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Originally posted by cologne1:
LMS, I know we don't see eye to eye over the HMs, but I understand how you feel. It's so difficult when your children get to an age when punishment is just shrugged off because they know it doesn't really affect them anymore. Keep letting her know that you disapprove, she still needs the boundaries even though she doesn't know it. If you don't, she will really go off the rails. Keep talking, even if it is through the slammed bedroom door.

will do hun, thanks for that xx

am gan out wid a 16y old now. am 21. we gan to pubs n clubs n that shes not bothed. makes a change from me last geriatric bird who just wantd to watch tv. lol

I never done any of that

Did I miss out?

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Originally posted by Lil misz:
I never done any of that

Did I miss out?

aye

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Originally posted by Little Miss Spurs:

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Originally posted by boltonfan2:
I know its not good but I always think over reacting is the worst thing you can do, it just seems to make them even more rebellious

Bit too late for that. Already happened. After everything she put me through last year, really shocked I am having this again. Just found photos on her friends facebook of her in this club, and they aint good

I really really sympathise

I have a 15 yr old who is at best of times duplicitous

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Originally posted by darloboy07:
I waited till I was 18 this year , awww LMS some of the underage kids fool the bouncers because they look older than they are and they ain't going to know they're underage. Most of them now ask for passports though. I was cringing last time I went out and there was some kids in there who were clearly underage .

Darlo...you sound so much like my eldest.Shes been pretty good til 18...now thinks she has the licence to do everything!

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Originally posted by Little Miss Spurs:
Dont think Im overreacting Not when she ended up in A and E a couple of years back with alcoholic poisining

I agree you are not over reacting. You are just being a responsible parent and worrying that your daughter will come to harm. How can you be sure that she isnt comeing to harm when you do not even know where she is. You are not a fool just a caring parent who give her daughter the benefit of the doubt but has been duped once again. You are in a very difficult situation and I hope it resolves itself without your daughter doing serious damage to herself or giving you grief and stress