She shows the classic signs of that behavioural disorder. 
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She absolutely is!
I'm no expert, but I see classic signs.
She starts the rows, then turns it around (because she does have the advantage of being able to communicate well) and makes herself the victim.
I'm GLAD Knobber came out to enjoy a moment or two of seeing her squirm, after being torn off a strip or two by Marcus!
Didn't enjoy it much, did she?
I'm no expert, but I see classic signs.
She starts the rows, then turns it around (because she does have the advantage of being able to communicate well) and makes herself the victim.
I'm GLAD Knobber came out to enjoy a moment or two of seeing her squirm, after being torn off a strip or two by Marcus!
Didn't enjoy it much, did she?
quote:Originally posted by *KG*:
She absolutely is!
I'm no expert, but I see classic signs.
She starts the rows, then turns it around (because she does have the advantage of being able to communicate well) and makes herself the victim.
I'm GLAD Knobber came out to enjoy a moment or two of seeing her squirm, after being torn off a strip or two by Marcus!
Didn't enjoy it much, did she?
Well she heard a few home truths, and she wasn't having it was she, hence her little tantrum.
I think Freddie will walk this time..... she'd been his Delilah. 
True.
She seems to have little or no self-awareness too.
In her eyes most people are wrong and only she is right.
Closed mind.
She seems to have little or no self-awareness too.
In her eyes most people are wrong and only she is right.
Closed mind.
Someone said it on here a while ago and it was pooh-poohed because she was the people's champion dealing with Noirin. Bea is a spoilt, petulant MONSTER.
I think she definately is. She starts the conversations and asks for opinions but when she doesnt like what she hears.....she accuses them of bullying and starts crying
quote:Originally posted by Videostar:quote:Originally posted by *KG*:
She absolutely is!
I'm no expert, but I see classic signs.
She starts the rows, then turns it around (because she does have the advantage of being able to communicate well) and makes herself the victim.
I'm GLAD Knobber came out to enjoy a moment or two of seeing her squirm, after being torn off a strip or two by Marcus!
Didn't enjoy it much, did she?
Well she heard a few home truths, and she wasn't having it was she, hence her little tantrum.
She can not take any form of criticism (however well meaning it is) and she has made an absolute show of herself. So glad I witnessed her this early morning, the HLs will not do it any justice.
And then 'BRING ON THE PRETENDY TEARS! FANFARE, TRUMPETS, VIOLINS!'quote:Originally posted by Videostar:quote:Originally posted by *KG*:
She absolutely is!
I'm no expert, but I see classic signs.
She starts the rows, then turns it around (because she does have the advantage of being able to communicate well) and makes herself the victim.
I'm GLAD Knobber came out to enjoy a moment or two of seeing her squirm, after being torn off a strip or two by Marcus!
Didn't enjoy it much, did she?
Well she heard a few home truths, and she wasn't having it was she, hence her little tantrum.
She's more pathetic than she actually believes him to be
Anyone who knows me KNOWS that I CANNOT BEAR WOMEN WHO TURN ON THE WATERWORKS! AAAAAARRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHH!
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
absofrikkinlutely
And she did it so patently obvious that I defy anyone to suggest how clever and shrewd she is anymore.
There goes Darlo again. 18 years old and more insightful and observant than millions older than him.
I reckon he is actually some balding 50 year old saddo pretending to be 18 
To be fair, she's just a cu*t.
I reckon he is actually some balding 50 year old saddo pretending to be 18
To be fair, she's just a cu*t.
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
Actually, there's nothing passive about her aggression....she's blatantly aggressive, so that's one term she's not guilty of. 
I think she is just a nasty piece of work
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
A person like Bea is probably the kind of person to fear most, because she cannot see wrong, she cannot feel empathy for others. she is quite happy to kick somebody when they are down surely that is not normal, is she a woman or a robot.
quote:Originally posted by mozart:
A person like Bea is probably the kind of person to fear most, because she cannot see wrong, she cannot feel empathy for others. she is quite happy to kick somebody when they are down surely that is not normal, is she a woman or a robot.
Or a sociopath?
Sounds like a possibility. Starting rows and trying to make other people feel bad about it, and guilty for something they haven't done. She is very manipulative and plays the victim a lot. Unfortunately for her the GBP aren't daft, and can see through her.quote:Originally posted by Videostar:
She shows the classic signs of that behavioural disorder.
quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:quote:Originally posted by mozart:
A person like Bea is probably the kind of person to fear most, because she cannot see wrong, she cannot feel empathy for others. she is quite happy to kick somebody when they are down surely that is not normal, is she a woman or a robot.
Or a sociopath?
whatever label you want to give her, one thing is for sure she really is not a nice woman. I see that she stole tea bags and a can of cider from freddies drawer last night. Then told charlie you told me to do it, so you got to put the can back. Now is she trying to get charlie into trouble now, not that charlie needs much encouragemt when it comes to stealing cider
quote:Originally posted by Liverpoollass:quote:Originally posted by mozart:
A person like Bea is probably the kind of person to fear most, because she cannot see wrong, she cannot feel empathy for others. she is quite happy to kick somebody when they are down surely that is not normal, is she a woman or a robot.
Or a sociopath?
that's the one! 
At first a lot of people thought she was playing a huge game. But i think she is just a complete nutjob. She really believes everything she says and thinks she is the victim.
She does have passive aggressive tendencies..first noted when she went out blubbing to david last week after part one of Freddiegate...but I think she got narcissism.She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own and has a complete lack of empathy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N...personality_disorder
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N...personality_disorder
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quote:She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own
Even so, it's a canny trick if one can pull it off.
quote:Originally posted by Garage Joe:quote:She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own
Even so, it's a canny trick if one can pull it off.
Agree!!Sometimes I wish I could!!I tend to veer towards martyrdom in efforts to appease others!
for the HL show I am sure Charlie will look like an angel!! he has NO understanding of the situation!!
Wait till she turns on Charlie and lisa... oh wait , she did that already in the beginning!! she is unreal!!
Wait till she turns on Charlie and lisa... oh wait , she did that already in the beginning!! she is unreal!!
Oh God!! I have just diagnosed my self as passive aggressive!quote:Originally posted by Mazzystar:
She does have passive aggressive tendencies..first noted when she went out blubbing to david last week after part one of Freddiegate...but I think she got narcissism.She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own and has a complete lack of empathy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N...personality_disorder
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quote:Originally posted by mozart:
A person like Bea is probably the kind of person to fear most, because she cannot see wrong, she cannot feel empathy for others. she is quite happy to kick somebody when they are down surely that is not normal, is she a woman or a robot.
She would make a good politician then.
Sorry, but this is not Bea:
The passive-aggressor expresses his anger in a passive way, by procrastinating, forgetting, resisting responsibility and finding fault with others. Rather than assertively expressing his own needs and wishes, says H.I. Kaplan and B.J. Saddock in Synopsis of Psychiatry, he develops resentment towards others for not meeting those needs.
In fact, Marcus could be!
The DSM-IV states that a passive-aggressive personality is indicated by four or more of the following:
1.resists fulfilling routine social and occupational tasks;
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition.
Read more: http://personalitydisorders.su...nality#ixzz0O3eWNTT3
The passive-aggressor expresses his anger in a passive way, by procrastinating, forgetting, resisting responsibility and finding fault with others. Rather than assertively expressing his own needs and wishes, says H.I. Kaplan and B.J. Saddock in Synopsis of Psychiatry, he develops resentment towards others for not meeting those needs.
In fact, Marcus could be!
The DSM-IV states that a passive-aggressive personality is indicated by four or more of the following:
1.resists fulfilling routine social and occupational tasks;
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition.
Read more: http://personalitydisorders.su...nality#ixzz0O3eWNTT3
quote:Originally posted by greenandpink:Oh God!! I have just diagnosed my self as passive aggressive!quote:Originally posted by Mazzystar:
She does have passive aggressive tendencies..first noted when she went out blubbing to david last week after part one of Freddiegate...but I think she got narcissism.She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own and has a complete lack of empathy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N...personality_disorder
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You're not a passive aggressive greenandpink.
The link explains "Narcissistic personality disorder"...if that's any consolation.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
Sorry, but this is not Bea:
The passive-aggressor expresses his anger in a passive way, by procrastinating, forgetting, resisting responsibility and finding fault with others. Rather than assertively expressing his own needs and wishes, says H.I. Kaplan and B.J. Saddock in Synopsis of Psychiatry, he develops resentment towards others for not meeting those needs.
In fact, Marcus could be!
The DSM-IV states that a passive-aggressive personality is indicated by four or more of the following:
1.resists fulfilling routine social and occupational tasks;
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition.
Read more: http://personalitydisorders.su...nality#ixzz0O3eWNTT3
Thank you Blizzie..
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
Yep,and they are all so dim that they cannot see this,well except for Marcus he has her well sussed out!
[QUOTE]Originally posted by langster:
There goes Darlo again. 18 years old and more insightful and observant than millions older than him.
I reckon he is actually some balding 50 year old saddo pretending to be 18
you could have something there langster - but it gets his post count up doesnt it ?? Einstein at 18 - WOW
There goes Darlo again. 18 years old and more insightful and observant than millions older than him.
I reckon he is actually some balding 50 year old saddo pretending to be 18
you could have something there langster - but it gets his post count up doesnt it ?? Einstein at 18 - WOWquote:Originally posted by Sky:
Thank you Blizzie..
You're welcome.
Every year, any housemates who get angry and cry are called passive aggressive, when it's really nothing like that.
quote:Originally posted by darloboy07:
She's so deluded and full of her own self importance and can't take any criticism. She has to use attack as a form of defense to make her feel better and the person she is attacking look weak, then she turns on the tears for sympathy then they all rally around her so she looks innocent.
Isn't that the default setting for a woman?
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by Sky:
Thank you Blizzie..
You're welcome.
Every year, any housemates who get angry and cry are called passive aggressive, when it's really nothing like that.
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition
Sounds like her to me.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:
1.resists fulfilling routine social and occupational tasks;
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition.
Blimey!
Guilty as charged 1-4. I must be one of them passive aggressives too. Not 5 though I am never envious of the bastards who are oppressing me.
quote:Originally posted by Videostar:
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition
Sounds like her to me.
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
Sounds like Marcus!
He wins.
quote:Originally posted by Blizzie:quote:Originally posted by Videostar:
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune
7.alternates between hostile defiance and contrition
Sounds like her to me.
2.complains of being misunderstood and unappreciated by others;
3.sullen and argumentative;
4.unreasonably criticizes and scorns authority;
5.expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more fortunate;
6.voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
Sounds like Marcus!
He wins.
Seriously tho, I think she shows signs of a personality disorder.
quote:Originally posted by Sky:quote:Originally posted by greenandpink:Oh God!! I have just diagnosed my self as passive aggressive!quote:Originally posted by Mazzystar:
She does have passive aggressive tendencies..first noted when she went out blubbing to david last week after part one of Freddiegate...but I think she got narcissism.She seems incapable of viewing the world through anyone elses eyes but her own and has a complete lack of empathy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/N...personality_disorder
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You're not a passive aggressive greenandpink.
The link explains "Narcissistic personality disorder"...if that's any consolation.