quote:Originally posted by 12345:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pudOFG5X6uA
Oh Gawd blimmin waterworks again
quote:Originally posted by 12345:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pudOFG5X6uA
quote:Originally posted by Karma_:quote:Originally posted by 12345:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pudOFG5X6uA
Oh Gawd blimmin waterworks again
quote:Originally posted by daydreamy:
Karma I cant believe you admitted that
I am taking my kids out for ice cream, many thanks to everyone for giving their support or words of advice and for reading
quote:Originally posted by ~Cosmopolitan~:
I've only read the first page because I know I'll be blubbing before I reach the end of this thread.
I have been in the same situation with my 2 sons.
We got out. But I do have the guilt of not having got out sooner. It wasn't only me who ended up being battered...he eventually started on my boys too. That's when I moved my arse into gear.
He was denied access and I never waivered when I got the occasional pleading letter from one of his family. He hadn't changed but they had no scruples - they had no real concern for the kids, only themselves. He himself never asked to see the kids and announced he had no intention of cleaning up his act as he had no reason to.
He took on a 2nd family and did precisely the same thing to his new wife. From going to the cat that had the cream (they got together whilst I was still living in the same village...the divorce proceding had only just started), she ended up on first name terms with the A&E department.
We luckily moved away before it all came crashing down around him.
We found a happy life and have never looked back...and never saw him again apart from passing sightings. He looked as he was, pathetic.
If any one ever wonders what makes a woman stick around then it is this: you feel safer with what you know despite it being based on fear and misery. The pressure to do the right thing when you have children is terrifying...the fear of the unknown feels less safe than the harsh reality of what you're enduring.
It's bizarre.
quote:Originally posted by 12345:
My little sister had the same problem with her ex hubby.
He owns a few bars and thinks he is the big shot in the area they live in, he was and probably still is nothing more than a jumped up violent cheating coke head.
He had my pregnant sister by the hair dragging her about the house in a coke fuelled rage.
She begged me and my brother not to interfere, so we didn't.
So my advice to you is if you have brothers send them round.
quote:Originally posted by Karma_:
Bless you mate xxx But going to bed at night and being able to sleep and wake up with no fear is a wonderful thing isn't it? Cant put a price on that.
quote:Originally posted by skive:
For everyone here
And to those who might criticise people who choose to ask for advice here all I can say is that someone may be reading who is in that situation and they may not post but just reading that they are not alone could help enormously.
quote:Originally posted by ~Cosmopolitan~:quote:Originally posted by Karma_:
Bless you mate xxx But going to bed at night and being able to sleep and wake up with no fear is a wonderful thing isn't it? Cant put a price on that.
Hi Karma. for you.
I'm in Smug Land and have been for the last 20 years. Can't believe my luck, but there you go.
quote:Originally posted by 12345:
My little sister had the same problem with her ex hubby.
He owns a few bars and thinks he is the big shot in the area they live in, he was and probably still is nothing more than a jumped up violent cheating coke head.
He had my pregnant sister by the hair dragging her about the house in a coke fuelled rage.
She begged me and my brother not to interfere, so we didn't.
So my advice to you is if you have brothers send them round.
quote:Originally posted by ~Cosmopolitan~:
And besides, softly softly, catchee monkey....
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