i think its an easier life to be friends with shabby in that house roll on friday she might be gone.

I'm with you on that ....he is far too desperate to be liked by everyone ..............too much A*se licking all round for my liking. BIG GIRLS BLOUSE!

OHHHHH thank God.
I thought I was alone in this...and

He has stupid hair!!!!

I feel better already.

He's a vile Tory twat! Git im art!

h yes, his hair is very stupid.

good point!

(ello just.)

I don't think he wants to be "friends" with Shabby.
I think he just wants to be courteous; nothing wrong with that.
Nobody in the house could really be "friends" in the loyalty sense because it is a knockout competition and at some point they have to turn on each other.
I like Ben very much. Actually I like him more as time goes on.
I think he is by far the best housemate.

JB  well i would love to cut bens hair,

he may not want to be friends with her, but he certainly is going above and beyond what is called for in sensible hair land, to try to ensure he hasnt' been misunderstood by her...

He just wouldn't leave it alone.
Oh and his voice is silly too.

FFS what a stupid vile thing to say.

Surely Sunshine JJ  and Rachael have much worse hair than Ben.

Josie is desperate to be liked but no one says anything about her, she wont say a bad word against anyone in there,  its very unlikely she likes everyone in that house.

I like his voice.

Get the clippers out .......it'd be hilarious to see him with a shaven head.I read that his luxury to take into the house was a personal hairdresser. Shame he didn't get a decent style before he went in.

OMG I could listen to that voice all day.

and i dont do politics so i dont care if hes a tory, hes alright is Ben

I agree with the OP on one thing, Ben is trying too hard to be Shaby rent dodgers friend, shes not worth being a friend too.

Thank you. *bows*

Some people let their loony leftie politics cloud their judgements on everyone.

But she doesn't go around begging people to understand and like her. Ben smacks of desperation - the two are very different IMO.

I like Ben .... he's growing on me ..... as for shabby, he should have told her to get lost 

Your very welcome.

Or their loony righty politics. cf: "PC brigade", etc.

Sorry but I dont trust anyone who doesn't have a bad word to say about anyone, Josie is a radar dodger.

I think he's nice but very very dim.

How can he tell someone he thinks they "act" in the house and expect them not to be insulted?

Yes, I know, she did over-react...... doesn't make him any less dim though

The only problem with your post is that im not right wing, I've never voted Tory.   BUT yes I hate the PC brigade.

Yes he should have .....he didn't and I've kind of gone off him for that very reason. All this following her from room to room ....................PATHETIC!

Where did I say that my post was about you?

ben also has silly legs

jj's are nearly as silly but not quite

he's obviously well educated and has a good social circle...yet he constantly goes round saying..'well i apologise..i didn't mean it...i'm sorry..i didn't mean it'...he's like a character hugh grant would play.......i'm waiting for him to say to rachael.....'what i mean is,in the words of the partridge family,or i believe david cassidy is..i think i love you'.....

THATS who he reminds me of...
Harry Enfield's Tim Nice but dim.
Speaks like him, has hair like him...

OMG it is him

I am certified Sane and never voted Tory and Ben is just fine 

Yes and I wonder if he shaves them?

I'm not too sure about Ben yet.. need more time and it's got nothing to do with his stupid hair.

Well I wouldn't have been insulted. I would have smiled. He didn't say she being "acting" all the time, he said because she is an actress he wasn't always sure whether she putting on a performance for effect.She could hardly take offence when she had just previously told him that she she does indeed do that  and that she is a person of opposites - sometimes calm and sometimes dramatic over the same thing.I saw it as a perfectly friendly and harmless remark.

However, she was always going to pounce anyway, whatever Ben said. She'd already decided. I could tell by the cut of her jib. 

i dont think Bens ever met a Shabby before. goes to check out some legs.

He even has the mouth

I am going to say to him "you are Tim nice but dim and I claim my £5.

In the confines of the claustrophic group living of Big Brother some people may choose to cope by conflict, being larger than life and slaying the opposition.
I think Ben prefers people to get on courteously most of the time. That's one reason I like him.