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oh - I didn't realise that Ditty - part of my job is to teach dyslexics on a 1-1 , small group basis - only a minutiae part of it but i am doing a whole school thing to get the school dyslexia friendly status -  + taught Dyslexic adults for a diploma - will talk any time about SPLD
my brother is 37 Ros.   He went through his whole school life being shoved into the remedial groups...    only in his last year of secondary school did the dyslexia diagnosis come in (even my parents tagged him as "not very academic")....    he left school with nothing but an Art GCSE.

Then by accident he stumbled into a computer programming apprenticeship..    and.... very Matrix style...  though he struggled with language written or reading language...  Cobol computer programming language made perfect sense to him...   and he flew.   He drove past his old school less than 5 years later in his brand new Lotus Elise beeping the horn and sticking his fingers up!
Dirtyprettygirlthing
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hen by accident he stumbled into a computer programming apprenticeship.. and.... very Matrix style... though he struggled with language written or reading language... Cobol computer programming language made perfect sense to him... and he flew. He drove past his old school less than 5 years later in his brand new Lotus Elise beeping the horn and sticking his fingers up!
awwwwwww ditty - good for him - i teach one young boy - he i ssooooooo dyslexic it is untrue - but bright as a button - has speech/language issues as well - will tell him about your brother - he needs a confidence booster
Rocking Ros Rose
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will tell him about your brother - he needs a confidence booster
yes do Ros!   My brother could not even read a newspaper at 15. (not even a red top!).

there was an element of viscous circle going on though...   always failing, and feeling thick, undermining confidence, fear of trying, more undermining of self belief.

At 22 he read a book for the first time.   he read Dune!!!!  It completely gobsmacked us!   he had never got past the early primary school books... and then jumped to reading Dune.   He puts it down to having found success in his job, he then revisited all the other areas of his life he had assumed he was a failure in, and attempting them with a new confidence and approach.
Dirtyprettygirlthing
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He puts it down to having found success in his job, he then revisited all the other areas of his life he had assumed he was a failure in, and attempting them with a new confidence and approach.
That's interesting Ditty! When I worked in SEN I read a study that worked with two similar groups of children with reading difficulties, one group were given intensive reading lessons, the other were banned from reading altogether and worked only on boosting their self-esteem.

Guess which group made the greatest progress in their reading?
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Guess which group made the greatest progress in their reading?
its obvious when you think about it!    The whole remedial sectioning and the way it was done back then (dunno if it is still the same now)...    lead to being called a "ficky"...  

then in those classes my brother said the pressure to cope with what was being taught was even worse than normal classes...    almost with an attitude of "we have dumbed this down for you... you are just not trying now".

My brother hated school... with a passion.

I got into the most trouble at school cos of him...   though we used to fight like cat & dog, one whisper of anyone giving my brother grief used to get me sprinting over to the lower school and walloping some middle school git with my school bag!
Dirtyprettygirlthing
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I got into the most trouble at school cos of him... though we used to fight like cat & dog, one whisper of anyone giving my brother grief used to get me sprinting over to the lower school and walloping some middle school git with my school bag!
Hahaha..... I did the same thing for my little Sis (the crazy one). Wish I hadn't bothered now.

RIght.... I have to be up in six hours to brave a seven hour round trip car ride with an appalling driver! I may see you tomorrow night, I may not.

Night all
Ducky

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