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Better than the alternative.
quote:Originally posted by Suzi-Q:
Better than the alternative.
I wonder sometimes.
Jen...it is at the minute but you WILL feel better!
Jen from me to you 
yep life is shit n sometimes i feel why bother
i try not to think how shit mine is,
One of my favourite sayings: 'Darkness is only the abscence of light and all winters must end'
jen, you will be happy again and have happy memories that make you smile and glad your alive to remember them
Some really good people in this thread having hard times for a variety of reasons 
Big hugs to you
Big hugs to you
Thanx peeps, just listening to this EDIT; This is the one that gets!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHagPodxu5g
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
croc i hope so, havent been on my own since she died til now. kindfa feeling it....... bloody miss that woman so much!
I've been there and honestly it will come and go but it will get better. Its hard while you are waiting for the funeral cos its like a limbo.
quote:croc i hope so, havent been on my own since she died til now. kindfa feeling it....... bloody miss that woman so much!
I lost my mum so now how you feel.
Time a great healer.
Nooo, Jen, Cologne, ILWY, life isn't shite, it's just that some bits of it are and unfortunately you can't avoid them. Think of all the good bits in life though. No matter how crappy things get, things always perk up eventually. Something good will come your way soon. 
i dont know anything about ur pesonal stuff Jen but hugs and im sorry for ur loss
quote:Originally posted by FGG Aka Crocodile Rock:quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
croc i hope so, havent been on my own since she died til now. kindfa feeling it....... bloody miss that woman so much!
I've been there and honestly it will come and go but it will get better. Its hard while you are waiting for the funeral cos its like a limbo.
Jen dont know whats happened to you but all my hugs n love to you
Hey you, sorry you are having a wobble...its still very new hun - it wont always be this raw. xx
Queen n ty
n ty
quote:Originally posted by cologne1:quote:Originally posted by Suzi-Q:
Better than the alternative.
I wonder sometimes.
Oi!
Sincerely sorry for your loss Jen.
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
ILWY, we had to turn my moms life support machine off last sat (27th)
Jen im so so sorry n please believe me i know how u feel cos i lost my wonderful mum to ms.hugs jen
Well you wobble away Jen...you're entitled to and we are here to listen
It's all still raw for you right now so just try and take one day at a time
It's all still raw for you right now so just try and take one day at a time
You know, I get very down at times. I came very, very close to snuffing it about 18 months ago. A lot of it is very hazy, but I fought my way back. My emotions are still very raw, and I can't handle simple slights very well. My husband or son can make the most innocent of comments and I take it the wrong way, or think they don't care, and even think about stopping treatment.
A lot times I think it would be so much easier if I just said, sod it all, and then something makes me smile, something makes me laugh, or I get a little thrill watching my seeds begin to sprout and think again about how really precious life really is.
Death is the easy option though, and very selfish and cowardly. I know you have recently lost your mother, Jen, but think about how she would feel. Would she want you to give up? Would she want you to remember her as thinking life is shite, or would she want you to remember her for the times you had together?
A lot times I think it would be so much easier if I just said, sod it all, and then something makes me smile, something makes me laugh, or I get a little thrill watching my seeds begin to sprout and think again about how really precious life really is.
Death is the easy option though, and very selfish and cowardly. I know you have recently lost your mother, Jen, but think about how she would feel. Would she want you to give up? Would she want you to remember her as thinking life is shite, or would she want you to remember her for the times you had together?
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Thanx guys, as someone said i'm havin a wobble
Wobbles are allowed. In fact wobbles are perfectly natural and healthy given what you're going through. Just remember that you will be able to regain your balance.
Jen I`m sorry
I do know how you feel. People said, time is a healer and I never believed it..but it is.
You`ll get there. My thoughts are with you Jen.
I do know how you feel. People said, time is a healer and I never believed it..but it is.
You`ll get there. My thoughts are with you Jen.
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Suzi you just reminded me a lemon merange (sp) pie fight me my mom and my bro hadgreat it was.
I hope it brought a smile to your face!
Lots of time, life is mundane, full of pain and misery but there are the good times that you can look back on and smile fondly.
Aww Jen mate
quote:Originally posted by Jenstar:
Suzi you just reminded me a lemon merange (sp) pie fight me my mom and my bro had
thats the way to walk over 'wobbles', what memories she left behind for you.....
oh how awful... I came into this thread thinking it would be some kind of wind-up.
It is very early days yet so be strong. I dont know the circumstances, but you all had to make the decision and you must have done it knowing you would be setting her free from whatever it was. Its a dreadful thing to have to do - but please stay strong and know that you did the right thing - my condolences to you hun
It is very early days yet so be strong. I dont know the circumstances, but you all had to make the decision and you must have done it knowing you would be setting her free from whatever it was. Its a dreadful thing to have to do - but please stay strong and know that you did the right thing - my condolences to you hun
awwwwwww, I have had definitely the WORST 6 weeks of my life recently. So Yeah, I agree, life can be absolute fooooooooookin shite at times. 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Jen it is normal to feel the way you do as it is very early days but as the above has said time is a great healer it never lets you forget just helps you to cope better, I really feel for you take care
it is normal to feel the way you do as it is very early days but as the above has said time is a great healer it never lets you forget just helps you to cope better, I really feel for you take care quote:Originally posted by langster:
quote:Originally posted by langster:quote:Originally posted by langster:
..better times maybe waiting tomorrow 
quote:Originally posted by cologne1:quote:Originally posted by Suzi-Q:
Better than the alternative.
I wonder sometimes.
Me too.