i met one of our fellow FM's a couple of months ago

lovely she was too

I went to Scotland Queenshanks..& met up with Jaggy Thistle & Fifi from the SIT...we had a great weekend!.......I live in Devon.

no

Yes, just the one. It was very odd to begin with, she kept calling me TiGi Hahaha

I kept calling the ladies I met by their user names...just seemed natural..cos that's how I knew them!...

I did ask this forummer...do you know my real name? Ha ha !

It's a comforting thought to know am not the only strange one.

I have swapped text messages with one....  but never spoken.

IF I did ever meet up with any of my fm mates... I would insist we kept our forum names!   Just too confusing to rebrand someone after all this time.

Ive had hoots to tea, but she wouldn't have any
ive conversed with ray
Strangey came for coffee
ive watched telly in bed with cinds
ive chased trollop round in his pants
ive snogged angel
ive stolen pepsis chips
and jonononono tried to kill me with drink

I've texted a couple of very good forum friends too.

I used an alias real name when I was internet dating....  I had kinda forgotten this when I met hubby for the first time....    til he started calling me across the car park  "Ellie, Ellie....."

oops I thought... best let him know that is not my name!

I've met several forummers and spoken to others on the phone - and not one of them had an axe hidden about their person

I'm "Moomin no mates"

 Ditty!....could be embarressing for a man in the throws of passion if he's calling another womans name!...

It's no big thing...really. It was just weird but nice too.

ditty, how long did you converse on the net before you gave him your number/arranged to meet (Im taking notes here )

Gyps....you've had Strange man for tea?

want me to come round and chase you round in your pants

Yes   I'm not saying who

That was to lull you into a false sense of security.. .just wait til next time you visit


mwahahahah 

No you're not.

Ermmmm... with Hubby it was two years...  and it wasn't really romantic net talk... we were just mates.

The one before that I ended up going out with for 9 months.... we had been internet chatting for 6 months before I agreed to meet him.

In between these two I did the dating thing.....   and there were a couple that I only chatted to for a couple of weeks before arranging to meet up in a very public place etc.

But.... for all of them... I had an alias 'real name'..... just in case!

The first time I spoke to a forummer on the phone... she rang while  BB highlights were on. .

Does she not know me at all???

i have, well coffee and a liquor chocolate

You  might be surprised by just what I keep under my hat

thanks ditty, i keep getting these online blokes giving me their number but im not sure what to do with them

I would have poisoned the coffee. Meh....that's just me

i love how you are all eeking at strangey to tea but not batting an eye lid that i snogged angel

You shouldn't be so damn looking...should you!

I want to snog Angle...I love her

she was okay

that is flippin hilarious   a person you meet on a BB forum rings you during BB

I think everyone is far too interested in whether any snogging was involved when you had Strangey for tea

Oooh... careful with them ones!!     When I was doing it.... I accepted that 99% were idiots, just after sexy time or weird!     The more chatting you do... the quicker you get at weeding out the eejits.

ALL of them that I met up with.... I had already chatted with either by pm or msn or something  for hours and hours.... to the extent where I kinda felt I knew them.   The ones that just rammed a phone number at you tended to want 'phone sex' (shudder)....  or something.

One word of caution though...    I almost chatted for too long with the first one....  I fell for the bloke I chatted to online... and when I met him, it was kinda him... but not the person I talked to online.... was weird.... I missed the online him.

Hubby was never supposed to be a date.... we were just meeting up as he was in the area and we decided to put faces to the online friend.

We met up at lunchtime for a drink.... by 7pm we were on my sofa reading the newspapers like an old married couple.   Married 9 months later!

I can report a no to that

A friend met someone called "Josh" online. It was only when they met he admitted he was actually a Kevin.  
They're married with a toddler now and apart from an unfortunate habit of calling her for a chat in work when he's sat on the loo they seem happy enough.

What makes you think I've got any on?  

Yeah thats the vibe im getting ditty, i think, dont give me your number i know feck all about you what am i gonna text you about ???? i dont think im cut out for online dating lark. anyway sorry queenie for hijaking your thread