Everyone has a different way of coping with things YR. Some folk on here may not enjoy the friends you have and take comfort from Cyber friends on here.. We may not be real but our love and help go out to all who post on here--- Births/ deaths/illness etc; Everyone has a way of coping-- and if posting on here for a bit of love helps-- then i will be there for them all.

 A bit of laughter can be good medicine, works a treat for me

If this place helps anyone to feel better by chatting about stuff then it helps.   It's all too easy for those with loads of friends to condemn folk  on here letting go and asking for help/ hugs etc; at a bad time... Just wish they would understand--- not everyone has friends/ family as they do.

Thank you Real. Because, yes, my forum friends mean very much to me too... but when something like this happens to my other friends I know I can tell you all about how I feel when my RL ones all have different things to be talking about. The same thing works in reverse. I think and worry about my forum friends in the same way.

Pam I am sure you are a very good support to your friends RL, you have certainly supported me on here,  

Thank you Lowni

Thank you Lowi... that means a lot.  

But tomorrow I shall have had a good night's sleep... eventually... and normal Pam service will be resumed soon.

This is why we have all become good friends on here--- We share our probs.--- some are her just to annoy, but we find them out and ignore them. The root to a good forum is trust and regard for other forum members. Some  have not got the same IT skills as others-- Some are less able than others-- some have disabilities--- some have only this place to look forward to every day... We should all help one and other and enjoy a great forum..

Oh MG, you noticed, so that's why you ignore me

Thank you also Real   We all have to face tragedy in our lives and it's certainly no stranger to me whether through family or friends, online or off.Whichever Forum we're on knowing that others reach out at such times always helps, thank you.

No, seriously we do have some great support from FM friends on here, and it is appreciated.  I hope to be able to support others too, whenever possible.  It does help make a good community.

If you add me as a friend on FB--- Real TVFan ( with a space) and read Justines story -- everything said tonight on here will seem trivial... My Daughter is Victoria T on there.   If you are not on there then am sure others reading this will agrre--- our probs are nowt compared to hers.

Real that is so sad,  and I can't imagine what anyone directly involved is feeling like, or how they cope.  Life is full of saddness and I think we have to find happiness at every opportunity.

Morning again Fekkin hell-- folk are gonna say i'm a Vampire. Night everyone-- Low Pam YR Catch yall when the moon shines later.

Morning again Fekkin hell-- folk are gonna say i'm a Vampire. Night everyone-- Low Pam YR Catch yall when the moon shines later.

This place seems to be grinding to a halt Slow Smileys--- Slow posting.

goodmorning and goodnight  sweet dreams  YR, Real  Pam and guests

I totally understand how all the circumstances you are personally connected to are making you feel. I'm also aware of so many dear friends who are going through such a challenging time either through life threatening diseases, loss of loved ones or those who are so worried about serious health conditions of loved ones. When life is painfully challenging if we're not experiencing it ourself I think it brings out the best of human nature to help support and care for all those we know or are aware of. I wish you and all those you care about strength to deal with all that's necessary to keep them going xxxxxxx

Real. although I set up a Facebook a/c because of an invite from a friend I can't get to grips with how to use it. Please I'd like to know about your daughter Victoria, can you share here. It's so late here so I'll check back tomorrow. Goodnight to all here, and thank you for all your sharing xxxxxxx

Hope you wake up feeling better Pam  

It's given me a right old giggle this thread  

Hope you are feeling better today Dearest Xochi

Awww! Thanks Gel... thanks punky...  

Yes... feeling much better tonight, thank you. Just had a down day... Love the blue heart punky! Perfect! Blue but burning bright!  And maybe purple blue today, not just blue.

Can I tickle your feet?

In the back of a taxi  

No! The Ritz or nothing!

She's not demanding 

Just setting simple boundaries... W1 or nothing.

Belgravia is over-rated  

Maybe I could tickle your feet en-route 

Carots!  I can't leave you alone for a minute.

If you promise not to tickle my feet en-route I may oblige in Hammersmith. Otherwise there would be traffic chaos.

It's late... we're consenting adults... what's wrong with a tickling Essie?

I'm trying to seduce Xochi here 

Everyone's been married so far  

  

It's OK Xochi if you want to join carot's Harem, I'm wife no.1, scotty is tart wife no.2, there are loads more so pick a number over 5000

That offer will be closed now 

I could tell you had the knowledge too 

Oh! So you're just after me for my marital status!  What is your immigration status?
What about my mind, my sense of humour, my ticklish feet then?

Well... I'm Harem number Hardtoget Essie!

I've heard different. --- Ms Blizzie.

This looks loike it's on hold  

She could have red hair  

To be sure 

Ah! So you and Dave are competing for Blousey! She hasn't been here I think...

Wish Pam would change that Avvy Reminds me of my MIL  Best to change Avvies often-- keeps everyone happy

Nahhhh--- Dave wins hands down---   I have others..