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And she was fab! She was here for an hour and a half and said everything is looking absolutely fine and that I should be able to plan for a normal birth. She measured me, took my blood pressure, checked my urine and basically did everything that my midwives haven't been doing so far. She also told me that I'm probably better not having an epidural, contrary to previous advice, because it won't actually help me with the fatigue and is more likely to prolongue the labour and result in an instrumental delivery. She said so far there are no reasons that I can't use the birthing pool or balls or anything else that I want. She's based at the hospital where I am due to give birth and is going to take charge of my birth plan etc and she said as long as she is available she will personally assist in the delivery too. I feel miles better about everything now. I'm so glad you lot convinced me to complain. Hug

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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
And she was fab! She was here for an hour and a half and said everything is looking absolutely fine and that I should be able to plan for a normal birth. She measured me, took my blood pressure, checked my urine and basically did everything that my midwives haven't been doing so far. She also told me that I'm probably better not having an epidural, contrary to previous advice, because it won't actually help me with the fatigue and is more likely to prolongue the labour and result in an instrumental delivery. She said so far there are no reasons that I can't use the birthing pool or balls or anything else that I want. She's based at the hospital where I am due to give birth and is going to take charge of my birth plan etc and she said as long as she is available she will personally assist in the delivery too. I feel miles better about everything now. I'm so glad you lot convinced me to complain. Hug

Well done.. it must have taken courage to complain, but you have had a brilliant result... Thumbs Up Just goes to show if you hadn't, nothing would have changed probably.
lightfoot
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I know I don't *know* you, but I do wish you a happy pregnancy. I'm glad you've found a midwife you trust and that your plans for the birth all look positive.

When are you due? Smiler


wavey Hug 30th August.



OOoooh, exciting! Not long to go then. Hug


No, thanks goodness! Laugh I'd better start a guessing the sex/weight/date thread in a couple of weeks.
Queen of the High Teas
Thanks everyone. Hug It's a massive weight off my mind to have someone who knows what they're doing. I'm sure it wasn't a coincidence that my blood pressure reading was bang on normal for once either. It's just a shame I had to complain to get a decent standard of care. I hope it's a lesson we can all gain from this anyway, if in doubt, complain!
Queen of the High Teas
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Originally posted by scatterby:
Excellent Thumbs Up


Quick question Queen - have you had blood tests - I haven't had any since 12 weeks Confused


I can't think of any, other than the ones I had at 28 weeks, but they were to do with gestational diabetes and because I have a negative blood type. If your blood pressure is ok and blood type is positive, I don't think you should need anything else checked hun.
Queen of the High Teas
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by scatterby:
Excellent Thumbs Up


Quick question Queen - have you had blood tests - I haven't had any since 12 weeks Confused


I can't think of any, other than the ones I had at 28 weeks, but they were to do with gestational diabetes and because I have a negative blood type. If your blood pressure is ok and blood type is positive, I don't think you should need anything else checked hun.


Thanks Queen. I'm so glad you seem to have found a decent midwife at last - I bet you are relieved Hug
scatterby
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by scatterby:
Excellent Thumbs Up


Quick question Queen - have you had blood tests - I haven't had any since 12 weeks Confused


I can't think of any, other than the ones I had at 28 weeks, but they were to do with gestational diabetes and because I have a negative blood type. If your blood pressure is ok and blood type is positive, I don't think you should need anything else checked hun.


Thanks Queen. I'm so glad you seem to have found a decent midwife at last - I bet you are relieved Hug


I am. It's all getting a bit real now though. I think I'm just starting to realise that in around 8 weeks I'm actually going to have a baby. Eeker Laugh
Queen of the High Teas
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by scatterby:
Excellent Thumbs Up


Quick question Queen - have you had blood tests - I haven't had any since 12 weeks Confused


I can't think of any, other than the ones I had at 28 weeks, but they were to do with gestational diabetes and because I have a negative blood type. If your blood pressure is ok and blood type is positive, I don't think you should need anything else checked hun.


ahhh you're rhesus neg too huh?

least you only had to have one injection! Mad Big Grin
Darthhoob
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by scatterby:
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by scatterby:
Excellent Thumbs Up


Quick question Queen - have you had blood tests - I haven't had any since 12 weeks Confused


I can't think of any, other than the ones I had at 28 weeks, but they were to do with gestational diabetes and because I have a negative blood type. If your blood pressure is ok and blood type is positive, I don't think you should need anything else checked hun.


Thanks Queen. I'm so glad you seem to have found a decent midwife at last - I bet you are relieved Hug


I am. It's all getting a bit real now though. I think I'm just starting to realise that in around 8 weeks I'm actually going to have a baby. Eeker Laugh


That bit is quite scary isn't it? Eeker Big Grin
scatterby
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Originally posted by faerykelstar:
Hug Good for you Queenie, I'm very pleased for you.

Just a quick question for the peeps that have been/are pregnant... when you have a scan, how accurate are they at determining the dates of conception? I'm not preggers btw but someone I know is and it may turn a bit Jeremy Kyle if you get my drift.


I'm not really sure hun. I think they could be a week out with me but I can't be sure.
Queen of the High Teas
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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ahhh you're rhesus neg too huh?

least you only had to have one injection! Mad Big Grin


Why? Did you have to have more than one? Eeker


aye used to have 2...they changed it to one a week after my second injection Mad



Noooo! Gutted! Laugh


it's not so bad actually depending on the nurse you get lol. both injections were the same, the first one hurt like a bugger cos she took 2 mins to inject it...the second nurse stabbed me quickly and injected straight away and i had to ask her if she had done it Laugh she was much better lol!

you've had your one and only one then Big Grin
Darthhoob
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Originally posted by Darthhoob:
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Originally posted by Queen of the High Teas:
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Originally posted by Darthhoob:


ahhh you're rhesus neg too huh?

least you only had to have one injection! Mad Big Grin


Why? Did you have to have more than one? Eeker


aye used to have 2...they changed it to one a week after my second injection Mad



Noooo! Gutted! Laugh


it's not so bad actually depending on the nurse you get lol. both injections were the same, the first one hurt like a bugger cos she took 2 mins to inject it...the second nurse stabbed me quickly and injected straight away and i had to ask her if she had done it Laugh she was much better lol!

you've had your one and only one then Big Grin



Luckily, I had a pretty good nurse. I'm a complete coward as far as needles goes. Glance
Queen of the High Teas

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