but i sort of like it
i get called a slut a lot
but i sort of like it
but i sort of like it
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable.
I would take it to mean deviancy rather than obsession.
quote:Originally posted by jamieboy:
i get called a slut a lot
but i sort of like it
A quick google of "Sree sex pest" shows otherwise.quote:Originally posted by Kaytee:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:They can be but its rarely if ever used as an unsult in the way it is towards men. It really is the same insult to a man as slag.quote:Originally posted by DanceSettee:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:No trust me its definitely pervert.quote:Originally posted by DanceSettee:
back to the question
the male equivalent of slag is slag....don't need to have another word, just need to use the one we've got in an equal manner
All these women in here thinking there isnt an equivalent just think of all the words used to describe Sree and his desperation over the last few days. You have plenty trust me you dont need anymore.
I think we do. Sree isn't a 'bike' or a 'slag' because he isn't being accused of promiscuous behaviour.....he's more of a creep.
Its morally deviancy and its most certainly sexual.quote:Originally posted by electric6:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable.
I would take it to mean deviancy rather than obsession.
Capt Vimes
But is he actually pestering the girls for sex?I still think he's more creepy than anything else, whatever is going on in his head...so we must agree to differ on the terminology
quote:A quick google of "Sree sex pest" shows otherwise.
But is he actually pestering the girls for sex?I still think he's more creepy than anything else, whatever is going on in his head...so we must agree to differ on the terminology
quote:Originally posted by Kaytee:
Capt Vimesquote:A quick google of "Sree sex pest" shows otherwise.
But is he actually pestering the girls for sex?I still think he's more creepy than anything else, whatever is going on in his head...so we must agree to differ on the terminology
I'm not but plenty of people are, I wouldn't call Noirin a slag either.
Are you trying to say Noirin is really a slag? I give up I really do, I am gobsmacked people cant see that they are gender based insults for similar behaviour.
An equivalent insult for a bloke would seem to be 'virgin'.
Playa or Player is a term which gets around a bit for guys that keep going off with different girls, playing them off one by one .
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To me: Slag=Promiscuous.
Pervert=Deviant.
You can be promiscuous without being deviant, you can be deviant without being promiscuous. So I really don't think they mean the same thing...and no I don't think Noirin is a slag!
Plus the whole deviant thing is a minefield anyway...
Pervert=Deviant.
You can be promiscuous without being deviant, you can be deviant without being promiscuous. So I really don't think they mean the same thing...and no I don't think Noirin is a slag!
Plus the whole deviant thing is a minefield anyway...
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
An equivalent insult for a bloke would seem to be 'virgin'.
Aye!
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:quote:Originally posted by Kaytee:
Capt Vimesquote:A quick google of "Sree sex pest" shows otherwise.
But is he actually pestering the girls for sex?I still think he's more creepy than anything else, whatever is going on in his head...so we must agree to differ on the terminology
I'm not but plenty of people are, I wouldn't call Noirin a slag either.
Are you trying to say Noirin is really a slag? I give up I really do, I am gobsmacked people cant see that they are gender based insults for similar behaviour.
No!!!!!! I would not call Noirin a slag! Don't put words in my mouth. As far as she's concerned, I think she encouraged Sree initially, but has opened a can of worms that are now all over the place. The worst thing that I can accuse her of is playing the game
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
To me: Slag=Promiscuous.
Pervert=Deviant.
You can be promiscuous without being deviant, you can be deviant without being promiscuous. So I really don't think they mean the same thing...and no I don't think Noirin is a slag!
Plus the whole deviant thing is a minefield anyway...
Can I just add a disclaimer thing here.
When I said "To me" I didn't mean I think promiscuous people are "slags" I mean I think that's what people are referring to when they say it.
Just in case anyone tries to pick my words apart
Male equivalent of slag?
Legend.
Legend.
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable. It has been directed at a few male HMs too not because they ran around in a gimp suit either.
When I hear someone say that a particular women is a 'slag', I don't think that what she is alleged to be doing is morally unacceptable. That sounds really stuffy and victorian. Sex isn't about morals, well not to me anyway.
I think 'slag' is meant to mean that she's not choosy or that she's not got much self-respect or even that she just looks tarty. It's an implied judgement.
Of course, 'slag' is meant to be derogatory so someone who just likes sex or just likes a variety of men is a 'nympho' or 'out for a good time'. Or 'great' as most lads who are not looking for a long term partner would say.
Pervert doesn't mean obsessed with women or sex. It's unacceptable sexual deviancy. Like voyeurism, or stealing women's pants off a washing line deviancy. That's not the male equivalent of 'slag' at all.
quote:Originally posted by disley21:
Male equivalent of slag?
Legend.
Words have many definitions.quote:Originally posted by electric6:
To me: Slag=Promiscuous.
Pervert=Deviant.
You can be promiscuous without being deviant, you can be deviant without being promiscuous. So I really don't think they mean the same thing...and no I don't think Noirin is a slag!
Plus the whole deviant thing is a minefield anyway...
Slag=to deviate from to change the nature of.
Its the context that matters and in this context they are the same. Noirin isnt literally a slag and Sree isnt literally a pervert or sex pest yet they are both being called it because of their behaviour in the house towards the other sex.
quote:Originally posted by disley21:
Male equivalent of slag?
Legend.
Ha ha, that gets used here too
.Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this threadquote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable. It has been directed at a few male HMs too not because they ran around in a gimp suit either.
When I hear someone say that a particular women is a 'slag', I don't think that what she is alleged to be doing is morally unacceptable. That sounds really stuffy and victorian. Sex isn't about morals, well not to me anyway.
I think 'slag' is meant to mean that she's not choosy or that she's not got much self-respect or even that she just looks tarty. It's an implied judgement.
Of course, 'slag' is meant to be derogatory so someone who just likes sex or just likes a variety of men is a 'nympho' or 'out for a good time'. Or 'great' as most lads who are not looking for a long term partner would say.
Pervert doesn't mean obsessed with women or sex. It's unacceptable sexual deviancy. Like voyeurism, or stealing women's pants off a washing line deviancy. That's not the male equivalent of 'slag' at all.
in exasperation.
Not saying the two words have the same definition just that they are used as an insult in very much the same way.
I havent seen Sree steal any underwear yet but I guess there is still time...
I really don't see how a woman pulling a few fellas on a weekend or whatever is the same as men who have sex with pavements or summat.
But maybe that's just me
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this thread
in exasperation.
Prostitutes charge money. Slags most definitely don't. Except perhaps half a bag of chips. Fundamental difference.
quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:
Prostitutes charge money. Slags most definitely don't. Except perhaps half a bag of chips. Fundamental difference.
Half a bag?
Full bag, you bliddy prevert!
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
I really don't see how a woman pulling a few fellas on a weekend or whatever is the same as men who have sex with pavements or summat.
And his partner's a 'flag' there, not a 'slag'.
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this threadquote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable. It has been directed at a few male HMs too not because they ran around in a gimp suit either.
When I hear someone say that a particular women is a 'slag', I don't think that what she is alleged to be doing is morally unacceptable. That sounds really stuffy and victorian. Sex isn't about morals, well not to me anyway.
I think 'slag' is meant to mean that she's not choosy or that she's not got much self-respect or even that she just looks tarty. It's an implied judgement.
Of course, 'slag' is meant to be derogatory so someone who just likes sex or just likes a variety of men is a 'nympho' or 'out for a good time'. Or 'great' as most lads who are not looking for a long term partner would say.
Pervert doesn't mean obsessed with women or sex. It's unacceptable sexual deviancy. Like voyeurism, or stealing women's pants off a washing line deviancy. That's not the male equivalent of 'slag' at all.
in exasperation.
Not saying the two words have the same definition just that they are used as an insult in very much the same way.
I havent seen Sree steal any underwear yet but I guess there is still time...
Yeah but sket which is a new word for some is the same term as slag, dirty girls innit
.quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:
And his partner's a 'flag' there, not a 'slag'.
I demand concrete evidence!
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this threadquote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable. It has been directed at a few male HMs too not because they ran around in a gimp suit either.
When I hear someone say that a particular women is a 'slag', I don't think that what she is alleged to be doing is morally unacceptable. That sounds really stuffy and victorian. Sex isn't about morals, well not to me anyway.
I think 'slag' is meant to mean that she's not choosy or that she's not got much self-respect or even that she just looks tarty. It's an implied judgement.
Of course, 'slag' is meant to be derogatory so someone who just likes sex or just likes a variety of men is a 'nympho' or 'out for a good time'. Or 'great' as most lads who are not looking for a long term partner would say.
Pervert doesn't mean obsessed with women or sex. It's unacceptable sexual deviancy. Like voyeurism, or stealing women's pants off a washing line deviancy. That's not the male equivalent of 'slag' at all.
in exasperation.
Not saying the two words have the same definition just that they are used as an insult in very much the same way.
I havent seen Sree steal any underwear yet but I guess there is still time...
Yeah but sket which is a new word for some is the same term as slag, dirty girls innit
Yes but darlo is there also a bright shiny new name for men who sleep around (it must be insulting) in the same way as sket?
Slag is a term for prostutute the same as whore is. Slut is more the term you are thinking.quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this thread
in exasperation.
Prostitutes charge money. Slags most definitely don't. Except perhaps half a bag of chips. Fundamental difference.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:
Prostitutes charge money. Slags most definitely don't. Except perhaps half a bag of chips. Fundamental difference.
Half a bag?
Full bag, you bliddy prevert!
I could have had a posh wank (tm) at home with that condom so it's not worth a full bag!!1!
I've never heard that definition, they are all taken to mean much of a muchness is my age group...aside from specific terms like prostitute which definitely implies exchange of money.
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Slag is a term for prostutute the same as whore is. Slut is more the term you are thinking.
Not in any of the numerous places I've lived, matey. You from the Shetlands, or some other rather isolated place?
Terms for prostitutes and their origins
Fill your boots:
http://encyclopedia.jrank.org/...773/Prostitutes.html
Apparently I am making all this up for the fun of it.
Fill your boots:
http://encyclopedia.jrank.org/...773/Prostitutes.html
Apparently I am making all this up for the fun of it.
Let's face it, straight men aren't looked down on for sleeping around when they're single. Slag carries an implied negative judgement and that negative judgement doesn't exist for loose men.
quote:Originally posted by squiggle:quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:Jesus christ slag means prostitute how can it mean anything other than sex and morals. I really truly give up and leave this threadquote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
The word I used is pervert, someone obsessed with women and sex and not morally acceptable. It has been directed at a few male HMs too not because they ran around in a gimp suit either.
When I hear someone say that a particular women is a 'slag', I don't think that what she is alleged to be doing is morally unacceptable. That sounds really stuffy and victorian. Sex isn't about morals, well not to me anyway.
I think 'slag' is meant to mean that she's not choosy or that she's not got much self-respect or even that she just looks tarty. It's an implied judgement.
Of course, 'slag' is meant to be derogatory so someone who just likes sex or just likes a variety of men is a 'nympho' or 'out for a good time'. Or 'great' as most lads who are not looking for a long term partner would say.
Pervert doesn't mean obsessed with women or sex. It's unacceptable sexual deviancy. Like voyeurism, or stealing women's pants off a washing line deviancy. That's not the male equivalent of 'slag' at all.
in exasperation.
Not saying the two words have the same definition just that they are used as an insult in very much the same way.
I havent seen Sree steal any underwear yet but I guess there is still time...
Yeah but sket which is a new word for some is the same term as slag, dirty girls innit
Yes but darlo is there also a bright shiny new name for men who sleep around (it must be insulting) in the same way as sket?
Dunno but I hear playa being mentioned a lot as I mentioned on the other page basically a cheater and a user
.Wind your neck in and read the link above. Was originally a dirty low end prostitute which by nowadays would be equivalent to crack whore.quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Slag is a term for prostutute the same as whore is. Slut is more the term you are thinking.
Not in any of the numerous places I've lived, matey. You from the Shetlands, or some other rather isolated place?
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Terms for prostitutes and their origins
Fill your boots:
http://encyclopedia.jrank.org/...773/Prostitutes.html
Apparently I am making all this up for the fun of it.
Have you actually read that?
Lets face it pervert implies a negative judgement for men and it doesnt exist for perverted women. It doesnt imply he sleeps around but it is a negative insult aimed at men in the same way slag is aimed at women.quote:Originally posted by Daniel J*:
Let's face it, straight men aren't looked down on for sleeping around when they're single. Slag carries an implied negative judgement and that negative judgement doesn't exist for loose men.
many words to describe women are seen as negative when compared to men e.g
spinster...batchelor
witch.......wizard
prostitute.............gigalo
do you get where I am heading
spinster...batchelor
witch.......wizard
prostitute.............gigalo
do you get where I am heading
quote:Originally posted by CaptVimes:
Terms for prostitutes and their origins
Fill your boots:
http://encyclopedia.jrank.org/...773/Prostitutes.html
Apparently I am making all this up for the fun of it.
Keyword there is "origins" Capt.
Let me try another tack.
A monogamous couple, committed relationship, both virgins when they met...Just say they are into dressing up as Timmy Mallet and covering themselves in rice pudding for kicks. Some would call that "perverted"...No one would say it was "slaggy" or "slutty" behaviour. Just "weird" non-vanilla, if you will.
Someone who has many sexual partners may actually have a very vanilla sex life, all very winceyette nighties and in the dark...no one would call them "OMG you filthy pervert, that is so weird would they?
The only similarity I can see is society making judgements on what sexual behaviour is "correct"...but that's it.
quote:Lets face it pervert implies a negative judgement for men and it doesnt exist for perverted women.
Oh yes it does. It really does!
