Ok So maybe i didn't word my OP in the best way... (vodka does that to you lol) No ones upset me directly (for those who asked)
Others seem to have posted how i feel better than i did! Blizzie pretty much hit the nail on the head, It got baaaaaad during CBB, i thought it would have calmed by now but it hasn't. I cant remember actual posts (vodka does that too 
) Only the atmosphere, which wasn't too nice.
Sparkles also said it well, sometimes it's not what is posted but who it's posted by that determines the tone of the replies.
I dunno maybe i'm reading too much into things, maybe it's the first time I've gotten into this forum when BB has been on. Either way some the crap posted on here came across as mean and as someone else said those HM's aren't really worth it all are they?
You took a whole hour and one and a half pages before the true intention of this thread was finally made clear and yet I'm none the wiser as to who the coven culprits are (if it's me can I get a special badge, ta!).
In effect you loaded the gun and left everyone else to pull the trigger for you.
Another fine mess, Stanley 
I was a Madsen Maniac and my man lost.
The Denise fans are the victors so I can't quite grasp why they'd be licking any wounds.
I can't grasp why people are apologising after the event either. We supported who we supported at the time and now it's over. Sure, some people are strident when giving their opinion but I don't take them too seriously - they're just passionate or in a certain mood at the time of posting. It's quite easy to give them a nudge and remind them that it's us, their FM pals, and not some impersonal message board that they're playing keyboard warrior on.
Why anyone would harbour a grudge over something on the tv that is here today, gone tomorrow surprises me. And apparently some do 
and are baulking about it privately.
But obviously not privately enough because it's now been announced as fact in this thread, yes? So we're all at sixes and sevens wondering who, what and why!
Never felt uncomfortable or overly paranoid on here before. I do now.
Cosi
I gave up being paranoid because for me the worse did happen and now I just post randomly here and there.
I like this place - I will never ever feel 100% comfortable here again but that is probably a good thing in some ways.
People like to gossip and speculate - in the end we just have to accept that it is what it is.
I knew in BB we would squabble but it all works out in the end xxx
A reasonably measured discussion where folks can say what they think........ gosh I think we might have grown up! 
yes....and I had to dash from one thread to another one afternoon, all on my own, repeating the same stuff over and over......
