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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
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Originally posted by cologne1:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
But they did n God help them they have paid for it,my heart goes out to them

Yes. And they will pay for the rest of their lives. I feel very sorry for them and I also dread to think what will happen when their twins are of an age to judge them. I hope they wont.

I didnt think of that. I know they did wrong n i can also remember fm on our old site saying awful things about them but i didnt cos they have paid for it a million times


i agree, they must pay for it everyday, i just can't get my head around why they thought it was ok to leave them

Dont know aimee,you r a mum n im a mum of 3 n nan of 6(soon 7) n i would never leave them on there own but they did n God r the poor sods paying for it,my heart goes out to them
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
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Originally posted by Aimee:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
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Originally posted by cologne1:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
But they did n God help them they have paid for it,my heart goes out to them

Yes. And they will pay for the rest of their lives. I feel very sorry for them and I also dread to think what will happen when their twins are of an age to judge them. I hope they wont.

I didnt think of that. I know they did wrong n i can also remember fm on our old site saying awful things about them but i didnt cos they have paid for it a million times


i agree, they must pay for it everyday, i just can't get my head around why they thought it was ok to leave them

Dont know aimee,you r a mum n im a mum of 3 n nan of 6(soon 7) n i would never leave them on there own but they did n God r the poor sods paying for it,my heart goes out to them


imo the poor girl died not long after she disappeared, she was too much trouble to keep with the media all around at the time, i do hope for gerry and kates sake they do find out what happened to her and they will have to live with that
Aimee
didnt the mccanns say something about new leads or something. We would hear more on the oprah show they were on..where they were bringing her into the public eye in the states.

What amazes me is they dont use the big sporting games to put her picture out there, like the A1GP today on sky news they could have easily put her picture on there about her being missing as that is a WORLD championship.

Hopefully they are onto more than we know and she will be found!
sunny dayz
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Originally posted by Aimee:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
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Originally posted by Aimee:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
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Originally posted by cologne1:
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Originally posted by ilovewillyoung:
But they did n God help them they have paid for it,my heart goes out to them

Yes. And they will pay for the rest of their lives. I feel very sorry for them and I also dread to think what will happen when their twins are of an age to judge them. I hope they wont.

I didnt think of that. I know they did wrong n i can also remember fm on our old site saying awful things about them but i didnt cos they have paid for it a million times


i agree, they must pay for it everyday, i just can't get my head around why they thought it was ok to leave them

Dont know aimee,you r a mum n im a mum of 3 n nan of 6(soon 7) n i would never leave them on there own but they did n God r the poor sods paying for it,my heart goes out to them


imo the poor girl died not long after she disappeared, she was too much trouble to keep with the media all around at the time, i do hope for gerry and kates sake they do find out what happened to her and they will have to live with that


quite a few well known pyschics are saying she is alive!!
sunny dayz
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.
D
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Absolutely agree.
Liverpoollass
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Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Absolutely agree.

I agree too
*Punky*
Picture this.... A single Mother goes on holiday with three babies and leaves them alone to go for a drink/meal.

One of the children mysteriously disappears.

The press would have crucified this woman, as would the GBP and others around the world. I would imagine criminal charges would be brought, and social services heavily involved with the other children to ensure their safety.

A heart surgeon and a GP do it, and we have quite the opposite story.

Their status should not have been a 'get out clause' for their GROSS negligence and appalling behaviour - this is what has angered me for the last two years.

I do hope Maddie is found alive and well one day, but I don't believe for a moment that she has wonderful, doting parents. Sorry, but they did a terrible thing and this isn't something to sweep under the carpet because they have status in the world.
StGeorgina
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Agree,I think the wee soul is long dead too.
kattymieoww
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Originally posted by StGeorgina:
Picture this.... A single Mother goes on holiday with three babies and leaves them alone to go for a drink/meal.

One of the children mysteriously disappears.

The press would have crucified this woman, as would the GBP and others around the world. I would imagine criminal charges would be brought, and social services heavily involved with the other children to ensure their safety.

A heart surgeon and a GP do it, and we have quite the opposite story.

Their status should not have been a 'get out clause' for their GROSS negligence and appalling behaviour - this is what has angered me for the last two years.

I do hope Maddie is found alive and well one day, but I don't believe for a moment that she has wonderful, doting parents. Sorry, but they did a terrible thing and this isn't something to sweep under the carpet because they have status in the world.


This is exactly almost to the word how my mum sees it and i have to agree with you, that is the way this world is sadly
jujubedoo
They cocked up their risk assessment, possibly just in this one situation, and they and their kid paid the price. Shit happens.

Lordy, most days I see parents driving whilst using a mobile phone with their young kids in the back seat. Very poor risk assessment.

I see parents in my local Morrisons every time I visit who really shouldn't have kids judging by the way they talk to them. Some even smack them in public without any sense of shame.
FM
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Originally posted by *Punky*:
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Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Absolutely agree.

I agree too

I agree drum.
Windswept
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Originally posted by Windswept:
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Originally posted by *Punky*:
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Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Absolutely agree.

I agree too

I agree drum.


Also agree.
They were arrogant in their belief it was OK to leave the children.Its never OK to lave small children.As for their friends who left a child who had been vomiting???Words fail me.

Of course,the loss of a child must be devastating,and to live with the guilt you were responsible for your childs death, even indirectly,must be unbearable.But I also agree with St Georgina.Shaz from chav towers would have been hung ,dranw and quatered for leaving her kids to nip to the shop for her fags(scuse the stereotype..its just to illustrate).She would probably have had her remaining children removed or put on the at risk register.Yet she could have the defence of being ignorant to the risks.The professional classes aould never have that excuse and that makes me angry with them.
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Originally posted by Mazzystar:
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Originally posted by Windswept:
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Originally posted by *Punky*:
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Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
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Originally posted by drum:
I'm heart sorry for that wee girl and what she may have went through (I believe she's dead). I have some sympathy for the McCanns, but not a lot. They CHOSE to leave those babies, on their own, in a foreign country. There was a Nanny service in place.. they CHOSE not to use it.

Far too many grey areas in this case still. The McCanns are responsible for Madeleine going missing.


Absolutely agree.

I agree too

I agree drum.


Also agree.
They were arrogant in their belief it was OK to leave the children.Its never OK to lave small children.As for their friends who left a child who had been vomiting???Words fail me.

Of course,the loss of a child must be devastating,and to live with the guilt you were responsible for your childs death, even indirectly,must be unbearable.But I also agree with St Georgina.Shaz from chav towers would have been hung ,dranw and quatered for leaving her kids to nip to the shop for her fags(scuse the stereotype..its just to illustrate).She would probably have had her remaining children removed or put on the at risk register.Yet she could have the defence of being ignorant to the risks.The professional classes aould never have that excuse and that makes me angry with them.


Totally agree although i do have more sympathy for them now than when it first happened i found i got really cross about them leaving the kids especially when the twins were babies that was shocking.

I know people on here have said they have every sympathy with them mine goes to Madeline herself cause god knows what that little girl has been through makes me sick to think about it.
Shizzlex
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Originally posted by tupps:
I have sympathy. To lose a child is awful. However, I have no empathy. I am unable to understand why or how any parent would leave their children alone in an apartment, in a foreign country whilst they go out to dinner with their friends. To that end I am unable to buy into their grief.

I agree with the comments regarding double standards. Had that resort been Magaluf and the parents been two people from a sink estate, there would probably have been outcry.


Oh I don't know.
Take the Baby P case (please)
That's a scratter family sans pareil and it has been everyone else's fault completely.
The Police, social workers, medical profession, you name it.
Garage Joe
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Originally posted by Windswept:
Im sure theyre sick with sorrow that on that night it didnt work for them but how many times had they done this before?

None possibly. They had a nanny in the UK so maybe the day-to-day,ins-and-outs of looking after kids was quite new to them. Perhaps they thought that it was acceptable with the apartment being so close and it being a complex of sorts. Lots of people do, probably even now, and they certainly did when I was a kid. Public prosecutions have an element of being in the public interest about them. What would a prosecution serve in this case other than as a sop to the armchair retributive among us who have become very involved in this particular case. They've lost a kid in horrible circumstances. A couple of months in prison at worst is nothing compared to that.
FM
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Originally posted by Garage Joe:
Oh I don't know.
Take the Baby P case (please)
That's a scratter family sans pareil and it has been everyone else's fault completely.
The Police, social workers, medical profession, you name it.


Slightly different. Not really a true comparison. Maybe a better one would have been that case where some Mother, on an estate in the North I believe, tootled off to the Costa del Sangria leaving her kids at home to fend for themselves. I remember middle England Daily Mail readers and their ilk being apoplectic about that.

And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.
tupps
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them was convicted of murder.
FM
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Originally posted by tupps:
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Originally posted by Garage Joe:
Oh I don't know.
Take the Baby P case (please)
That's a scratter family sans pareil and it has been everyone else's fault completely.
The Police, social workers, medical profession, you name it.


Slightly different. Not really a true comparison. Maybe a better one would have been that case where some Mother, on an estate in the North I believe, tootled off to the Costa del Sangria leaving her kids at home to fend for themselves. I remember middle England Daily Mail readers and their ilk being apoplectic about that.

And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.


That's the point I am making.

*Begins to think that 2besomeone and his sinister sideboard pal may have had a point after all*
Garage Joe
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them were convicted of murder.


The Mother's boyfriend was found guilty of the charge of causing or allowing the death of a child or vulnerable person on Friday. He was also convicted of the rape of a two year old girl.

So yeah, I do know that. Wink
tupps
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Originally posted by tupps:
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them were convicted of murder.


The Mother's boyfriend was found guilty of the charge of causing or allowing the death of a child or vulnerable person on Friday. He was also convicted of the rape of a two year old girl.

So yeah, I do know that. Wink

Exactly, not murder.
FM
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them was convicted of murder.


They can flower up the legal name for it but in my eyes that child was killed by someone who should have been protecting him, will always be murder in my opinion
jujubedoo
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Originally posted by jujubedoo:
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them was convicted of murder.


They can flower up the legal name for it but in my eyes that child was killed by someone who should have been protecting him, will always be murder in my opinion

Oh, I don't really doubt the kid was murdered but one can't say that the bloke murdered the kid. It could have been the mother. The charge was chosen, I imagine, because they couldn't prove beyond doubt which of them did it. These things matter.
FM
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by jujubedoo:
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them was convicted of murder.


They can flower up the legal name for it but in my eyes that child was killed by someone who should have been protecting him, will always be murder in my opinion

Oh, I don't really doubt the kid was murdered but one can't say that the bloke murdered the kid. It could have been the mother. The charge was chosen, I imagine, because they couldn't prove beyond doubt which of them did it. These things matter.


Aaaah i see, sorry daniel,and yeh you are right who knows which one of the twisted pair did it
jujubedoo
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them were convicted of murder.


The Mother's boyfriend was found guilty of the charge of causing or allowing the death of a child or vulnerable person on Friday. He was also convicted of the rape of a two year old girl.

So yeah, I do know that. Wink

Exactly, not murder.


Technically, legally. No, you are right. The DVC&V Act created another offence in order to be able to prosecute members of households involved in the death of minors (notoriously hard to prosecute when members of households stick together and remain silent on who indeed caused the death). Maybe I should have made myself clearer. I used 'murder' in a laymans sense.

I'll remember to get technical with you next time. Wink

Shall we steer back to Madeline?
tupps
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by Windswept:
Im sure theyre sick with sorrow that on that night it didnt work for them but how many times had they done this before?

None possibly. They had a nanny in the UK so maybe the day-to-day,ins-and-outs of looking after kids was quite new to them. Perhaps they thought that it was acceptable with the apartment being so close and it being a complex of sorts. Lots of people do, probably even now, and they certainly did when I was a kid.


Sorry Deej,but I disagree.This isnt just a poor risk assessment choice,it's a diabolical one....and yes.they've paid the ultimate price in losing their child.And I dont suppose an inquest into what possessed them to do such a stupid thing will serve nothing.A sure they know.
Parents take calculated risks about their children every day.The first time you let your child cross the road alone,go to school on their own,when,indeed, you leave them in the house alone.All these children have to learn to do at an age appropriate time.Leaving your preschooler at such risk can never be wise.

But yes,its a moot point.It will never bring their child home.But it could have been worse.Their foolishness could have lost them all 3 kids had a fire broken out.
M
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Originally posted by Daniel J*:
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Originally posted by tupps:
And while I agree with you on the neglect of the proper authorities, to say it was everyone's fault completely is, imho, to detract from the culpability of the 'gentleman' who in fact tortured and murdered that little boy.

Actually, you don't know that. Neither of them was convicted of murder.

I believe both the mother and stepfather are yet to be sentenced concerning Baby P. Aren't they both still in custody and awaiting sentence later this month?
HyacinthB
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Originally posted by HyacinthB:
I believe both the mother and stepfather are yet to be sentenced concerning Baby P. Aren't they both still in custody and awaiting sentence later this month?

They've been convicted though. Or at least, he has and she pleaded guilty. Sentencing almost always follows later after reports.
FM
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