Wonder if Ben will ever read all of this shyte  these comments!    

I'm afraid you did Squiggle

I am very careful with that list. I have to make sure NO ONE ever gets the right to appeal

Nah he'll probably get his 'read this for me and I'll rub your back for a bit' friend to do it for him 

Edit. .oops that was meant to be under Tiddly's post abotu Ben reading any comments 

With all due respect Ducky I don't think all JJ fan's are as open minded as you....FM's discuss JJ fans in general terms at times,not aimed at FM fans as obviously there are others out there yet apparently it is taken as a personal thing resulting in much upset....I freely admit I despise how he behaves,absolutely despise it,I see him as an aggressive bully with deep seeded issues....On the other hand I am aware not everyone has LF access so base their opinion on HL show which is edited beyond belief but I cannot understand how or why a lot of folk think his behaviour is acceptable and what makes it worse worthy of reward....TBH the more I learn about him,how for example he even records conversations with his own mum for future reference the more loathsome I find him, but that's just me ,I do know how I'd react if any of my sons EVER behaved as he does and let's just say they'd risk singing soprano 

The difference is we don't report people we don't find funny.

We accept and welcome unfunny jokes too.

Ducky Who is Zaph and what horrid things did I say. I'm genuinely confused here.

Sorry to see you go - I'll miss your Jerry Springer nights in particular.
Good luck for the future and please be wary of Dave the cult leader who used you to stay in the house then backstabbed you to get you out.

Ref Ducky
The HM fan threads are open house..... they always have been. The best way to cope with it is with humour. If you look in the Shack the list of members is up to 64. Do you know how many of those are actual JJ fans? I could probably count them on my fingers.





Ho yes - don't go in there cos they will get you......

I have never reported anyone or even threatened to report anyone.

Reference: That's not what we're discussing here Lee. That's a seperate issue all together.... but one I'm more than willing to discuss.

JJ fans are CONSTANTLY called in to question on here. I don't care one bit if someone doesn't like JJ. I'm quite happy to read all the threads criticising him for example, we've even claimed the Crab Eyes insult for our own I've never cared if someone doesn't like the same HM's as me..... I know my own mind and don't feel threatened if others disagree.

I understand that people find it difficult to see why JJ fans "accept" his behaviour and "reward" it...... but you need to think about it in a different way. We don't "accept" anything. We see his behaviour in a completely different way. So there's nothing to accept.

I know it can be difficult to get your head around it when you dislike him SO much, but there's really nothing else to say. That's why I rarely defend him on here. What's the point? I've never going to change anyones mind about.

I find it difficult to see the attraction in Ben, Corin, and many others..... but I always resist the temptation to question the motives and personalities of those that do.

I think people need to be careful when commenting generally about a group of fans (rather than the HM...... we all know they are fair game) in such a close knit community. On C4 it wasn't an issue, on here it can feel more personal. Last year a friend of mine liked Noreen (sp?)..... and at that time the Noreen fans were being given a difficult time. So I was careful what I posted. It wasn't an issue and she may not of even cared,but I just thought it was polite.

I only came in for cake I can stay and diss JJ though

Ducky could you please clarify what you mean by:


Only after horrid things were said to Zaph through Fairfax

Great post Ducky - I'm a JJ fan too and like you dont even attempt to defend why.I like who I like (was a Noirin fan last year) - can't see the point in people getting so uptight over things.

Fairfax, Ducky typed though not through.

I didn't say THROUGH Fairfax...... I said THOUGH!

It wasn't you who said them

Yes! That's how you spell it!

I knew there were i's involved.

Oh we have plenty who regularly pop in to diss. But they're very polite about it.

Maybe cos we spend a fortune stuffing 'em with cake.

Glad you've got it now  - you'll do well to remember next time or we may have to fall out over it or at the very least I'll report you 

I think last night has been blown out of proportion.
Zaph posted a light-hearted gif (I found out what that was last night) in the Ben's Buddies thread. I didn't and still don't think his intentions were malicious.
Unfortunately, it was immediately after Ben's eviction and some Buddies were still feeling really upset and disappointed (in the style of recently defeated football fanatics). Things were said and it all went a bit pear-shaped.
Please can we all shake hands, kiss and make up etc etc and get back to dissing the HMs?
*dons hard hat and body armour*

Oh Ducky, thanks be to Jebus for that..I actually thought I was loosing it Bliddy hell, this BB carry on is mental.

In a few weeks that lot of deperados will be yesterday's chip paper.   This forum and it's posters will still be here, so what's the point of falling out and insulting each other because of who supports who?    Most of the time it's easy to ignore those you don't like, and avoid posting with them, as is the freedom of choice.   IMHO it's much ado about nothing as the bard once said!      As for reporting somebody for posting a cleverly doctored picture that was funny as fekk....... seriously, come on, get some perspective here, and have a word with yourselves!    

It really wasn't Yogi It was posted at 9:59.... that was before even the spoiler came out surely?

I'm glad you took it in the right spirit though

*tattoos it on my forehead*

I can't quote,again...Any road I can understand what you mean Ducky and tbf Ben fans have had a lot of flack and unfounded generalisation too...Folk show their support in different ways I guess but no matter who I ever supported I had no qualms saying if they were wrong,I'm not so blind in RL about those who are important to me so why would I lower my standards about any HM...Some things the HM's do are indefensible ,again I won't defend it nor will I ignore it and polish rose tinted glasses I've a tough enough time bothering with my reading glasses.

Aw Yogi, brilliantly put. I don't know owt about pictures or reporting but I have been guilty of being over sensitive this morning, and missunderstandings occured however, like the normally sensible person I am, I have made my apologies, kissed and made up.  Loved your words, spot on

I stand corrected, Ducky. It was when we were all still biting our nails with worry.

Don't go near the Shack Ben, they won't let you out!  

Yay!

Which leads us very nicely back round to Tiddles post.

In a few weeks none of this will matter anymore.

We have cake Ben.

Have you brushed you teeth and gargled with mouthwash?No tongues mind but pucker up.

Agreed.

Yep, Colgate and Listerine have been liberally used. *puckers up*

*Snogs*

   Tiddly.  I've just said something similar in The Shack.

we would 

lol, he's not dead you know!!

Remember when Ireland got knocked out of the World Cup Qualifiers, and you were gutted? It's the same kind of feeling.

Who are you kissing, Erin?
Doesn't matter, have a anyway.