we need a " meditator" badge under the avis!  

FG!!!! 

lal I checked with Growly and no that wasn't the post she was on about that was deleted. .

anyway tis over and done with now

Thanks Olly...as you say it's over and done with now...

I hope Growly comes back for BB..x

not likely Lal, she doesn't watch it anymore. .plus she has deregged completely 

Yogi, I thought that was probably one of my most insightful posts ever 

Truth is, I went outside to have a 5 min lunchtime fag break, had a quick look in on the forum on my phone, slung it back in my handbag and that clever little phone must have typed that all by itself! (Need to go check now to see if I've posted anywhere else!)

all I will say is that you owe me the biggest apology  :cross smiley:

Rexi, I'm soooooo sowwy....Mmmmm, maybe I'm on to something here,  I could make that excuse more often!

Anyway, now that I'm here, my thoughts are that we need to leave the criticism alone now, there were always going to be teething problems and, yes, people do learn from their mistakes, as long as the critique is fair, measured and constructive. If people feel attacked then they'll usually either come back fighting or crumble...we're all human! 

ain't that the truth

A little meditation is never a bad idea. I recommend here for anyone from around this part of the world