Who is feeling like they can't post?! and more importantly, who has made them feel that way

I AM STAYING UP TIL THE SMALL HOURS NOW JUST TO HAVE THE LAST WORD!!!!!!11!!!1

Have people been driven away then, Soozy?  

It could just be a case of Monday-itus.  You know, back to work and all a bit tired after the weekend.

Bet I'll stay up longer than you . Maybe I'm a bit sensitive but - there;s a bit of bad feeling going around - it's not nice.

NO YOU WONT **wants last word** I am oblivious to it tbh and to think there was a time I was in the know with forum going ons....until my life got taken over with long hours and work and catzzz

Seriously Soozy, I think *that* thread died a death after being sorted and everyone moved on.  Or at least there were plenty declaring "no hard feelings"  And I was one of them

*is not staying up to have the last word*

Yeah .............................but someone hasn't come back ......and I like them ........................someone has hurt feelings (i know that) - and I know that feeling too when you feel everyones against you. I'm not wishing to stir things up honestly I'm not but .............let's have a clean slate.

It was done and dusted for me but I don't think everyone's feeling that way.

If I'm stirring please feel free to ignore ...................................................but if anyone;s out there feeling uncomfortable about posting please ..............................DON't ..........we can all post around each other. There's room for everyone!

And - I'm sorry to have bought it up ..............maybe a line should be drawn.

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It's still been a relatively small space of time since the thread was closed so I would say that people are just having a wee break and will come back when they feel they want to.

To take part in forums you do need a bit of a thick skin, I think some people are just trying to accumulate theirs and will post when they feel they are able.  It can be rough in forum land sometimes......you just have to keep at it and not let anyone make you feel small or that you don't have a place.

I don't give a fook about that!

I WANNA SEE THE ELELEPHANT! 

 I probably shouldn't say too much, so, to anyone out there -

good to see you Nellie,xx

I thought this was going to be about that advert I keep seeing over there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

for the mature dating site.  Not that I think mature dating is sad, it's the picture on the advert 

(please don't let the lady in the black dress sitting on the pine bed be anyone from here)

My ad is for grow your own garden 

Do we all get different ads?

They change all the time Soozy.  I've got one for something called a Snugg for ipads 

'been driven away' is an emotive  term sooz, it suggests a victim and an agressor to me, not helpful really.

Soozy I think everything was put right, the thread was closed and that was the end of it.  It can get a little controversial in forum land, I've had my feelings hurt in the past but you move on...I think when you put up threads that can cause controversy you shouldn't feel upset when controversy is what you get...I feel you are saying I had the last word on that particular thread and maybe I did but this was only because the thread was locked... I certainly did not drive anybody away because I didn't start the thread in the first place...as far as I am concerned its finished with but if you can give it you should absolutely be able to take it.  Maybe the meaning of all this is to think about the threads we start in the first place.  I don't bear grudges or harbour bad feeling so I hope we can all post happily together. 

Well said Marguerita.life's too short to worry about forum life.

I just saw that in the Valentine's thread You think they could find a better advert, I can;t imagine people rushing to sign up

Saz I'm so relieved that someone else has seen it.  I was starting to think I was having horrific hallucinations 

Wise words Marg. I know I wasn't involved with all the CBB hoohaa so don't know what was said but this raking up of dirt and navel gazing causes nothing but bad feeling and trouble.

Marg  From all the fora I have or do frequent you are the last person (and I positively mean the last person) who I would ever think would do or say anything hurtful or nasty to anyone, or drive anyone away.

You're the sweetest person I've ever met online x

I double checked to make sure it was real, Cinds 

I get those ads too Cinds and Saz... they're a bit 'readers' wives' looking

Not that I know what that is, of course...

There's nothing wrong with looking at reader's wives. If you look beyond the delightful young (?) things, it can be a great resource for furniture and decoration ideas.

I've just read it back and can see that it looks like that. It wasn't what I meant at all. TBH - I'm not sure what I meant and I did try to delete is this morning as I could see it was a bit like picking a scab. Unfortunately I don't have the know how 

I did not intend to start forum war again - honestly.

Thats okay Soozy..harmony is restored

@Cinds

I first saw that advert in Gypsies birthday thread! Now I'm not one to start a rumour but shes getting on a bit and that black dress does look a bit familiar!

Plus I'm sure she has lots of pine furniture ''zigger zig ahhhhh'' 

*** weeps happy tears *** 

Veggieburger  thank you 

It is only coz I didnt do her breakfast in bed this morning!

I can't remember where I saw it now (honest g'vnor), but it was a photo ad for a beautiful dressing table or such.  Unfortunately the seller, and I assume the photographer took the pictures while naked and standing in front of the dressing tables mirror. 

Better than writers' husbands? 

@ Zazz (sorry all I seam to have lost the ability to quote!)

Breakfast in bed cos its valentines day?....dont get me started

I got served in bed this morning. 

filth!

I got something hot delivered, but, as usual, he didn't leave it in long enough and too much milk. 

 Still got the same old faithful milkman then eh Blizzie?