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It will be 10 years next month since my Mum died and I still miss her so much
Puddy  I understand. 10 yrs for me too but no matter how many years..I  don`t think I`d still feel any different. It`s such a loss when your Mum passes. No-one can prepare you for it. 
I try to look back on the good times to get me through it. It doesn`t always work but sometimes it helps to ease the pain. I believe, that our Mums and our other loved ones who have passed, are watching over us. I take comfort from that. I hope you do too Puddy and I hope the same for everyone who has suffered a loss. I truely believe we`ll see them again one day.
Scotty
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Reference:Toid
Feels strange for me as my own mother and I don't speak, at all.
I don`t what`s happened between you and your Mum Toid. Whatever it is, I`m sorry that it`s come to you not speaking to each other. 
All I will say is, that sometimes you (not you personally) don`t realise what you had, until after they`ve gone.
Scotty
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It will be 10 years next month since my Mum died and I still miss her so much

Puddy I understand. 10 yrs for me too but no matter how many years..I don`t think I`d still feel any different. It`s such a loss when your Mum passes. No-one can prepare you for it. I try to look back on the good times to get me through it. It doesn`t always work but sometimes it helps to ease the pain. I believe, that our Mums and our other loved ones who have passed, are watching over us. I take comfort from that. I hope you do too Puddy and I hope the same for everyone who has suffered a loss. I truely believe we`ll see them again one day.
Scotty, -my Dad then my youngest brother then Mum all died within 30 months but I can still feel their presence with me. As long as we keep talking about them we will never really lose them, will we?
Blackpudlian
Reference: Scotty
I don`t what`s happened between you and your Mum Toid. Whatever it is, I`m sorry that it`s come to you not speaking to each other. All I will say is, that sometimes you (not you personally) don`t realise what you had, until after they`ve gone.
You could be right, but in my case I never realised what a draining, negative impact she had on my life until I cut her out of it. ~shrugs~
Everyone who knows me says I'm much happier since. I'm sincerely glad you all have/had better relationships with your own mums than I did with mine, but it can't be helped.
Demantoid
What a lovely thread.  As I am busy sorting out appropriate verses for my husband who passed away nearly a year ago I thought I would copy and paste this verse, which seems appropriate.


I know a smile I would love to see
A loving face so dear
I know a hand I would love to hold
A voice I long to hear
I know a heart thoughtful and true
I know them all, because I loved you
squiggle
Reference: Demantoid
 You could be right, but in my case I never realised what a draining, negative impact she had on my life until I cut her out of it. ~shrugs~ Everyone who knows me says I'm much happier since. I'm sincerely glad you all have/had better relationships with your own mums than I did with mine, but it can't be helped.
I didn't have a great relationship with my Mum at times.   But still......
Smarting Buttocks
Reference: Puddy
Scotty, -my Dad then my youngest brother then Mum all died within 30 months but I can still feel their presence with me. As long as we keep talking about them we will never really lose them, will we?
No we won`t Puddy, and yes their presence is around us.  
I`m sorry to hear that Puddy. That must have a very difficult time for you.
Scotty
Reference: Toid
You could be right, but in my case I never realised what a draining, negative impact she had on my life until I cut her out of it. ~shrugs~ Everyone who knows me says I'm much happier since. I'm sincerely glad you all have/had better relationships with your own mums than I did with mine, but it can't be helped.
I understand Toid. I`m glad to hear you`re happier. 
Scotty
Reference: Squiggles
What a lovely thread. As I am busy sorting out appropriate verses for my husband who passed away nearly a year ago I thought I would copy and paste this verse, which seems appropriate. I know a smile I would love to see A loving face so dear I know a hand I would love to hold A voice I long to hear I know a heart thoughtful and true I know them all, because I loved you
That`s a lovely verse.  
I didn`t know about your husband. I`m sorrry Squiggles
Scotty

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