i int even got a b/f
quote:Originally posted by Marguerita:
I call it being promisciousor am I being old fashioned
Nope, you're not old-fashioned. Sex isn't a giveaway.
quote:Originally posted by Eugene's Lair:quote:Originally posted by ~LEE~:quote:Originally posted by Eugene's Lair:quote:Originally posted by ~LEE~:quote:Originally posted by Eugene's Lair:
Are we still not allowed to mention the orgy?
It was in BB's new housmates "teasers" that one of the new HM's was a "Bohemian" who had taken part in an orgy. We now know that this was a reference to Bea.
She was asked about it on her VT, but she refused to discuss it...
Ooooh so a few orgies and that's the 50 covered.
In all seriousness, I think that's why she was vague about the number. She wasn't being coy; she just doesn't know for sure...
Could be Eugene....Though imo it makes her such a hypocrite for being so judgemental about Noirin.....A girl kisses a HM another has sex with 50 men....The latter calls the former a hussy 
I am shocked i really amquote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
She then tries to make it sound better by saying it's only 5 or 6 a year
quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
She then tries to make it sound better by saying it's only 5 or 6 a year
Has she really said that? So wat is it then 5 or 6 a year since she was 14?
quote:Originally posted by Bethxx:quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
She then tries to make it sound better by saying it's only 5 or 6 a year
Has she really said that? So wat is it then 5 or 6 a year since she was 14?
She did say it, can't remember what age she said she started.
quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
Spoken like a true bloke
I'm a woman...I agree with him
and the more the merrier
I'm getting confused. Who's had 50 men? Bea? Or someone else on another programme?
I had forgotten she called Noirin a hussy , what a bloody cheek !!!
quote:Originally posted by jennywren:
I'm getting confused. Who's had 50 men? Bea? Or someone else on another programme?
Bea
quote:Originally posted by jennywren:
I'm getting confused. Who's had 50 men? Bea? Or someone else on another programme?
Bea and apparently orgies are involved.
quote:Originally posted by Bethxx:quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:
She then tries to make it sound better by saying it's only 5 or 6 a year
Has she really said that? So wat is it then 5 or 6 a year since she was 14?
She hasn't confirmed an exact number - just "less than 50."
If we assume 48, that would be 6 per year since 16. (Actually less, if we include boyfriends this year.)
hope she has had a wee check at the docs !!!quote:Originally posted by ~LEE~:quote:Originally posted by jennywren:
I'm getting confused. Who's had 50 men? Bea? Or someone else on another programme?
Bea and apparently orgies are involved.
quote:Originally posted by Cheeky-Pixie:Sorry, I think the programme and the whole concept is ghastly and condescending.quote:Originally posted by Bethxx:quote:Originally posted by Cheeky-Pixie:
Oooh, I ain't watched yet... I will watch on +1. Am watching that patronising crap programme on C4 about the rich giving to the poor.
Aw I watched that-- but I thought it was really sweet... felt so bad for the poor little kid in it he was so cute bless him
me too, last weeks was bad, but this week was
quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
Sex is more than just a bodily act. It's an extremely intimate act, unlike kissing, dancing or playing football. Bodies are not pleasure gardens in themselves, but can be pleasurable in the right, intimate, circumstances. If those circumstances aren't right, then they are guilt gardens and all sorts of justifications will be used to convince the self that throwing your body away on strangers is the right thing to do.
quote:Originally posted by MoFo:
WHAT???
She has had sex?
With other consenting adults?
DIZGUSTING!
just what i was thinking
if she enjoys sex and takes precautions and is careful...why the hell not?
Well saidquote:Originally posted by jennywren:quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
Sex is more than just a bodily act. It's an extremely intimate act, unlike kissing, dancing or playing football. Bodies are not pleasure gardens in themselves, but can be pleasurable in the right, intimate, circumstances. If those circumstances aren't right, then they are guilt gardens and all sorts of justifications will be used to convince the self that throwing your body away on strangers is the right thing to do.
quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:quote:Originally posted by jennywren:
I'm getting confused. Who's had 50 men? Bea? Or someone else on another programme?
Bea
Well, in that case, any respect I had for has just gone. And she called Noirin a hussy!
quote:Originally posted by Darthhoob:quote:Originally posted by MoFo:
WHAT???
She has had sex?
With other consenting adults?
DIZGUSTING!
just what i was thinking
if she enjoys sex and takes precautions and is careful...why the hell not?
Off course but why be so darn nasty to and about another HM kissing a bloke.
quote:Originally posted by jennywren:quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
Sex is more than just a bodily act. It's an extremely intimate act, unlike kissing, dancing or playing football. Bodies are not pleasure gardens in themselves, but can be pleasurable in the right, intimate, circumstances. If those circumstances aren't right, then they are guilt gardens and all sorts of justifications will be used to convince the self that throwing your body away on strangers is the right thing to do.
Guilt gardens? Our bodies belong to ourselves, nobody else. And who said anything about sleeping with strangers?
quote:Originally posted by MoFo:
WHAT???
She has had sex?
With other consenting adults?
DIZGUSTING!
Yes and has lost count but .........around fifty. I really wouldn't brag about it if that were me but ...........I guess I'm just a bit old fashioned.
quote:Originally posted by Skylark24:thats all very well, until, if she does get married, i am sure hubby will bring it up that she has had 50 men before him, sorry if i sound old fashioned but it does matterquote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
why should it? i've not slept with as many as 50 lol but considering i met my OH when i was 21 i had more experiences than him...and he was 10 years older
he NEVER mentions it, i dont give him cause to.
just cos someone likes sex, it doesn't mean they are going to be a cheater. i was only a hussy when single
she seems a friendly sort, what's the problem?
quote:Originally posted by ~LEE~:quote:Originally posted by MoFo:
WHAT???
She has had sex?
With other consenting adults?
DIZGUSTING!
You've gotta laugh haven't you?
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
quote:Originally posted by ~LEE~:quote:Originally posted by Darthhoob:quote:Originally posted by MoFo:
WHAT???
She has had sex?
With other consenting adults?
DIZGUSTING!
just what i was thinking
if she enjoys sex and takes precautions and is careful...why the hell not?
Off course but why be so darn nasty to and about another HM kissing a bloke.
well i aint defending her at all for that one lol...just how many men she slept with
what's BDSM?quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:quote:Originally posted by jennywren:quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:
People tend to put sex on such a pedestal. It is merely a bodily act, such as kissing, or dancing, or playing football. We should get to enjoy our bodies, without others crucifying us for it. It is not as if our bodies are going to last forever. Best to use them and enjoy them while we still can.
Sex is more than just a bodily act. It's an extremely intimate act, unlike kissing, dancing or playing football. Bodies are not pleasure gardens in themselves, but can be pleasurable in the right, intimate, circumstances. If those circumstances aren't right, then they are guilt gardens and all sorts of justifications will be used to convince the self that throwing your body away on strangers is the right thing to do.
Guilt gardens? Our bodies belong to ourselves, nobody else. And who said anything about sleeping with strangers?
Are orgies full of people who are intimate with each other? They're often full of strangers, as far as I know.
She's only 24, so she's hardly had time to become emotionally or personally intimate with 50 different men.
Our bodies do belong to ourselves, but, particularly in the case of women, they are nesting boxes for our future children, and, indeed, our children's children. (Diseases, such as syphillis, can be carried on through childbirth and on to future generations.)
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
I assume it implies that if we enjoy having sex with people we don't feel genuine love or affection towards, that we should feel guilty.
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
i was wondering that
She making it up.
quote:Originally posted by JacksonB:
she seems a friendly sort, what's the problem?
Sex isn't an act of friendship. It's an act of love, or at least, an act of lust. Otherwise, it's meaningless.
sorry i thought this was the judgemental thread, my mistake it's all abut horticulture and nature.
nesting boxes, guilt gardens.. how abut bush fires?
nesting boxes, guilt gardens.. how abut bush fires?
quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
I'd referred to our bodies as a pleasure-garden, but it's just as possible that misuse of our bodies can fill us with guilt. (Hence, guilt garden. Play on words.)
quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
I assume it implies that if we enjoy having sex with people we don't feel genuine love or affection towards, that we should feel guilty.
i really dont know what to say .....................I'm a different generation but ............having sex just for the sake of it .....................doesn't do it for me. It's all a bit sad TBH. But I know I'm considered an old fogey on this.
Still find it a bit sad ..........and shocking TBH. Where's the respect?
quote:Originally posted by jennywren:
Are orgies full of people who are intimate with each other? They're often full of strangers, as far as I know.
Orgies donât just randomly congregate on street corners.
Anyway, Iâm still a virgin, me. Pure as a
quote:Originally posted by Mathematics:quote:Originally posted by electric6:
What's a guilt garden?
It sounds like a BDSM party?
I assume it implies that if we enjoy having sex with people we don't feel genuine love or affection towards, that we should feel guilty.
Men don't but women often do. And in the modern world, girls and women are made to feel guilty if they DON'T enjoy sex, just as much as they can feel guilty for having sex they don't enjoy, but daren't admit it, because it isn't cool.
quote:Originally posted by WILDER X:
She making it up.
To be honest, I rather suspect she is, just as Freddie is making it up when he says he is bi-sexual. It all looks good on the BB CV.