Pirate 

Ditts   hang in there and have Mr Ditts give you huge cuddles from us lot.

Rawks   great post - know exactly what you mean.   It does get better Pirate even if it doesn't seem possible right now, one day you'll manage to talk and laugh about your times with her again (and occasionally for no good reason you'll just get hit with a wave of emotion and you'll just burst in to tears - it's just all part of being human)

Pirate   so sad to read about your mum ,thoughts are with you at this time ,take care and know we are here for you. 

Pirate, I`m so sorry about the loss of your dear Mum.

My thoughts are with you. x  

Oh, pirate....

I'm so sorry. It's got to be just awful. Eventually it'll get easier to bear, though.

I hope you can take comfort in the fact that you DID come back to her, and that you were there for her at the end.

Much peace to you...

Such sad news pirate

so sorry thinking of you take care xx

You will never `get over it` i lost my Dad & Gran in the space of 1 year... always hurts... you just learn to live with it. 

You WILL be ok.. just takes a while...

my heart goes out to you..

huge hugs 

I'm so very, very sorry pirate - that's awful news - so sorry

A truly painful time Pirate, but, she left you (and your sister), with all your memories, that you are lucky enough to be able to smile about, laugh at, (moan at), feel comforted by, and take forward in your life.

A sad crying time, but wrap yourself up in good memories and see tomorrow for your Mum.

Lost me mum and dad within 9 months

It's sad Pirate very sad

Pirate, the pain will ease. I was with my mum just a few hours before she died and that in itself was one of my biggest comforts. You were with your mum when she went, so let that be one of yours too. Look after yourself, you lovely bloke. 

That's awful Moonie 

Sorry mate.

really sorry pirate xxx

Fankoo. It was some ten years ago now. For ages afterwards I used to go into the front room expecting to see my mum sitting in her favourite seat at the end of the sofa behind the door

There are no words that can stop the pain you're feeling Pirate, feel them and let them pass through you for release along with the many tears that come. Like others here I too have been through the loss of parents. Everything you're feeling is the measure of love and memories/thoughts you have for your Mum, if you didn't care you wouldn't feel it. Maybe not for everyone because of a different belief to mine but when I grieved there was also a part of me that felt relief my Mum wasn't suffering any more from the physical earthly situations experienced here. I still miss her, I always will, but personally I know she's in a much better place without any suffering and it would feel selfish of me to wish she was still here and suffering. I still have my memories and photos of happy times and they help to make me smile even though it's bittersweet at times. Big Hugs for you as you go through this painful time in your life xxxx

You just expressed the all same sentiments I had when my mum died. It says it all. Thank you for that.  I do hope you read what she said pirate. 

So sorry for your loss, Pirate. You were there though, and believe me, that will give you comfort, in time. Hugs for you 

So sorry for your loss Pirate  

Pirate......So sorry to hear your sad news....

thank you for all comments & advice & thoughts

you dont know how much it means

i really cant tell you how much it means

Pirate,

I've been away from here for a short while and just noticed your sad news. Please accept my sympathies and hope you are feeling just a bit better if that is possible.

EC.

 You know you have friends here, if you need us.

 We're always here Pirate..

you  dont need to - but its nice to see you pop in so that we know you are okish though 

I echo as said 

Thinking of you today Pirate 

Pirate glad you posted, been thinking of you, hoping you're as ok can you can be.

and me 

Originally Posted by Jenstar:

Pirate glad you posted, been thinking of you, hoping you're as ok can you can be.

 

 

and me 

and me

Good to see you here Pirate 

So sorry Pirate....

Lost my Mum in Nov last year....devastated!

My heartfelt kisses XX

Haven't been in here for a couple of days so only just seen this.

So sorry Pirate, huge hugs xx

This.  Spot on MrsH.

Pirate

I didn't know that

Broke my heart a little bit Rexi 

 Take care Pirate 

So sorry for your loss Slimfern  

just wrote thing for mom

phoned sis told her she should read it out

i read it to her

some of it cos rest is personal

All three of her children shared the love

And support of our mom

We’ve had major hiccups in the past

But she raised kids who loved her

No matter what

We loved her

She went on to share the love of grand children and great grand children

And that is the best legacy 

we will always love and miss you