Originally Posted by Blizz'ard:
Originally Posted by Mount Olympus *Olly*:
I actually am not sure that I think the age of the attacker should be relevant..... there have to be laws that all abide by or you'd have two people, say one aged 16 and one in their 30's, and they both have forced and unlawful sex with the same young adult who is say 15. . but the law lets the 16 yr old 'attacker' off and prosecutes the one in their 30's. . I know what I am trying to say here but am not saying it very well. . I think I better just shut up
I was talking about a 15 year old girl in a relationship with a 16 year old boy, not forced sex (rape). Of course he would be as guilty as a man in his 30s, if it is forced.
I understand that you are finding it 'blurry', when it comes to teenagers, but that seems to be because you are assuming that they were 'groupies', 'jumping on bandwagons' and after monetary compensation. You questioned why this woman would have allowed herself to be raped twice by the same man. I was giving you two instances which would explain how this could happen.
on the first point. I was not saying nor assuming they were all like this I said I hope some aren't
On the second point again I am not nor never did say the girl allowed herself to be raped.. . I dunno where you get that from. .
I respect your very strong feelings over these matters Blizzie, maybe blindingly strong sometimes? I feel just as strongly but I also accept not everything is black and white sometimes, hence my blurry areas on some things, so please don't put words into my mouth that I did not say.
I have never for one moment suggested that there are not legitimate claims out there, I was positing on the blurry cases that may be out there as well and wondering out loud how some things may have occurred. My questions were more rhetorical really. .
As for the monetary gain side, there are always going to be bandwagon jumper onners and I was wondering how some of those could be weeded out. .ie a forceful young adult groupie [who may be not have been quite legal at the time as many weren't] slept around all the slebs back in the day then sees an opportunity years later to make some money. . things like that happen now too .. ironically it's how Max Clifford made his bucks on the 'I slept with xyz' stories.. funny that some of it may come back to bite him on the ass
and please note I have used the words Young Adults not specified the gender of them as it refers to both male and female ..