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Originally posted by Bagel Queen:
aww hun I just seen this Listen to a wise ole fairy (thats me! ) you are at the prime of your life, 35 years old and you have choices:

1) you can go backwards and live your youth again through your daughter (NOT recommended in some cases, my mate did that when her daughter was 18 and used to go clubbing with her..all well and good but she started dressing like an 18 year old too..she is 40! )

2) you can stay still and in the rut you feel you are in now.. I know for a fact that you have brought your daughter up in a splendind way and she is a credit to you as you are to your daughter too...

3) you can move forward and start doing and liking things YOU enjoy! voluntary work to meet new people...dont try a bookclub at a local library like I did once...it was full of middle aged lonely woman doing the same lol!!

I hope you dont mind me saying this and I would never breach your confidentiality, real name, but you are on my FB and you are absolutley gawjuss, as is your daughter..find some one to go to an over 25s disco with and you will have a ball!! (over 35's I go to if I go )..you can really have fun and re-live your younger days through the music and no one laughs coz they are all doing the same!! just by you coming on here and askng for help is the first step..good luck hun