i've been blubbing my head off...

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so....

not that i expect anyone to get this...but hey!!

15 years ago one of my best friends died from cervical cancer aged 42...she left behind 2 daughters aged 18 and 14

i stayed in touch with her hubby and daughters and then we all somehow just lost touch

pratting around whilst i was locked out of here i went on friends reunited..which i haven't been on for yonks....and her eldest daughter had left me a message in july..

it was so sweet and i completely lost it that she remembered me all these years later and i've been blubbing ever since

i don't know why i'm posting this cos it means nothing to anyone but me.

dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

and oh i dunno....

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Former Member

8/21/095:13 PM

Karma_Member

Awwww Spongey have a hug doll

8/21/095:13 PM

DirtyprettygirlthingMember

So something fab came out of the forum being down, even if it was down for Bea's eviction.

I should go have a gander at Friends Reunited.... I haven't been there for years. There are a couple of people from my past I used to keep watch for over there.

8/21/095:13 PM

robertsamMember

What a lovely thing to have happened

8/21/095:13 PM

BazMember VIP10 years

Awww

8/21/095:13 PM

skiveMember

Oh sponge hun

You blub as much as you like.

8/21/095:14 PM

Former Member

but also a

8/21/095:14 PM

Koala BrotherMember

def something good from the forum cacking itself

8/21/095:14 PM

EssieMember

Aw spongebob

8/21/095:16 PM

cologne 1Member Memoriam

that's good to bear in mind.

8/21/095:17 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

8/21/095:17 PM

charlisockMember

8/21/095:17 PM

AntichristMember

that's great news, well worth getting locked out for.

8/21/095:18 PM

darloboy (Play The Game!)Member

8/21/095:19 PM

skiveMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

It doesn't matter about the row, remember all the laughs you had in the years you were mates.

8/21/095:20 PM

Former Member

awwww, that's magic!

8/21/095:20 PM

jacksonbMember

ahh spongeypoos, c'mere , have a cuddle.

8/21/095:21 PM

Blizz'ardMember 10 years

Aww spongey, huge hugs!

Don't get snot on me, mind!

8/21/095:22 PM

Former Member

quote:
dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

Operative words I think

8/21/095:22 PM

cologne 1Member Memoriam

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

Do you feel that you argument was justified?

8/21/095:23 PM

Former Member

quote:
Originally posted by Blizzie:
Aww spongey, huge hugs!

Don't get snot on me, mind!

Blizzie! trust you!

8/21/095:24 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by cologne1:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

Do you feel that you argument was justified?

no....

without going too much into past things...i was a bit of a norty girl when i was younger..then i met mr sponge and told her i ws getting married...

she thought i couldn't settle down and was too immature etc etc...she came to my wedding though but her heart wasn't in it

8/21/095:27 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...

8/21/095:28 PM

Soozy WooMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
so....

not that i expect anyone to get this...but hey!!

15 years ago one of my best friends died from cervical cancer aged 42...she left behind 2 daughters aged 18 and 14

i stayed in touch with her hubby and daughters and then we all somehow just lost touch

pratting around whilst i was locked out of here i went on friends reunited..which i haven't been on for yonks....and her eldest daughter had left me a message in july..

it was so sweet and i completely lost it that she remembered me all these years later and i've been blubbing ever since

i don't know why i'm posting this cos it means nothing to anyone but me.

dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

and oh i dunno....

I totally understand 100% ................i lost my best friend when she was 44 ........she had an 11 year old and 13 year old son. I am still in touch 9although we live some distance away) ......when she knew she was terminally ill she asked me to keep in touch with her boys so that they would know who she was. I guess her husband would talk of her as a wife and mother. When i do see the (which is seldom) i do tell them things about when we were at school together and our teenage escapades.

I'm so glad you've regained a connection

I totally know where you're coming from TBH.

8/21/095:29 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by skive:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

It doesn't matter about the row, remember all the laughs you had in the years you were mates.

cheers matey xxx.

8/21/095:29 PM

Former Member

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...

OY! missus! we all have those times

8/21/095:29 PM

jacksonbMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...

i am often referred to as a right numpty....

**wigggles eyebrows**

8/21/095:29 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by Soozy woo:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
so....

not that i expect anyone to get this...but hey!!

15 years ago one of my best friends died from cervical cancer aged 42...she left behind 2 daughters aged 18 and 14

i stayed in touch with her hubby and daughters and then we all somehow just lost touch

pratting around whilst i was locked out of here i went on friends reunited..which i haven't been on for yonks....and her eldest daughter had left me a message in july..

it was so sweet and i completely lost it that she remembered me all these years later and i've been blubbing ever since

i don't know why i'm posting this cos it means nothing to anyone but me.

dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

and oh i dunno....

I totally understand 100% ................i lost my best friend when she was 44 ........she had an 11 year old and 13 year old son. I am still in touch 9although we live some distance away) ......when she knew she was terminally ill she asked me to keep in touch with her boys so that they would know who she was. I guess her husband would talk of her as a wife and mother. When i do see the (which is seldom) i do tell them things about when we were at school together and our teenage escapades.

I'm so glad you've regained a connection I totally know where you're coming from TBH.

thanks soozy...i think i'm just having 'if only' moment..

i can't turn back time but i wish i could

it was so sweet of her daughter to remember me

8/21/095:31 PM

Former Member

quote:
Originally posted by JacksonB:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...
i am often referred to as a right numpty....

**wigggles eyebrows**

8/21/095:31 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by JacksonB:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...
i am often referred to as a right numpty....

**wigggles eyebrows**

jackson...you always make me larf!!...

8/21/095:31 PM

jacksonbMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
quote:
Originally posted by JacksonB:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...
i am often referred to as a right numpty....

**wigggles eyebrows**

jackson...you always make me larf!!...

feck! i was aiming for horny.

ahhh well..

8/21/095:36 PM

skiveMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...

Ah shurrup

What will the possee do if you're not here wiv whippets n stuff eh lass!

8/21/095:38 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by JacksonB:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
quote:
Originally posted by JacksonB:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...
i am often referred to as a right numpty....

**wigggles eyebrows**

jackson...you always make me larf!!...
feck! i was aiming for horny.

ahhh well..

horny works too my man...

thanks xx

8/21/095:39 PM

TinaMember

awwwww bless you hun

aka nicklong 1

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
so....

not that i expect anyone to get this...but hey!!

15 years ago one of my best friends died from cervical cancer aged 42...she left behind 2 daughters aged 18 and 14

i stayed in touch with her hubby and daughters and then we all somehow just lost touch

pratting around whilst i was locked out of here i went on friends reunited..which i haven't been on for yonks....and her eldest daughter had left me a message in july..

it was so sweet and i completely lost it that she remembered me all these years later and i've been blubbing ever since

i don't know why i'm posting this cos it means nothing to anyone but me.

dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

and oh i dunno....

8/21/095:39 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

quote:
Originally posted by skive:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
fanks everyone xxxx.i'm going to feel a right numpty tomorrow...

Ah shurrup What will the possee do if you're not here wiv whippets n stuff eh lass!

yeah...gotta take tha whippets fer walk...

8/21/095:40 PM

jacksonbMember

always welcome , my lovely.

8/21/095:40 PM

Soozy WooMember

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
quote:
Originally posted by Soozy woo:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
so....

not that i expect anyone to get this...but hey!!

15 years ago one of my best friends died from cervical cancer aged 42...she left behind 2 daughters aged 18 and 14

i stayed in touch with her hubby and daughters and then we all somehow just lost touch

pratting around whilst i was locked out of here i went on friends reunited..which i haven't been on for yonks....and her eldest daughter had left me a message in july..

it was so sweet and i completely lost it that she remembered me all these years later and i've been blubbing ever since

i don't know why i'm posting this cos it means nothing to anyone but me.

dunno..maybe just brought home how important my friends are to me..how much i value them and love them

and oh i dunno....

I totally understand 100% ................i lost my best friend when she was 44 ........she had an 11 year old and 13 year old son. I am still in touch 9although we live some distance away) ......when she knew she was terminally ill she asked me to keep in touch with her boys so that they would know who she was. I guess her husband would talk of her as a wife and mother. When i do see the (which is seldom) i do tell them things about when we were at school together and our teenage escapades.

I'm so glad you've regained a connection I totally know where you're coming from TBH.

thanks soozy...i think i'm just having 'if only' moment..

i can't turn back time but i wish i could

it was so sweet of her daughter to remember me

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ........my friend has been gone for seven years but there's never a day goes by when I dont think of her. I sometimes dream about her too .............I feel really sad when I wake up and remember she's not here anymore.

8/21/095:43 PM

cologne 1Member Memoriam

quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
quote:
Originally posted by cologne1:
quote:
Originally posted by spongebob squarepants:
soz....yer know when things just get to you?

i had a massive row with her before she died and we never really made it up...and i never knew she was ill(it took her life in a matter of weeks)..and now i feel all choked up n everything...

Do you feel that you argument was justified?

no....

without going too much into past things...i was a bit of a norty girl when i was younger..then i met mr sponge and told her i ws getting married...

she thought i couldn't settle down and was too immature etc etc...she came to my wedding though but her heart wasn't in it

I understand that you are upset, but maybe the best way forward is to get on with her children. Live is full of shite and nice bits, in this case, just extract the nice bits.

8/21/095:44 PM

spongebob squarepantsMember

yeah...you're right cologne thanks xxx

soozy..i know exactly how you feel mate...

8/21/095:52 PM

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