out

Pirate really hope it all goes as well as it can mate.

If Roses Grow in Heaven - Kirsten Preus

Don't think of her as gone away,

Her journey's just begun

Life holds so many facets,

This earth is only one.

Just think of her as resting from the sorrows and the tears

In a place of warmth and comfort Where there are no days and years.

Think how she must be wishing That we could know today,

How nothing but our sadness Can really pass away

 And think of her as living In the hearts of those she touched,

 For nothing loved is ever lost And she was loved so much.

Pirate 

Hope you gave your mammy a great send off - thinking of you 

Thinking of you Pirate xx 

Thinking of you, Pirate, and hoping it goes as well as possible.

Very sorry to hear your sad news..I lost my beloved mum in 2010. it still hurts, I miss her dreadfully. Take each day at a time, and keep her memory alive in your heart.

pirate

Thinking of you pirate

Hope your mom got a good send-off pirate. I've been thinking of you.