Don't know whether to 
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I am mostly
Doesn't he know I'm a goddess FFS?! I am working on a suitable Aztec curse...
or ...I am mostly
Doesn't he know I'm a goddess FFS?! I am working on a suitable Aztec curse...
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quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:
Don't know whether to
I am mostly
Doesn't he know I'm a goddess FFS?! I am working on a suitable Aztec curse...
my sympathy,
What a wuss!
You're best shot of him
You're best shot of him
How long have you been together?
How very brave of him?
How very brave of him?
quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:
Don't know whether to
I am mostly
Doesn't he know I'm a goddess FFS?! I am working on a suitable Aztec curse...
Just eff off would suffice. Sounds like your better of without him to be honest
Laugh, he's a coward.
Dumping someone by email or even text is actually good I think. It's practical and affordable.
And best of all... they don't get to see your reaction which is good.
And best of all... they don't get to see your reaction which is good.
Been there as well.
Just ignore it, ,dont answer it, men dont like that they WANT an answer.
More you ignore em, more they hate it.
Means you have dignity.
Hope your ok though
quote:I am mostly Angry
That's probably a good thing ..... the difficultys arise when you are mostly feeling
...... that would take longer to get over imo.Angry is good, means you can thrash out all your anger & move on
I dumped my son's first ever girlfriend by text 
He was 15 and didn't know what to write - so I let her down gently
Soz for you though
He was 15 and didn't know what to write - so I let her down gently Soz for you though
quote:Originally posted by Crunchy Nuts:
Dumping someone by email or even text is actually good I think. It's practical and affordable.
And best of all... they don't get to see your reaction which is good.
Sometimes your tenderness and old fashioned charm makes my knees go weak.
What a twonk - takes the cowards way out - you're best off without him
How rude!
I hate bad manners
I hate bad manners
Sorry to hear that Xochiquetzal
I always remember Phil Collins dumping his wife by fax, the coward.
I always remember Phil Collins dumping his wife by fax, the coward.
, you're better off without him but move on and you might meet that special person .quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
How long have you been together?
How very brave of him?
Only about 5 months... and yes, it's the braveness of the brush off that amazes me!!
quote:Originally posted by Crunchy Nuts:
Dumping someone by email or even text is actually good I think. It's practical and affordable.
And best of all... they don't get to see your reaction which is good.
Very true, it's always best to consider the cheapest option when making such a decision.
He's a plonker
quote:Originally posted by Rexi:
I dumped my son's first ever girlfriend by text
Soz for you though
I had a similar problem with my 12 year old foster son last year. He is totally not ready for a gf and this 12 year old who looked 15 got her mitts into him. She came to the door every morning to get the school bus with him and sent really grown up, inappropriate texts (he showed me them all!) He told me he wanted to dump her but could only do it by text. I told him to tell her to her face. This went on for weeks until I eventually said, "Oh just dump her" So he sent a "ur dumped" text
This is a long way of saying, sometimes, depending on length and nature of relationships, texts and mails are an acceptable way of dumping.
What a coward 
Ah well...next one might have a sexier voice
I'll definitely let you have Samuel L. Jackson first now Xochi
Ah well...next one might have a sexier voice
I'll definitely let you have Samuel L. Jackson first now Xochi quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
You are so sweet, now I know why everyone loves you
Was he at that thinking this is comittment stage ?
Or is he just an arse ?
It actually does my head in, the amount of men that wont TALK about anything.
My new man has already been told my rule and the lines he is not to cross or diss
SO far so good
Or is he just an arse ?
It actually does my head in, the amount of men that wont TALK about anything.
My new man has already been told my rule and the lines he is not to cross or diss
SO far so good
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:
What a coward
Ah well...next one might have a sexier voice
Awww! Thanks Super! My now ex had a very sexy voice, curse him....
quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
How long have you been together?
How very brave of him?
Only about 5 months... and yes, it's the braveness of the brush off that amazes me!!
5 months is quite long! What an arse.
Was it one of those long heart searching, it's not you it's me type of e-mails Xochi? BTW how old are you/is he if you don't mind me asking? I'm guessing not teenagers?
quote:Originally posted by Dora:
Was he at that thinking this is comittment stage ?
Or is he just an arse ?
It actually does my head in, the amount of men that wont TALK about anything.
My new man has already been told my rule and the lines he is not to cross or diss
SO far so good
Well done! Whip 'em into shape!
No... he wasn't thinking anything obviously now! And he is now just an arse!
quote:Originally posted by Tartanveggie:quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
You are so sweet, now I know why everyone loves you
Awww thanks
.quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:
Awww! Thanks Super! My now ex had a very sexy voice, curse him....
Plan B...a Joe Pasquale type voice next time then
quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:
Was it one of those long heart searching, it's not you it's me type of e-mails Xochi? BTW how old are you/is he if you don't mind me asking? I'm guessing not teenagers?
Both older, by a long stretch!
But he did exactly that... 'not you it's me'... 'hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me'!!!
Wow.... I thought it only happened in the movies 
... I hope you are ok...
... I hope you are ok... quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:
Awww! Thanks Super! My now ex had a very sexy voice, curse him....
Plan B...a Joe Pasquale type voice next time then
Like your clear-headed thinking on this one Super!
quote:Originally posted by Tartanveggie:quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:quote:Originally posted by Lindsxdx:
How long have you been together?
How very brave of him?
Only about 5 months... and yes, it's the braveness of the brush off that amazes me!!
5 months is quite long! What an arse.
Yes, it is a long time. I agree, a complete arse!
Although, in his slight defence...........at least he dumped you. Some guys just stop contact and hope you take the hint.
quote:Originally posted by pretty~cocoa~eyes:
Wow.... I thought it only happened in the movies
So did I pcp! How fashionable am I now!
I'll be fine... guess I should have seen it coming anyway.
Ahhh thats the worstquote:Originally posted by Tartanveggie:
Although, in his slight defence...........at least he dumped you. Some guys just stop contact and hope you take the hint.
quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:
Was it one of those long heart searching, it's not you it's me type of e-mails Xochi? BTW how old are you/is he if you don't mind me asking? I'm guessing not teenagers?
Both older, by a long stretch!
Pick yourself up, go out and look fabulous, be confident and smiley . Be with your freinds.
Wont be long till next one comes along.
If he wants you to forgive him, DO NOT EMAIL him back and dont text him either, especially a drunk one. Leave the mystery, cos i promise you, he will wonder and it will get to him
But he did exactly that... 'not you it's me'... 'hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me'!!!
quote:Originally posted by Tartanveggie:
Although, in his slight defence...........at least he dumped you. Some guys just stop contact and hope you take the hint.
He'd tried that one!
Old enough not to be messed around now, thankfully!
quote:Originally posted by Xochiquetzal:quote:Originally posted by Supercalifragilistic:
Was it one of those long heart searching, it's not you it's me type of e-mails Xochi? BTW how old are you/is he if you don't mind me asking? I'm guessing not teenagers?
Both older, by a long stretch!
But he did exactly that... 'not you it's me'... 'hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me'!!!
Aaaah how did I guess!....Seriously, I'd be really upset, hope you're ok
More importantly, do you have any of his stuff?
